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stella41b -> RE: Where have all the real Mistresses gone? (12/5/2007 8:12:51 PM)
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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish
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ORIGINAL: bootw0rshipJT
But with 13 posts are they that familiar?!
Jt,
Ever check google?
Just because you don't know about Omega doesn't mean she hasn't been around for a very long time. A Lot of very well known dommes never post on collar me. They're too busy doing rt. Check out her boot pics and drool .
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From her bio:
Mistress Omega has been into the alternative bdsm lifestyle at the age of 16 then starting at The Chateau, then eventually opening several small commercial dungeons in the San Fernando Valley. Mistress Omega and Mistress Nicole, her partner of 10 years, launched www.OmegasLair.com about 7 years ago and officially opened Omega's Lair private 3100 square foot facility in Chatsworth shortly after that. From there Omega's Lair moved our Reseda location of 1200 sq. feet and built it from floors to walls and soon kicked off the still running event 'Slave Pit' which Mistress Cyan now runs, and 'After Hours'. Mistress Cyan became a partner of Mistress Nicole and Mistress Omega in the Reseda location close to a year after we settled in.
And, also from google:
"One of the best features of DomCon is the Saturday night party. ....
"But that's not all that Saturday night offers; there will also be a fetish fashion show, not to mention an amazing full-suspension bondage demonstration by Mistress Omega and Sir Slave -- the latter being suspended by shark hooks some 15 feet in the air."
Get off Omega's back folks,
Irish
I've had to really stop and consider this, but I'm going to come back here.
I've read the above, and I'm writing as someone myself with my own reputation (please feel free to check out my website) both in and outside the BDSM community, and I'm sitting here having read all the above and thinking 'Is that all?'
I'm writing here as a submissive who was properly trained over 5 years by an excellent Pro-Domme who is a genuine OWK Mistress and who works internationally in Europe, she doesn't need the Internet nor postings, and also she doesn't need to promote herself or to put other Dommes down on the basis of some spurious self-assigned title and claims. And no, I didn't pay I was her personal submissive.
But that was some years ago. In the past. It's no longer important.
Very honourable for someooe to stick up for her, but isn't it also a bit childish to be playing games of 'I'm real and nobody else is as real as me or my friends'? Yes, I admit I have done the same, but it was a long time ago and I was six years old. I'd like to think I've grown up a bit.
I mean, what is this 'ever check Google'? Doesn't take much to be listed by Google, anyone who's got a personal website on Geocities or Fortunecity can be listed in the Google search engine, or for that matter any other. Is your friend, for example, listed in Wikipedia? I am, and I know other people who are also.
I wouldn't mention the fact if it wasn't to illustrate that there's always someone greater and better than you. Ah but you see YesMistressIrish what your friend and that other JessykaPowers fails to realise is, that if they have to go round promoting themselves and saying how great they are then they can't be all that great, can they?
And let's face it, if the only thing you can be great at is playing spanky botty, tying people up and wearing great boots I mean... not much of an achievement is it? It's not really going to save the planet. or bring any benefits to thousands or even hundreds of thousands of people.
I don't come here to promote myself.. here on these boards i'm just 'stella', nobody and nothing more, because for one, I don't need to promote myself, and for two, I want people here to get to know the real me, not my image or 'persona'. I don't need a persona, I'm quite interesting in my own right.
So too are all the other Dommes and other people here, they're real people, and it doesn't even need to be considered. Every other Domme here on these boards, you included YesMistressIrish and your sublime Domme friend, you are all real and genuine. There's a lot of people out there who are really special, and they don't have to be famous, or well-known, or found on Google.. they're probably great parents, good mothers and fathers, doctors, lawyers, nurses, police officers, business people, people who are great in their own individual way and have their own definitions of success.
I know of a Domme, a black lady, in the States, who for the past 40 years has not only helped thousands and thousands of submissives in her studio but she's also given thousands and thousands of dollars away, and worked thousands and thousands of hours doing voluntary and charity work.
You can google my SO and find her, but not for tying people up with shark hooks and wearing great boots, but you can actually read about the lives she saved during Hurricane Katrina. Not only did she save lives of people who would have for sure drowned and been swept away by the flood waters but she also has been helping people ever since.
I have no wish to belittle you or your friend YesMistressIrish, and what is it to me or anyone else if she wants to call herself sublime Mistress Goddess and be great at playing spanky botty and tying people up in big mansions and having fetish fashion shows? Her life, her enjoyment, her reputation and her fun. I have no need to make judgments here.
But surely someone so long in the community should be aware that nobody is any better than the next and that we are all individual and oh so very different from each other and anyway what does it matter? I'm posting here not to belittle or ridicule others or to start conflicts but to help, inform and teach and hopefully try and resolve conflicts.
This is one of those threads which should never have been started on these boards, but we see it time after time after time - 'I'm real, everyone else is fake, everyone else is a wannabe...nobody is as good as me..'
No need to tell anyone how good you are.. as it invariably shows. But if you wish to play the fool and force people to accept you for who you're not, then I'm sorry, you deserve everything you get in return.
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