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laurell3 -> RE: Daddy/daughter roleplay... (11/21/2007 11:39:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lumus
'Roleplay' doesn't imply anything on reality. If you are only performing RP and this isn't an actual D/g relationship, the intensity could simply be from touching on a taboo. I like girls in nun costumes. I'm not about to rape a whole convent.
Or, more pertinently: I am in a D/g relationship and one of my children [from a previous relationship] is a teenaged female. I'm not going to substitute my girl abdi in my mind with thoughts of my daughter when we have sex, nor am I a paedophile; paedophiles who seek the opposite sex are rare to begin with, and their ability to connect sexually with an adult of the opposite sex is virtually non-existent.
The assumption is easy to make, I guess. Research shows otherwise, but try explaining that to someone for whom the topic is a hot button. [;)]
This isn't actually true Lumus. The current research of reported cases shows that the true pedophilia you speak of is much less common than people that have either experienced prior abuse and are unable to distinguish appropriate limits but may never act on them (this is the smallest majority and a national recent study actually showed that people of prior abuse are much less likely to be perpetrators than others and the numbers are improving dramatically with better attitudes about reporting and treatment at a young age) and are open sexually with inappropriate people of either sex and the largest category is the dv/controlling types that use sex as a manner of control and isolation of everyone including inappropriate ones. They also will most likely not demonstrate any noticable behaviors around them and can be socially quite appropriate. All three can be labled pedophiles by their actions, but have very different reasons, treatment, actions and appearances.
None of us know whether you should worry OP. If it bothers you or you think there's a real possibility, do what you can to protect yourself and others. However, assuming that someone has kink means someone would act in a reprehensible manner is far fetched speculation. It reminds me of the boyscout leader that came out as gay and was fired because he shouldn't be around um's.
I at times enjoy causing a partner rather intense physical pain that is not pleasurable to them. However, I'm not going to run out and beat on the general public and am in fact a complete pacifist. There are a number of people here I'm sure that might enjoy interrogation or rape roleplay that aren't going to go out and rape or interrogate/torture people in a nonconsentual manner. These are just examples, but you get my meaning, I'm sure.
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