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RE: Question for the females - 11/19/2007 5:13:08 PM

xoxi

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ORIGINAL: Sexynmentalinkc

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ORIGINAL: charlotte12

And a quick note, my perfect sexy man found me on the forums. Taking an active part in the message boards is a good way for people to get a real notion of who you are and your thoughts on many things.

The content of the profile and pics on it (or missing from it) aside...

I can certainly attest that participating in the forums is a great way for someone to be drawn to your profile and see the work you may (or may not) have put into it.

So............forums = good. Empty, lame profile = yuck.

*tips his hat*

- Mr. S

Agreed 100% While I do love what my Master wrote on his profile, I never would have seen it if he hadn't been on the forums. I don't browse profiles unless it's looking for a laugh...I wasn't really *searching* for anyone. I loved what my Master had been writing on the forums so I clicked to his profile...I loved what he wrote on his profile so I tossed him a little flirty note.

Now I'm in his apartment procrastinating about going to the grocery store to go get stuff for dinner while he is at work.

To expand on this advice...I would say that the more 'interesting' people are on the forums not just the personals side. The personals are just for meeting someone for a relationship or sex. On the forums you can make friendships (which are great foundations for relationships) and actually see how compatible you are with someone ideologically. Of course having a profile they can click to is pretty important too. As far as that goes just be yourself - you don't want to attract ALL women, you want to attract compatible women.

Writing your profile in a way that five thousand monogamous chicks like it won't do you a bit of good if you're poly, y'know?

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RE: Question for the females - 11/19/2007 5:32:07 PM

lanie38

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Being articulate with correct spelling, proper grammar, wit, intelligence and knowing the difference between *their* and *they're*...all a good start to capturing my attention...

~lanie

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RE: Question for the females - 11/19/2007 5:40:06 PM

SirJohnMandevill

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Not female, but responding anyway. I'll try not to repeat too much of what's already been said.

-- Be honest. If you're married, bi-, poly, extraterrestrial or whatever and you don't mention it, it can be an unpleasant surprise if you contact someone.

-- Think of your profile as an invitation. Give enough information to make readers curious, but don't overwhelm them with verbiage, especially boasting how great you are. Don't talk. Brew!

-- If you're a humorous person, use it, albeit sparingly, in your profile. You don't want to come across as a jokester, just give the impression it would be fun to be with you, vanilla or kink.

Les (Illegitimate son of Dave Chappelle and Marie Osmond)

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RE: Question for the females - 11/19/2007 6:15:47 PM

LadyLegs

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gee I think most Doms just haven't met the right woman yet... or something like that

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RE: Question for the females - 11/20/2007 1:56:46 AM

dominic2008

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Thanks very much to everyone that responded.

A consensus about stating who you really are rather than pretending to be,which could be a problem as maybe you are expected to at least exagerate
But then if you exagerate too much it will backfire on you as you say.

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RE: Question for the females - 11/20/2007 10:30:50 AM

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I like profiles where it is not a list of demands for whatever submissive or slave they are looking for but a list of qualities that they have for themselves. I would be MUCH more likely to contact someone that said "I am a smart, funny, handsome, nice guy who is strick and likes to have things my way" then "I want a sexy, hot, blond barbie who will make me breakfast in bed everyday and rub my feet and knows how to rotate the tires" I know who I am and what I have to offer... what do YOU have to offer....

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RE: Question for the females - 11/20/2007 10:42:38 AM

servilecat

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i view relationships like a great dish well served....list the ingredients you have in your pantry and hopefully someone else has the rest of the ingredients in their fridge to make that perfect dish.....basically just list the ingredients youre willing and able to bring to the bowl.