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Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/16/2007 11:22:25 PM

OnyxDelphi

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...and now I'm heavily into BDSM. So heres a question that I know has been asked about...oh...lets say...128,476,978,001 times.

What would you say was the first time in your life that you discovered you like things of the BDSM nature. Even if you didn't know it was BDSM.

For example, for me...I would say that I discovered this side of myself when I was very young and discovered the "...well, if I win then you have to be my slave for a day and do WHATEVER I say."

Of course back then...it was completely non-sexual. But still, my curiosity in that "single" style bet (which is ALL that I ever betted) was STRONG.

Now some of these discovery stories are tame like mine, and others are purely sexual.

Regardless, how did you get find yourself on this road?

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/16/2007 11:26:52 PM

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I paid the cover charge and never looked back...

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 12:08:53 AM

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I've had my interest since I can remember. I always enjoyed tying up dolls, playing cops & robbers, tying myself up with socks. Then I discovered the sexual aspect to it.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 2:31:05 AM

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quote:

I would say that I discovered this side of myself when I was very young and discovered the "...well, if I win then you have to be my slave for a day and do WHATEVER I say."

When I played this game or anything similar, I'd play to lose and cheat if I had to.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 2:37:11 AM

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I can't remember anything specificly as a child. But when I was 12 I saw my first porn on showtime and the guy had the girl bent over a desk and I kept thinking 'is he going to spank her now?' I soo didn't realize why I wanted him to at the time.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 2:42:31 AM

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I was 7, maybe 8 years old, Mom took me to the drug store and while she was getting some things I was off looking at comics at the magazine rack. I then pulled up this True Dectective magazine and looked at the cover. It was full color with a scantily lingerie clad woman in high heels tied every which way but loose to a chair and gagged. All I knew was WOW! and I have been obsessed ever since. Have even gone onto ebay searching for that magazine again, I'd pay damn near any price to have a copy of that framed.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:15:52 AM

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I'll keep an eye out, I could always use the extra money.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:18:45 AM

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I used to tie up my Barbie dolls and torture them. That was all they were good for anyway.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:37:05 AM

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I went to a church sponsored day-camp when I was about 8 and the younger kids like me all had counselors that were high-school aged girls. Of course I had a massive crush on all three that lead our group. One day while at the lake one of the other boys took the counselors sweat- shirt & tossed it in the water. She put him otk & spanked him right there & I was thinking, "God I wish that was me!"

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:37:59 AM

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LOL, Dari! I used to do the same thing. There was always an evil Queen Barbie would do terrible things to King Ken and all the girl Barbies. They had to sleep naked, tied to the bed, and they were always getting spankings.

My mother walked in on this once, and we had a very awkward discussion. I wonder if she remembers that...

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:38:43 AM

TotalState

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I think I always was attracted to it. The imagery, the fantasy, the power exchange. I was drawn to books, films, comics that featured it, and I just thought I was appreciating "darker" sexual art.

Then I found out that actually being in the lifestyle wasn't just for weirdos (or rather, that I was fine with being a weirdo), and I started looking at it in a whole new way. I never looked back.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:41:28 AM

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I was a teenageer and sailed hobie cats on the beach. Always had ropes on the tramp and places to tie off. Even attached the haylard line to her arms so she couldn't sit down. Sold the hobie cat and the fun was gone. Ropes went with the boat. Damn! :( Now im back and im stayin!

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:47:36 AM

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I was once a nice innocent nilla well mannered well behaved never harmed anyone. THEN THAT ASSHOLE SLAPPED ME AND THE WHOLE WORLD CHANGED. Damn Doctors claimed it was to get me breathing and they do it too all new borns.

Eric
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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:49:41 AM

shellzbythesea

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

...and now I'm heavily into BDSM. So heres a question that I know has been asked about...oh...lets say...128,476,978,001 times.

What would you say was the first time in your life that you discovered you like things of the BDSM nature. Even if you didn't know it was BDSM.

For example, for me...I would say that I discovered this side of myself when I was very young and discovered the "...well, if I win then you have to be my slave for a day and do WHATEVER I say."

Of course back then...it was completely non-sexual. But still, my curiosity in that "single" style bet (which is ALL that I ever betted) was STRONG.

Now some of these discovery stories are tame like mine, and others are purely sexual.

Regardless, how did you get find yourself on this road?

i'm not sure which came first...the "scene" in a Charles Bronson movie where my mom sat glued to the screen, distraught over what was being done to his wife and housekeeper, and i sat glued...but for a completely different reason...

Or the time in my 5th grade class room when for some reason it was just myself and a boy alone and he sat next to me on the bean bag and threatened that he could do anything he wanted to me while everyone was away...and even after they came back into the room i dreamily wondered what "he wanted" might be, all day (week, okay...school YEAR) long. lol

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:51:40 AM

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An 80's movie called wax works in which the Marquis de Sade was torturing a woman. I so wanted to be her, not that i knew why.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:52:09 AM

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i stumbled across my step-dad's porn and saw a girl on girl spread. one was at the other's feet cuffed and gagged. i remember thinking that i had to do that someday.

brattysarahjane

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 5:54:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

An 80's movie called wax works in which the Marquis de Sade was torturing a woman. I so wanted to be her, not that i knew why.

The 80's had a lot of "interesting" movies, or at least interesting parts. lol

i remember one called "I Spit on Your Grave" and another called "Last House on the Left" both with some hot stuff...not necessarily bdsm, but relative to it.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 6:04:28 AM

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I was 62 years old and saw my first naked woman. I was hooked from then on.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 6:17:31 AM

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I remember my tastes evlved from when I was about 4 and I obsessively thought about how the witch kidnapped hansel and gretal and cruely made them to housework. By the time I was about 6 these fantasies took on a clear heterosexual form.

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RE: Once upon a time...I used to be vanilla... - 10/17/2007 6:54:54 AM

ranrich

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It is all Bettie Page's fault.

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