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Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 4:29:29 AM   
plsur4us


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Status: offline 		i have just returned from a 10 day vacation and while i was vactioning i ran into a Lady whom had an overpowering effect on me while i was in her presence.  i was curious if there is a universal acknowledgment that She would have understood if she was active in the BDSM communities and if so what that would be?
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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 6:47:34 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		no not that i know of, i kind of wish there was....some folks wear the symbol in jewelry or tats, other folks wear collars, so maybe look closly at her acessories, but for the most part there is no wink and no secret handshake i know of.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 6:50:20 AM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		Some people exude power and have no interest in kink or D/s.

They simply are.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 6:58:23 AM   
plsur4us


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Status: offline 		i am aware that many people exude such attributes. i was just hoping that such a protocol would exists so as to help us meet others with like interests when we are in a new environment.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 7:01:50 AM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: plsur4us

i am aware that many people exude such attributes. i was just hoping that such a protocol would exists so as to help us meet others with like interests when we are in a new environment.


The risks of being outed would probably make it not wothwhile-if it was ever found out by conservative witch hunters.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 7:29:26 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		um that is love at first site

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 7:31:54 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Maybe somebody should invent one.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 9:22:54 AM   
plsur4us


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Status: offline 		Yes, i think a nice subtle acknowledgement that wouldn't be noticable to anyone oputside the community would be fine. It is not often that you meet a person with such a strong presence and it would have been very nice to have a way of subtly introducing myseld.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 9:56:58 AM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		About the closest there is, is a tattoo or jewelry such as this symbol http://www.stockroom.com/Sterling-Silver-BDSM-Symbol-Necklace-P1689.aspx?ref=1123151

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 10:04:19 AM   
MsBearlee


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Exactly...  Here is a bit of info on that symbol:
 


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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 10:49:24 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		I suppose you could always get one of the keychain size floggers or crops and start playing with your keys when you're talking to them and see what happens. 
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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 10:59:49 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Or you could always just ask...But why take a direct approach. 

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 11:02:16 AM   
pseudopsychotic


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Status: offline 		Hand singles?
Codes?
haha, that would be awesome, and maybe a bit dangerous, but only at a baseball game.
Or the airport.
o.o

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 11:12:02 AM   
IWantACuckold


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Status: offline 		I have both the flogger keychain, and handcuffs keychain that my keys are hooked too. They have inspired many conversations, from those who know of bdsm and those curious about it. I haven't received any negative comments about them. None that I know of anyway. LOL

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 3:10:04 PM   
Decimus


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Status: offline 		You could always pull a Darth Vader...*kneel* "What is thy bidding my Master?"

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 3:53:48 PM   
TheChastiser


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Status: offline 		i came up with a vehicle graphic, which i have on the spare wheel cover of my pajero. its a bdsm symbol built into a tribal background. it would mean very little to anyone outside the lifestyle, but should mean something to those within it.
 
Mike

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 4:00:28 PM   
trappedinamuseum


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Status: offline 		If they carry a flogger and run around yelling, "Assume the position", that's probably a good indication.

Otherwise, I have no idea.


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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 4:07:36 PM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		You could bite the bullet with a "You are a stunning woman, Mistress."

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 5:14:16 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		True but some dominants hate being called by "master" or "mistress" by anyone who isn't theirs.

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RE: Public acknowledgment - 10/1/2007 5:18:38 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Personally, I dont particularly want everyone and anyone knowing what I am into.  The possibility of being outted is a bit too great.
However, introducing yourself in a purely vanilla manner would have worked, as well, and then if you hit things off you could have inquired later. Just a thought.

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