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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/10/2008 7:26:12 PM

Missokyst

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Shoot.. I need a window put up in my garage. I could manage a glare or two to make that happen. LOL but dang it, most sub males that ask me always want to play. None of them seem up to building things or sending me money.
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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/10/2008 7:54:04 PM

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Ok, I have decided I am just going to send this dude the link to my Amazon.com 20 page wishlist and be done with it. If he really wants to buy me stuff, there is plenty there to be bought.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 12:08:48 AM

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There's lots of lost maggots out there including myself.. If he feels like it why not??

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 2:29:41 AM

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Uhh, these people aren't actually interested in buying you anything. They're "letter freaks". They just get off on the contact, poor bastards. They were around before the internet and will be after...
There are also male submissives who will spam anything with two X chromosomes. They're desperate. Yes, they do need to go to munch and find a Domme, but either don't know it or won't- it's more fun to write letters and fantasize. I have asked several Dommes about this and they told me- also that a certain percentage of wanna be male submissives are such behavior problems nobody wants them and they're doing a lot of this. My apologies to all you great guys who are submissive, but there's a difficult percentage of any orientation.
Ignore them and they'll go away, but nobody's buying you a bunch of free stuff. They're just wasting your time. I've had the male sub spam attack too, and it's like that Nairobi Bank officer who'll release the long lost relatives million dollar inheritance after you send him twenty thousand in cash...

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 4:19:47 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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i'm a moderator for a Domme Yahoo group and i get "desperate" male slaves contacting me though it's against the rules all of the time.

i don't tell them i'm a submissive myself however i do tell them to find a Domme specifically tailored to their "i need to be trampled, stomped, kicked, hunted, etc" dreams. most i wouldn't consider slaves since they enjoy controlling what's done to them.

here i do get male submissives contacting me how they would love to be at my feet. too desperate to understand the color-coding i guess. one even wanted me to train him on how to be a good submissive a while back. then sometimes i might get messages from "watch me cum on cam" to "can i lick the cum out after you and Daddy have sex" - ewwwwwwwwwwwww!

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:01:59 AM

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Wait a minute. I have a heart beat also. How come I never get any of those letters?

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:03:35 AM

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i get the odd sub contact me but its mostly to say they like my pictures, i never get asked to be a Domme to them except wen on faceparty chat in the D/s room and then they just get ignored

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:04:13 AM

Dnomyar

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petpete if your a maggot when you turn into a fly I am going to pull your wings off. Mmmm I think I had better get back to work.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:12:06 AM

DiurnalVampire

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Fox gets random submissive email all the time. I get it here and there, not as much on yahoo in random messages as I used to. I get a lot of Dominant males who go from "You will serve me, on your knees wench" type stuff to "I'd happily give up my dominant side for you".
Someone contacting you on an anonymous messenger, though, and promising to take you shopping and such sounds way way too fake. Do you know his actual name? Spoken anywhere aside from yahoo? Have any sort of proof he isnt in this just for shits and giggles and is waiting to see how long you banter back and forth with him?

Is it wrong, no. Its what he asked for, after all. Is it likely to go anywhere? Probably not.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:15:21 AM

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i get messages from sub males all the time...usually they are asking if my Mistress would be interested in taking them on as a sub also....they are usually offering Mistress anything Her heart would desire and offering me endless "play time" at Her discression...we both just laugh and delete the messages

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:27:44 AM

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This isnt only limited to submissives. I get letters from Dommes and lesbians who want to be submissive toward me. It is one of the reasons that I take titles with a grain of salt. This is my favorite palce to hang out because you meet such a varied group of people.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:57:27 AM

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I agree with the above posters. I've had run ins from subs who said that they got off on dominant-out of thier league- women ordering them to buy them stuff. They are always full of hot air. I wouldn't believe this guy, especially if he is not willing to go to a munch and find somebody IRL. Good luck, keep us posted if he does pull through.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 5:59:26 AM

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Going to a munch does not mean that you are going to find someone there. It is just a way of networking.

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RE: Submissives approaching me...why? - 1/11/2008 6:35:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: moonvine

So, I get this IM on Yahoo (I have a very vanilla Yahoo profile) and a guy IMs me and asks me if I need anything done, if I am bossy, etc. I told him he was really barking up the wrong tree and tried to suggest he look for a Domme (I'm submissive) and get involved with the local groups, etc. He's having none of it, and I DO have a houseful of stuff I need fixed. He then offers to take me shopping and buy me whatever I want. So, I am not at all dominant and this would do nothing for me in that way, but if someone's offering to buy me whatever I want and it'll do something for *him*...is that wrong? I have no issues with people buying stuff for me. Heh.

my yahoo profile isnt all *that* vanilla but that screen name has "lady" in it. i get a LOT of trolls thinking i'm a Domme. not bloody likely.

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