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velvetears -> RE: The transitioning period (9/28/2007 10:54:59 AM)

The only experience i have to offer is that in the past i had read dozens, maybe even over a hundred emails, from doms before i  became involved long term with my ex and what stood out, above all the rest with his, was the fact that his words spoke to my heart and i just knew we would be together.  There was a connection on a level i cannot explain or put into words. Once i read his first email to me it was like a light went on and i felt something change inside of me.  It's not about technique, or what do you say that's "the right thing to say" etc - it's simply speaking your heart and mind and what you have to say resonating with someone out there.  




catize -> RE: The transitioning period (9/28/2007 3:31:11 PM)

quote:

 For subs/slaves: first off, are you high-value....


Yep, I must be hi-value ‘cuz I get a ton of emails that just say “Hi.”




lighthearted -> RE: The transitioning period (9/28/2007 3:36:37 PM)

I'm all about value.  [:D]




DMFParadox -> RE: The transitioning period (9/29/2007 12:56:47 AM)

Mm.  Domiguy, straight up PU tactics are not known, here, and would cause a fuss; have already.  I'm on RSD and MM, though I'm not very active these days... been there, got the t-shirt and the scout handbook.  Those are the forums for that kind of stuff.  Email me if you don't know.

I'm going to let this thread die down and then try a different approach somewhere else.  Someday I'm writing a book, or a manual; this part of social psychology is too useful to get bogged down, or to give up on easily.  If anyone else has a story--with wonderfully specific details--about the moments that caused them to realize they were with The One--male top, female bottom--then let's rock.  Otherwise, let's roll on.




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