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RE: Morals, judgement and kink - 11/19/2007 3:27:56 AM

exquisitefeline1

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when life is as busy as it is. Some of us are out trying to make dreams happen thats why nice little neat boxes work. Its a quick resolution to simple problems people make difficult and should not be.
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If you like drama go for it. Just when you get older the stupid stuff seems pretty lame and you just want no part of it. If you do maybe you have issues. There is a balance to things for each of us it is different but the end result is the same. We all want to be happy.

Drama. over it. He was a friend for many many years, however there are times you just shouldn't hang out.

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RE: Morals, judgement and kink - 11/19/2007 5:27:46 AM

Celeste43

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Next time, call the cops and have him arrested for sexual harassment, trespassing, threatening sexual assault, etc.

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RE: Morals, judgement and kink - 11/19/2007 2:12:25 PM

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okay so everyones attitude was right, i thought i was good at boundaries in most cases, but i am not. i thought it was ok what happened also but it is not.
i do feel assaulted now, i think my jaw is dislocated, and i could not sleep last night, finally at 3 am i took something and had a shower, i am in so much pain, i can barely move my mouth, and my head thumps. i have not heard from my bf so i think it is over... i planned to do a lot of work today, but i think i will just go to bed instead.

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RE: Morals, judgement and kink - 11/19/2007 3:06:48 PM

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I am guessing this is a common thing for us kinksters?

Not really. I'm sort of person where if I say no and mean no and you disregard my no... I'm likely to introduce you to my friends "Mr. Sharp Sword" and "Ms. Flaming Stick". Or the cops. Ya know... whatever is handy.

Though I definately have been come onto by "vanilla" folk who mistook my liberal attitudes towards sex and willingness to talk about it as flirting. It is uncomfortable but I try to view it as a miscommunication. They are used to one thing, I am used to another. Hopefully we can meet in the middle somewhere.

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RE: Morals, judgement and kink - 11/19/2007 4:27:39 PM

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I have definitely had the experience AquaticSub is describing. Some people see a sexually aware and open women as someone who either will sleep with anyone, or at least who is clearly flirting with them. Often neither is the case. We aren't going to bed down with anyone just because we are kinky, just like we are not going to submit to anyone just because they are dominant. Really some people jut don't get it. Make sure your communication is clear and your boundaries are firm and all should be well.

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