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DocRudy -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 7:47:54 PM)

~fast reply~

I submit that I am sex's number one supporter! [:D]

-DR





PsyVamp -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 7:57:47 PM)

LOL! 
I think I'm right up there in the number one slot DR...

Anyhow, sex for me always encompasses some form of BDSM, as Bobkgin said, it IS foreplay... and I consider 3 hours a quickie, so that might tell you something.

Yes I have a higher sex drive then some people half my age, and the only time its a hindrance is when I do not have a partner.

~Psy




Griswold -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 8:42:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I love sex.  With or without BDSM sex is incredible.  Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep..
yumm..
How do you like yours?  Do you find regular sexual play boring?  Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? 
Kyst


(Sounds like you need a good cuckold)




exogenous -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 10:05:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xoxi

I tend to see it more as a connection, and I really don't enjoy it unless there's intimacy involved.

But I get where you're going with the OP...if I'm in a relationship I don't need bells whistles and toppings to enjoy sex...being in my man's arms and feeling him inside me is absolute bliss in itself  [:)]



It's definitely all about the connection, with or without BDSM. I am one who has to have an emotional bond with someone before I can have a sexual bond. Then, I enjoy that connection whether it's wild and intense or slow and easy. It's all good! Whatever happens just depends on the mood at any given time.




HotFaerieMama -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 10:13:11 PM)

i love sex.. does having sex with most of a football team count??




CuriousLord -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 10:22:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I love sex.  With or without BDSM sex is incredible.  Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep..
yumm..
How do you like yours?  Do you find regular sexual play boring?  Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? 


Not nearly so much as you.  Sex tends to hold my interest only for so long before my mind demands stimulation.

Hell, I often have sex just because I need to.  I spend a lot of time while at it just trying to improve, my mind focused on that, to avoid becoming bored.




RRafe -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 10:30:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I love sex.  With or without BDSM sex is incredible.  Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep..
yumm..
How do you like yours?  Do you find regular sexual play boring?  Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? 


Not nearly so much as you.  Sex tends to hold my interest only for so long before my mind demands stimulation.

Hell, I often have sex just because I need to.  I spend a lot of time while at it just trying to improve, my mind focused on that, to avoid becoming bored.


This may well explain my obsessive need to talk about intellectual topics, while cornholing bound women. And my lack of interest in gags.[:D]




desertdancer -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 10:49:45 PM)

Oh my God, yes Sex is very important to me.  My doctor took me off my birth controll and whooo-hooooo I have found my inner nympho !!!! 

Sex was not ever soemthing I was really intrested in, I never really thought about it, or craved it or anything.  Now that I am off the pill sex is on my mind all the time.  All I have to do is take a peek at my Husbands zipper on His jeans and I'm all soft and wet and mmm, yeah.  I'm craving it almost all the time now, there isn't an hour in the day that I don't think about it. 

I couldn't care a less at this point if my sex is vanilla or packed full of whips, chains and hot wax as long as He's putting out, I'm gonna be a happy girl.




HotFaerieMama -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 11:41:16 PM)

good for you! at least somone out there is getting laid cuz this gal hasn't had any in a year...




Owner4SexSlave -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 3:27:41 AM)

I'm a sex fiend and BDSM addictic.




feastie -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 4:03:23 AM)

As long as I'm with the man I care about, it doesn't matter if there is BDSM or not.  Passion for each other, desire for each other go a long way.  I'm going to get extremely aroused whether he's tied me over his desk and paddled  me or whether he's started with soft, tender kisses and sweet whispers.  It's all good.




daddysprop247 -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 9:00:40 AM)

..because of my personality, all sex for me is D/s, and always has been. i'm always submitting/surrendering to someone else's needs and desires, that is what comes naturally to me and just feels right. as for actual bdsm activities, i'm not big into those anyway.




Missokyst -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 9:13:11 AM)

In general I have found that the women I speak to are extremely sexual, so much more than men.  I know I have kept my partners limited to men I have some feelings for.  The big reason for that is because I tend to be rule by my anatomy.  I stayed married far longer than I should have, because of sex.  Hours of fabulous sex!  LOL I detested that man but wow he really could pull my strings.  I never won an argument in the time we were together because all he had to do was yank me back to shut me up. 
Sex tends to be the control for me. 
I have talked to quite a few men who find sex boring.  And this is so odd!  We grow up thinking men are always looking for sex, thinking of sex, jacking off, lusting after women, and to hear them say sex is boring and can only hold them for as long as it takes to finish.. well, that is weird to me.
I must have been very fortunate to find the men who enjoy hours of sexual play.
Dang I miss sex.
Kyst




littlebitxxx -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 9:13:25 AM)

Sex is about as necessary as breathing.  And almost as often.   Hard and fast, soft and easy, down and dirty, quickies, hours long, in the bedroom, out of the bedroom, vanilla, bdsm, combined, separate, casual, relationship, with connection, without connection, whatever, wherever, almost whenever.   Have I left anything out?  I think about the only bad part of sex is not getting it. 




Prinsexx -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 2:18:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I love sex.  With or without BDSM sex is incredible.  Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep..
yumm..
How do you like yours?  Do you find regular sexual play boring?  Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? 
Kyst


I adore sex. Perhaps it is an addiction As I get older my appreciation of it, enjoyment of it and understanding of it improves.
Anal, oral, painful, submissive, swaeting, cerebral, lustful, impossible, fulfilling, romantic, sensual, illicit, caring, pansexual, switchy, dominating, controlling, demanding and emotiionally high maintainance SEX.
it keeps me vital, eases all my pain, rjuvenates and sources my creativity. There are vey few moments of the day when i do not think about it, consider it, assess it in others....long drawn out masochictic foreplay, through the night and early morning multiple orgasms. Oh sht................and I have to wait until Monday.





apiercedkitty -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 3:56:29 PM)

Anytime, anywhere with someone i have a connection with - and this doesn't mean (for me) that we have to be in love. While i prefer a lil rough, bdsm doesn't have to be involved and a nice gentle lovemaking has it's time and place.




Griswold -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 5:37:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HotFaerieMama

good for you! at least somone out there is getting laid cuz this gal hasn't had any in a year...


(Call me...I'm here to help).




shadowmate -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 5:48:33 PM)

Interesting topic.  Well with me I basically love rough sex.  Give it to me hard, basically hurt me when you use me.  I enjoy being used, to me when a man decides to use me it is because either he is pleased with me or he simply wishes to take his pleasure from me.  Now I am not saying that I screw every man I come across.  LOL
 
I dont really need to have the BDSM play in sex, but it does tend to spice it up.  [;)]




Rose4Mistress -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 6:44:40 PM)

sex?  yes please.
for fun, for pleasure, for a nice wakeup, for a nice good night, for a cure to boredom, for an expression of love...i am all for sex.  I absolutely adore it.
I enjoy sex that incorporates a bit of kink or D/s to it, certainly.  Pull my hair, talk dirty to me, command me...sure thats always hot.
But holding me close and whispering that you love me, as we gently move together...thats lovely too.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: SEX (10/5/2007 10:19:42 PM)

Sex is my wellspring- it's how I connect with myself and renew myself the most instinctively.

I enjoy sex in a comfy no stress zone.  I enjoy vanilla sex and kinky sex.  I seldom enjoy orgies because there's so many different energies flying around that I usually can't just relax- and I don't orgasm easily and lots of people put pressure on it and act as if it's necessary.

Sometimes I want a really long session, and sometimes I want quick hot fuck.




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