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Missokyst -> SEX (10/4/2007 3:53:29 PM)
I love sex. With or without BDSM sex is incredible. Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep.. yumm.. How do you like yours? Do you find regular sexual play boring? Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? Kyst

Bobkgin -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:00:41 PM)
For me BDSM is fore-play. Hours and hours of fore-play. And then comes sex.

SteelofUtah -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:02:09 PM)
Interesting Topic. But isn't sex always an interesting topic. I am a Very sexual person but do not want sex all the time. I know I'm a Guy who isn't sex crazed. Actually my slave/wife is the Nympho and although most men think it is every guys dream, at times it takes it's toll. I LOVE anal sex and after introducing my wife to the activity in a Positive way (She tried it once before and he hurt her and so she swore it off until me) now she is a lil anal advocate. My girl will take it any way I am willing to give it to ger but I find that I perfer sex in unusual places or situations. Nothing was better than having sex in my companies wharehouse on a saturday morning and hiding when the boss came to pick up something for the weekend. Am I am Exobitionist... No, but I can get into it. As far as I am concerned I don't like to pigeon hole myself into I like this I don't like this I am usually up for just about anything just only when I am in the mood. My girl however is always in the mood and tends not to care how it happens just as long as it does. As Always Steel

kyraofMists -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:03:47 PM)
Regular sex for me is highly aggressive, contains pain, tears, screams and often a hint of fear. Gentle sex while enjoyable at times is not as fulfilling as the kind that leaves me bruised and bloody. Knight's Kyra

breatheasone -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:08:03 PM)
Master and I make love in the flavor of vanilla...We do of course do some kinky things here and there,but the love making has always been vanilla.

xoxi -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:23:51 PM)
I find sexual play boring in and of itself. With or without kink. Sex with a partner I care about however is heaven. I tend to prefer my sex without 'kink' in the standard sense but I also don't leave the D/s dynamic when we have sex. Just because we're in the middle of some good old fashioned lovemaking doesn't mean I don't still belong to my guy...even if I'm on top. Actually if I'm on top it proves even further that I belong to him because I hate being on top and the position does absolutely nothing for me sexually....so I would just be doing it because he told me to ride him and get him off [8D]

completenz -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:32:14 PM)
we love sex too [:)] He is always in control, with or without any additional kink. Neither of us have ever had this much sex before, in fact we both were thinking that part of our lives was basically over before we met each other. i had lived without sex at all for most of my 20 year marriage and He had been told to get some of those magic blue pills cause He had a problem!! Now we are at it like rabbits! And just for the record, its very, very good and no medication is required![;)] C & c

CumHarderSlave -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:41:10 PM)
Sex is hugely important to me - I'm very much of the "sacred whore" mindset.

Missokyst -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 4:51:18 PM)
LOL I didn't think to qualify it with a partner I care about. Even though I love sex, it has always been with men I care about. Random acts of casual sex haven't even crossed my mind. And I agree with the being on top part. Not my favorite way, but it is just one of those moves that happens, and I guess that is submitting. Kyst

AquaticSub -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:00:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst How do you like yours? As often as possible. I'm the only girl I know of who had teenage boys tell her "We can't spend all our time making out!" when she was in high school. When we first started dating, Valyraen and I made an "every other day" schedule so that I got my fill and he didn't get worn out. [:)] quote: Do you find regular sexual play boring? Nope. While I lean towards rough, I really don't need BDSM activity. Kinda need dirty talk but I also still enjoy just plain ol' making love.

xoxi -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:02:38 PM)
LOL Trust me, I've had both...I know quite a few people who enjoy the act of sex alone - stimulation of the genitals through oral and intercourse in order to reach the climax of orgasm. They also like it better with a partner but the difference is they love just straight up sex. I tend to see it more as a connection, and I really don't enjoy it unless there's intimacy involved. But I get where you're going with the OP...if I'm in a relationship I don't need bells whistles and toppings to enjoy sex...being in my man's arms and feeling him inside me is absolute bliss in itself [:)]

ExSteelAgain -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:08:02 PM)
Some aspects of BDSM play are usually present in my sex play.

AEslaveM -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:20:42 PM)
"But I get where you're going with the OP...if I'm in a relationship I don't need bells whistles and toppings to enjoy sex...being in my man's arms and feeling him inside me is absolute bliss in itself " [:)] This says it for me! M

adoracat -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:40:49 PM)
right now i'm in a dry spell. i havent seen Sir since august, and have no idea when he'll be able to see me again...cant see the otherlove till november, and havent had any real intimacy with my husband in more than a year. so...yeah. kitten, sighing

RRafe -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 5:52:40 PM)
The wierder, the better.[;)]

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 6:02:25 PM)
Well it's all sex to me. I can cum clothes on or off. with girls. With boys. But if we are talking cock in cunt then yea I do like a bit of pain and control with my sex. A bit of force. Someone in control. If that's what you mean by vanilla.

spanklette -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 6:40:42 PM)
I am overcoming a libido problem...it's like discovering sex all over again! I wouldn't reccomend this particular path, but it's been "rewarding" in its own way...so, yes...SEX...in big capital letters![:D]

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 6:46:30 PM)
[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m25.gif[/image]..My vote is for.....anyway,anytime,whoohoo lets go!!!..Tempting

Missokyst -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 7:12:32 PM)
Oh geez.. thanks for making me drool! I miss sex! Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55 Well it's all sex to me. I can cum clothes on or off. with girls. With boys. But if we are talking cock in cunt then yea I do like a bit of pain and control with my sex. A bit of force. Someone in control. If that's what you mean by vanilla.

xoxi -> RE: SEX (10/4/2007 7:44:02 PM)
sigh so do I...

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