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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 9:46:40 AM

Koala

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Grunting lustpig... sounds almost Shakespearian in nature.

Perhaps you should put him out in a pasture, surrounded by an electrical fence, and let him live his days out?

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 11:32:50 AM

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Dear chiaThePet,

You are very spot on correct.

There are those who are in worse straights than many of us. As a care giver to a parent with Alzheimer's the changes are unpleasant and unkind to all of us in the immediate family. The robbing of mind and memories bit by bit. The angry furry and the temper tantrums and becoming a human punching bag emotionally and physically--is no picnic and it isn't helping my arthritis that is inching slowly into crippling me enough to put me in a wheelchair, even after replaced parts-LOL.

On the bright side though--If I have a super charged power chair, I'll get a hitch to tow all the gear in--even if it take two to three little red wagons. LOL

Just some thoughts. Thank you for the good focus on what is really important to feel sorry about.

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 12:07:40 PM

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OMG, LadyHugs with her scooter and her wagons of pain, that mental image is just too funny, LOL

I do know from experience however, that arthritis is no laughing matter.

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 5:50:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

Dear chiaThePet,

You are very spot on correct.

There are those who are in worse straights than many of us. As a care giver to a parent with Alzheimer's the changes are unpleasant and unkind to all of us in the immediate family. The robbing of mind and memories bit by bit. The angry furry and the temper tantrums and becoming a human punching bag emotionally and physically--is no picnic and it isn't helping my arthritis that is inching slowly into crippling me enough to put me in a wheelchair, even after replaced parts-LOL.

On the bright side though--If I have a super charged power chair, I'll get a hitch to tow all the gear in--even if it take two to three little red wagons. LOL

Just some thoughts. Thank you for the good focus on what is really important to feel sorry about.

Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs

LadyHugs,

Yes, the eyes of the caregiver tend to see well beyond the immediate horizon.

Though i am understanding of predicaments of all natures which affect those
whom toil in such. These were simply my immediate thoughts at the moment.

i raise a glass and toast Your strength, also aware that caregivers, no matter
the circumstance of situation, most often retain and display a wonderful
sense of humor. Be well, and don't forget to take care of Yourself in the midst.

Little red wagons, overflowing with toys
Tempting the flesh of good girls and boys
Come take a ride, She coo's with a grin
And like little cherubs, they all pile in.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 7:18:58 PM

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Dear Goalie62, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Got to have some fun in life [Grins] Besides, the power chair and my little red wagons--wagon train; I can crack the whip and really have fun--beats beeping the horn.

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/28/2007 7:21:06 PM

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Dear chiaThePet,

Thank you so much for your poem!!!!!!!!!!! Wonderful!

Respectfully and touched,
Lady Hugs

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/29/2007 12:09:00 AM

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OT--You know, if anything here could make me feel self-conscious and awkward, it's the capitalization quirks. Silly, eh? The 'I Am A Master (i am a sub)' bit of business... when I get emails like that, I try to respond in kind, but I feel really silly. Maybe since I used to be a copyeditor.

So far, only one girl actually has me feeling comfortable addressing "Myself" as "Master" with a capital. I'm still trying to pin down how that happened. I've got no problem with the word; I'm a master of many things, and the battles were hard fought, so I simply think of them when I use it. But the caps... they get me.

Which can actually be brought back to on-topic, with this spin I just thought of. Communication of every kind works in one setting or another... and the guys (and girls) with the really crappy letters are sometimes writing poetry... IF you have the backstory. The flip side of that is, they assume you have the backstory. That you get the same in-jokes, felt the same wonder at some things and the same confusion or dismay at other things. And it's hard--very hard--for the agressor in an interaction to change their tune, because that's seen as very incongruent if not handled well. Nine out of ten, it's better to keep hammering away with the same hammer if someone doesn't step in and hand you a better one. Sucks for everybody involved, but that's life.

Same for caps play. But I'm figuring out what it tells me when it's used, and what my use of it tells others. I'm adapting.

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/29/2007 12:18:12 AM

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Maybe--this is not for everybody--it might be worth your time, ladies, to start a "School for letter writing." Induct any poor grunting lustpig correspondent who seems like a good candidate, instead of writing them off (pun intended). Might be fun.

And if you get a critical mass of women doing this, you improve the life of everybody here.

Really make a go of it.
Give out grades and tests and homework assignments; have the poor sap call you teacher.
When they harrass you, send back a score and a critical review of their technique.
Make sure they know that they're in school with 15 other saps so they're not special.
It would be AWESOME.

I almost wish I was female so I could abuse and heal these guys at the same time... You could have these guys begging for mercy within a few... actually, it might be difficult to get some of them to submit to the school... even more fun. Damn. This is one of the instances when being a straight male Dom means you're missing the action.

Edit: killed the endless run-on sentence and divided for clarity. I'm still buzzing, so I might revisit this when I've sobered.

< Message edited by DMFParadox -- 9/29/2007 12:26:56 AM >

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RE: I now feel sorry for Dommes.... - 9/29/2007 2:32:51 AM

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greetings

lol that is nothing i had one submissive who happen to be a toilet slave he sent his resume along with some well know dommes in the pictures doing things i had not ideal they did a face toilet and he was on the floor with the thing over his mouth i am not into this so it was a shocking . i let the dommes know this man was sending their picture all over the INTERNET and some thank me other were let him ., so you see we gave more the are share of things lol

take care Mons

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