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FullCircle -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 5:23:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: murmur
You cant judge someone. Judging is putting a quality to something that is already *fixed* and that cant be changed.
People are always changing. Therefore, they arent something to put a label on. The last thing on earth to do to a human being.
Labels are stupid. As the people who put them on other people. They does so because it comforts them to know or to think they know they have found the real truth about someone. They are so wrong.


OIC you are one of those anti label types: A Nolablist.




murmur -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 5:26:22 PM)

lol - thanks for putting labels on me!!! I feel so fine now that you have discovered me. Feeling much better now lol.[:D]




FullCircle -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 5:28:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: murmur
lol - thanks for putting labels on me!!! I feel so fine now that you have discovered me. Feeling much better now lol.[:D]


I've also found a pigeon hole to stick you in, one previous owner, low rent.[;)]




Darkmike -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 5:34:47 PM)

I thought it was a woodpecker hole.

Sorry, am I labeling the hole?




breatheasone -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 6:03:59 PM)

Haven't read all the replies...so this is just my take on the OP...labels are what they are.... as for attacks for having an opinion....well some people just have an over whelming need to be right...and to do that they have to make someone wrong....I'm ashamed to admit I have done just that at times...I struggle to keep an open mind at times. Since I have met my Master He has been very helpful in helping me see things...all kinds of things from a different perspective....He is a wonderful man.




murmur -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 6:54:09 PM)

lol i got my own place, thanks! :-D

Darkmike : aww, you're cute! [;)]




iammachine -> RE: CURIOUS AS TO WHY (10/6/2007 9:09:46 PM)

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We are all supposed to be adults right? We are all entitled to our opinions and we should all have the right to agree to disagree; yet it seems that many people are attacked for their opinions.


Sounds familiar. The truth of the matter is, a lot of people have a really hard time seeing beyond their own perspectives. Some people just like to argue, and some are obsessed with being "right". The problem with opinions, is that everyone has them, and they're subjective. Being subjective in nature, you can't really quantify or pass value judgements on them, since, well, they're kinda personal in nature. Arguing over opinions is pissing in the wind.... unfortunately, there's a lot of really pissy wind.

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Also why do we need to place "LABELS" on one another? Can't we just be what we ARE?


Because  having classification for "stuff" helps people understand it more readily. Life is much easier when everything has a place and a name. Instead of making tons of qualifying statements about someone, you can simple stick a tag on 'em and be done with it. Some people balk at labels, others revel in them. Either way, they're kind of a fact of life, and can only hinder someone as much as they may allow themselves to be confined by an achetype.







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