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ORIGINAL: sophia37

This is one big bummer. This guy in no way sees himself as being a problem. He thinks he's being straight up. From a womans view I totally see where you would be freaked. SO. Try to see it as a mis-communication.

Please. Take a deep breath. He may not be stalking you. He called you on your profile. You denied. That is all so far. It hasnt gone any firther other than you insulted him by denying, so he called you names. Correct? So off to a very bad start.

If you have yourself on websites as so-and-so, and in the future someone says, hey, you look like so-and-so, what will you do? Why could you not own up to your own posting? Why are you afraid of that?  

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Other than that, there might be every chance that you might never hear from the guy again....If you suddenly stop posting I will at that time assume that I was incorrect......Good Luck!!!

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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl
Then he blocked me.
 

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ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind

Sammie,

Make the police report anyway. That puts this on record as a potential problem and keeps the police from pulling a CYA by saying they knew nothing about it.

The guy has not threatened me in any way, so I really have nothing to report. He, so far, has done nothing illegal.

Since you mentioned you are living in a secure facility I am going to take a stab and guess you are there because of a problem with someone else. There's a good chance your stalker may be keeping tabs on you on that third person's behalf. Looking at it that way makes it a lot more serious.

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What is it about the word NO that turns some adult men into children?

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

What makes you think that women are immune from pulling the same kind of bullshit?

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Carry a camera with you at all times.  Make a FULL-police report.  Talk to a scetch artist or if you have a friend that can draw have them draw a picture to get as close of a description as possible.  Make copies of ALL the emails and IM conversations who have had and give one copy to a trusted friend who does NOT live in your building; give the other to the DA or police, don't tell them that you have another copy.
 
If you see him again, watch him for a few moments and get a GOOD look at the creep, if you see him gettign tinot a vehicle, take a picture of him getting into it, the more pictures you can get of him following you and his vehicle the better your case later. 
 
You may want to consider deleting your current profile and starting a new one, WITHOUT your picture and have a note 'picture avaliable upon request' or something to that effect.
 
I'm sorry this has had to happen to you; I have been there a few times.  One guy took pics of me getting in and out of my car and left copies on my windshield the next day.  A buddy of mine saw him a week later following me as I was driving to meet a date; someone at work had thought it was weird that someone was by my car and the survalence from my office caught him on tape.  He is now spending time in jail for stalking among other crimes, I wasn't the first person he had done that too.  SO the creep who is stalking and harassing you, may be doing this to others.