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DesFIP -> RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! (1/24/2008 7:34:19 AM)
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Drawing a line here between control, say being brought to the edge and not shoved over repeatedly during a day or for an hour straight and then given a totally overwhelming orgasm that leaves me shaking helplessly while he grins in delight and true denial which involves no orgasm for days, weeks or months on end. The first is great fun. As far as the second goes, nope. A couple of days of being teased and denied and I stop sleeping. Keep it up longer and my attitude tanks, I get bitchy and full of self pity, not helped by the sleep deprivation. Beyond that, I shut down and can't be aroused again, at that point we're roommates, not lovers, and I don't submit to a roommate. Also at that point I start to look at getting more pets, dogs, horses etc. Hell, if I'm living with a roommate, it should be one of my choice, where I'm in control. And what better than a dog who thinks I'm wonderful and wants nothing better than to be petted and come for rides?
I was celibate for five years without problems because I had the world's sweetest golden retriever. I got lavished with unconditional love. Cried into her fur when I needed and never got pushed aside or humiliated for my feelings. Unless my partner is doing things that are better for me than that, I'd take a pet anyday over human complications. Vibrators are cheap, if all a dom can do is orgasm play then I'll pass, thank you.
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