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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:20:59 PM

laurell3

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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

Now, why can't I find a Dom like the OP?

jen

You can...you had a warrior...yesh woman how many you need?

rofl........

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:23:02 PM

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I'd not be a tramp to please anyone. I'd be a slut with my Dominant and only him but definately NEVER be a common bar whore just to please someone. Totally not my thing.

Good thing there are so many different types of people, that way we all manage to find someone that fits our kinks.

I'd not think it's rare, but definately not something I'd ever be interested in.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:27:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

He talked of them fondling her. I don't know what "and more" means, and I see people assuming this means having sex. Perhaps the OP can return to clarify. I don't think an STD can be transmitted from fondling a breast or ass...OP??

I'm not sure taking home people from the bars would be something I would do either though...then again, as I pointed out, I'm not him.

I have NO idea how I missed the part of the OP about bringing her home for gang bangs and photos. Thanks for pointing that out. I'm on codeine today...apparently it's affecting my reading comprehension!

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:35:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

You can...you had a warrior...yesh woman how many you need? rofl........

But laurell,
Remember, he did not want me. He said "He is far to extreme in His ways of slavery for sub."

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:37:25 PM

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Its common. Objectification is a huge kink, male and female. Personally, I dont see where the appeal of sharing comes from, but then again I dont like my boys having any sort of contact with anyone else. Like the others have said, as long as you make sure she is safe, enjoy. Just remember, the girl you are keeping has feelings too, so you need to make sure this sort of activity isnt going to have an unchecked negative impact on her. Its fun to play with your toys, but dont break them or you have to stop playing the games.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:38:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

You can...you had a warrior...yesh woman how many you need? rofl........

But laurell,
Remember, he did not want me. He said "He is far to extreme in His ways of slavery for sub."

jen

Good god Jen I was joking, you are too good for that.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:39:42 PM

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This sounds like a hot fantasy but I'd be really worried about STDs, even with protected sex, condoms break all the time and I would not be comfortable with this experience with strangers.

As far as slutting it up at the bar, I've done similar things, but I've ended up with a guilty conscience about it because it is really exploiting people non-consensually in many circumstances. My view is that if they are asking for it, if they come on to her and put themselves in that position it is cool, but to go initiate it yourself, or misrepresent yourself, or imply things that you don't intend to go through with are not acceptable in my opinion (not that you are doing any of that, just thoughts in general).

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:40:38 PM

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This thread is making me feel like old, cranky, conservative Aunt Martha.

If it's your thing, go for it.

And not to sound even older, and crabbier - but if I were to do these things, I would hope it wouldn't be for someone who feels the need to brag about it on message boards.

Off to go yell at kids to get off my lawn now:)

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 3:47:21 PM

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I have known a lot of people who does this and a few Doms who tried to get Me to do it with them lol. it is not a power exchange d/s relationshp just more so a sexual thing from the ones ive known

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 4:26:14 PM

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"You are forever responsible for that which you have tamed".

After you have ruined her reputation and self-esteem, what then? It's a common fantasy- for those responsible to use common sense when dealing with a live human being. Think this through.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 4:56:21 PM

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Why not just frequent swingers clubs and leave your home out of it?

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/16/2007 5:31:22 PM

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this leaves both of us completely cold, not something either of us would consider.
IF it is something that both of you want, and its done safely then.... who are we to criticise?
What a boring old world it would be if we were all the same

good luck
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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 6:17:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

"You are forever responsible for that which you have tamed".

After you have ruined her reputation and self-esteem, what then? It's a common fantasy- for those responsible to use common sense when dealing with a live human being. Think this through.

I agree LotusSong. Sounds like a great fantasy.
OP's ideas appear to be wank fodder.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 6:23:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tigrita

As far as slutting it up at the bar, I've done similar things, but I've ended up with a guilty conscience about it because it is really exploiting people non-consensually in many circumstances.

This is my thought as well, but I could not tell you the last time I spent more than 2 minutes in a bar.

Sinergy

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 8:13:42 AM

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Whats the difference between that and swinging?

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 8:23:51 AM

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I totally get and have in the past enjoyed your kink, as I entered the BDSM ranks through my aimless fornication and swinging in college. But it simply is not something I would do anymore for reasons of health and safety after witnessing some GBs that got badly out of control.

1) You get strangers like that together and, if you are on your own to police the event and enforce rules and decorum, you wind up helpless in protecting your sub when the pack mentality kicks in and the condoms get tossed, she becomes a cum bucket and suddenly larger and crazier items get inserted into her orifices, causing damage (and try to suppress the hard-on at the mental visual).

2) You do not know these people's sexual health and put your girl -and subsequently yourself- at great risk of catching some horrible STD.

It may not be as fun, but a whole safer for you and your girl to go to a play party where there is more role play than actual risk involved!

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 8:33:17 AM

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I generally agree with what most is being written here.

The acts in themselves can be of course can humiliating and degrading and most certainly objectifying but of course it depends on the individuals so to say they are automatic power exchange components would not be accurate if the woman would want to do the same things if it was not a power exchange relationship.

I mention this because obvious common is way too strong of a word but certainly this type of play goes on throughout all types of relationships so just have your wife play slut does not make it a power exchange thing but how it is done can be. Go to a search engine and type in “hot wife” or cuckold (dominant and submissive) and see the sites where men enjoy seeing their woman behave and do these types of things.

As far as safety goes as a slave who is very into sexual objectification and degradation I have done these things and enjoyed it very much. We all take risks in life and this is an area I do but that does not mean any risks and to me the extreme area of the OP writes would be a big issue with me. I have been gang banged and would expect my Master to have more control of the situation and safety concerns then getting a group of strangers on a given night. Like LA wrote, you can have something like that done in places where there are groups who are there for that type of play.

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 12:05:50 PM

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Good points here. Some sanity amongst us?

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ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete

1) You get strangers like that together and, if you are on your own to police the event and enforce rules and decorum, you wind up helpless in protecting your sub when the pack mentality kicks in and the condoms get tossed, she becomes a cum bucket and suddenly larger and crazier items get inserted into her orifices, causing damage (and try to suppress the hard-on at the mental visual).

2) You do not know these people's sexual health and put your girl -and subsequently yourself- at great risk of catching some horrible STD.

Dear HAPPYVoyear, a few more points to ponder:

A gang of hormone enraged, drunk, buck wild freaks could wake all the neighbors, who'd then call the cops, raid your sweet home, bust you for hosting - whatever- find weapons, drugs, and charge you - you'd take the rap. Who'd be fucked then?

Or the gang includes a fugitive, most wanted (who would have to escape)
He'd kidnap your sex slave, start a shoot out, kill some of the actors, 1 cop, and your dog.

Might be they'd steal all your valuables, tear up your house, trash the whole place, then burn it to the ground.

Or they'd still be mad horny after the slut is all done.
They'd be quite enraged - why they may gangbang YOU!

Oh. Have they signed a release form for the taping and broadcast...?

Hmmmn. Make a good story.

< Message edited by Peridot -- 12/17/2007 12:16:17 PM >

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 12:15:25 PM

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If pregnancies and STD's and what ever else nasty strangers could be carrying wasn't a reality I'd love gang bangs and fucking multiple people. However the reality I live in, diseases and nastyies do exsist so I am extreamly picky about sex stuff.

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ORIGINAL: sexyone4you

I'm curious about how many people actually go for this!

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RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? - 12/17/2007 12:22:52 PM

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If it floats your boat OP and its consentual, then bless you and have at it. Thankfully Master doesn't share me sexually with anyone.

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