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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 7:10:19 AM

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There was never another road for me... I was raised from day one to be a dominant female... now when I hit the fork in my road .... thats another story all together.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 9:14:19 AM

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What would you say was the first time in your life that you discovered you like things of the BDSM nature. Even if you didn't know it was BDSM.

About the age of 5 or so.

But on the opposite end, I'm endlessly amazed at how many folks in the BDSM "world" do things of a completely vanilla, "normie" and/or average manner and think it's BDSM in nature... being active in the online and reallife community, I'm constantly amazed at how many folks talk about how much more amazing their sex life or relationships are now that they are into BDSM -but then go on to describe as their example(s) what is basically just good ol' vanilla sex/relationship arrangements. :)

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 4:56:00 PM

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When I was in thrid grade, I tied up a neighbor (she was a year older). The feeling that came over me was so thrilling. We kissed and I untied her. She liked it when I snuck up on her, grabbed her and kissed her. She corrupted me.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 9:26:11 PM

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I'd say my biggest dissapointments (and pet peeve to this day!) were when I'd actually win a bet and the loser wouldn't go through with it. Ooooh!

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 9:29:00 PM

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I blame it all on disney-bastard kept tying up hayley mills and parading her in front of me.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 3:08:09 AM

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I don't know if you could even ever consider me having been vanilla. I've accepted this part of me before I dated anyone, third grade I think it was. As to influences, hmmm, Star Wars and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (yeah try to figure that one out), but mostly just my own twisted mind as to my view of the perfect world.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 4:33:37 AM

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Unfortunately, I had to discover my interest in BDSM several times. When I was around six or seven, I used to fantasize about the girls in our yard going out in the evening, dancing naked, and doing anything I wanted. I told stories of this to another boy about my age.

In teens, I found myself having these dreams in which I was tied up and sexually tormented by a girl in my class.

After high school, I found a number of graphic novels in the net about women being put to slavery and tortured to death with sex. It was so awsome.

It took me a long time to accept who I am. I guess partly because my inner self is into some very heavy things (such as torture and death) which I would never do in real life. And because I had a rather conservative christian upbringing which made the point of sexuality being bad very clear. And of course, it was relatively easy to believe, knowing the kind of fantasies I had.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 4:41:41 AM

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Oh you people are just sick!!

I had a bossy Mum. I blame her for all of this.

Actually, I can't honestly say it's a sexual thing for me. I don't get turned on by beating anyone up and that kind of thing. I just like someone who'll cook and clean and do what the hell I tell him to do. When I tell him to do it. And not expect never ending thanks and flowers and praise. Of course when I'm not stressed and overworked and tired, because my boy did it all, THEN I'm horny.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 5:50:10 AM

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When I was a school-age child - in class - those maple real-wood desks with the hole for the liquid ink that was never used - dreamily looking up to the smiling teacher in spit curls - I used to dreamily imagine lifting her skirt - no questions asked - as I made her sit bare-butted on the snow outside - a nice red apple in her mouth ....

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 8:14:14 AM

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I used to tie up my Barbie dolls and torture them. That was all they were good for anyway.

<grins>

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 9:30:34 AM

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I don't recall what age I was....quite young...probably around 7 or 8..I was watching a western movie..this guy was strung up by his wrists with rope and was getting whipped.
I got this "strange feeling" in my girlie parts...course I didn't know why or what that feeling was back then.
After that, I was hooked on western movies...always watching for the bindings and whippings.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 12:38:39 PM

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Yeah...needless to say..."Secretary" is a great movie!

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/18/2007 12:43:32 PM

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...and now I'm heavily into BDSM. So heres a question that I know has been asked about...oh...lets say...128,476,978,001 times.

What would you say was the first time in your life that you discovered you like things of the BDSM nature. Even if you didn't know it was BDSM.

For example, for me...I would say that I discovered this side of myself when I was very young and discovered the "...well, if I win then you have to be my slave for a day and do WHATEVER I say."

Of course back then...it was completely non-sexual. But still, my curiosity in that "single" style bet (which is ALL that I ever betted) was STRONG.

Now some of these discovery stories are tame like mine, and others are purely sexual.

Regardless, how did you get find yourself on this road?

I know I got off on power by the time I was 14 and sexually doing things I don't think many 14 years old did. I was pretty popular where I lived and there were these two girls that both had a crush on me, so I would have to them "prove" it to me.

Some things I would have them do is carry my crates (record crates to school dances). Suck off my friends and three way kiss while we masturbated. I had a Polaroid camera so I'd take pictures. I made them call me Boss (which was sorta of my "DJ name at the time).

When I was 16, I remember having sex with my girlfriend after she got the wind knocked out of her and that turning us both on.

Simple things like that

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