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Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 5:22:57 AM

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List all the ways that you know using which you can find dom or sub for relationship

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 5:24:55 AM

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Look.
Talk.
Both worked for me

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 6:44:12 AM

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After reading about how you want to cane someone bloody in a fit of anger, and how you think that being bossy and raising your UM to be submissive to you... there is no way in hell I would give you any advice

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 6:53:34 AM

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After reading about how you want to cane someone bloody in a fit of anger, and how you think that being bossy and raising your UM to be submissive to you... there is no way in hell I would give you any advice

After seeing this, I checked her post history. Jebus. And I thought the ungracious manner in the OP was disenchanting enough.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 6:54:52 AM

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If you really want to be a dominant and have a sub/slave, first learn. Read books, read the forums here and elsewhere. Get involved in your local bdsm community, attend demos, watch, listen, learn. Find what's right for you. Work on you first so you have something to offer a prospective sub/slave. From your posts here so far, you aren't ready for the responsibility of owning another.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 6:58:08 AM

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 9:46:04 AM

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The OP evidently needs anger management classes and some 'how to classes' in how to be a Mistress as julia pointed out.

The BEST way to find a partner, make your profile attractive to the kind of person(s) you want to encounter, have profiles up on more than one site; and if you are like me, put one up on match.com you would not believe how many kinksters are on there {shake smy head}.

After yuo find someone who you would like to meet, meet them in a public place {leave the toys at home}, and go from there, a Starbucks card always helps too.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 9:48:00 AM

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Just sit here and look cute. (I'm not kidding it actually works)

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 10:39:11 AM

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..so far it seems to me the easiest way is to be female.. I've had no luck meeting anyone either serious (not just looking for a fuck) or honest (not using fake pictures or lying about the age). Men have to hunt, women just have to; as joanus said... " Just sit here and look cute. (I'm not kidding it actually works)"

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 10:47:49 AM

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I swear it works!

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 11:05:03 AM

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quote:

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List all the ways that you know using which you can find dom or sub for relationship

why can't you do this yourself?

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 11:22:01 AM

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Aslie 5 in at Slaves/subs 'r' Us.

Heck fire, they might even have them on holiday special or you can just check the bargin bin.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 11:38:49 AM

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How about a giant glue trap? A field trip to Home Depot or Lowe's? For females trying to find a master...a nice rack? The possibilities are endless.

For me, I just basically pestered Mistress into submission! LOL She took me on as Her slave just to shut me up! LMAO!!!

Or did She just pity me? Hmmmm...maybe pity is another good way! Either way, I'll take it! I found my Queen

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 3:34:52 PM

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Smoke signals, CETI, fortune tellers, bathroom walls...

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 3:37:40 PM

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quote:

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List all the ways that you know using which you can find dom or sub for relationship

Put an ad in Gardener's Weekly....."maniac looking for slut flesh for knife use"...works for me...

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 3:53:32 PM

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try your local biker bar... walk in the door stand on a table in your best short leather skirt and deep diving v neck blouse ... do a wolf whistle to get their attenton and then yell these words * hey rednecks .. which one of you wants to be my bitchboy ? * and enjoy the dozens of applications you get

or as mentioned several times .. learn about the lifestyle and train yourself first . then consider a potplant and after a year consider a sub if the plant still lives

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/28/2007 7:00:42 PM

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Walmart> in the gardening centre
Home Depot> in the lumber section near customer service desk
Canadian Tire> automotive section, aisle 10

Seriously, I had one find me from seeing me in the local mall. He approached me, we dated and split up. Once we reconnected, we resumed a friendship with benefits and also I am helping him explore the dominant side to his personality and bringing out the sadist in him.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/29/2007 4:00:53 PM

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just send out as many email messages as you can ( numbers game you know) and make sure you use words like 'slut, whore, cunt, pig-sissyboy--all of the above in the first contact--should work very well for someone like you

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/29/2007 4:19:49 PM

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I hope nothing works for you honestly. You need an education and serious therapy.

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RE: Ways to find slaves/dominant - 11/29/2007 5:29:06 PM

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I checked out the OP's profile & her recent posts on CM. She's young, 20, and is in need of obvious education. IMHO, she needs a mentor and a xanax.

(Though I hope she doesn't get ahold of anyone in the near future for r/t play).

OP, do you have any r/t experience? You didn't say much in your profile other than you're "probably" looking for slaves. Are you sure you're a Top & not a bottom or switch? Are you sure it's not your own ass you see bloody & caned?

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