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introduction - 12/11/2007 10:06:00 AM

reki

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Hello,

Only recently did I give in to feelings i've had since childhood and I want to explore these feelings completely. It does feel strange to me to read about all this and talk to people but I do feel its the right thing for me.

Only I am not yet sure what exactly I need and i think it will take some time for me to find out. I have feelings both to owning someone, being able to protect her completely yet I am afraid I would hurt her, do the wrong things and make her unhappy, which is making me apprehensive of going the dom route. On the other hand the thought of a woman having full control over me excites me also.
This does lead me to believe I am a switch. However as I have no real-life experience in either way, having only 'started' very recently I cannot be sure of this yet.

With all things in life, expectations and real experience might differ.

I hope that here I can get some guidance to find my real me, whether submissive or dominant.

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RE: introduction - 12/11/2007 10:07:50 AM

mnottertail

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welcome, dive in, swim for whatever shore seems the most pleasant, you can always swim to another, another day...

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RE: introduction - 12/12/2007 5:39:40 PM

CelticPrince

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reki,

Welcome to CM, I am confident as you read the boards, it will be helpfull in finding yourself.

CP

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RE: introduction - 12/12/2007 5:44:17 PM

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Thank you for your open and honest introduction, Reki. It sounds like you are very much on the right track to finding out what makes you tick.

Welcome.

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RE: introduction - 12/13/2007 10:50:56 AM

reki

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thanks for the kind replies.

I'm actively looking at groups in belgium now and trying to get the courage up to go and take a peek at a live meeting. Hope i'll find out more about myself and others there.

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