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In a lifestyle full of adults why must they act childlish - 9/24/2007 12:26:27 PM   
mrdpettigrew


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Status: offline 		this was  posted in anothers  journal and i relpied to  it as follows

To answer that I simple   it is cause they have o accountability for their actions here and they can play at being what ever they wish to be with no regards for whom they hurt or   how they affect the others   life. Many here are in fact kids playing as adult or lying about who they are and as such will never meet. Picture big fat smelly guy on computer describing him self to another as studley and hansom. The other big fat smelly guy   describing him self as sex young and tight hotty. Neither knows the truth both live-in dreams life here is a lot like that. So there is the answer to the question of why they act so childish

The point that they make  is  clear though and it is sad  that  others see many  here as that and sadder still that all to many are  in fact like that.

  I wonder how other s feel about wasteing their time  and getting to care about another to be  just  dismissed with out a word  or  ever knowing why. How many  have  put faith  hope and trust in another  here  onley to find them vanish in smoke. It is sad when all are here  for the same reason to  find like minded  people in the lifestyle  ot shear life wit hand to in taht  find onley  deception and crap  forthe greater part
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RE: In a lifestyle full of adults why must they act chi... - 9/24/2007 12:41:07 PM   
toservez


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Status: offline 		Life is full of disappointments, hassle and crap. It is not if we get these things thrown into our lives but how we deal with them. Personal sites are no different, you are going to get all sorts of human behavior and certainly a lot of it is not going to be up to most people’s “standards”. Expecting something different is a reflection on you not this or any other site.

Simply put when on any personal site and you get emotional over someone you have never met person to person is an enter at your own very high risk situation. If you feel writing messages, IM’s and phone calls that may not lead to anywhere is a giant waste of your time, there is simply one easy solution, do not do it.

If you want to look online accept the bad with the good. If all you get is bad look inward and see what you need to change. One thing is for certain holding our breath and stomping our feet because things do not go our way are a waste of time and energy. If this is too much for you then do not do it. It is an easy solution.

My biggest pet peeve and advice is to simply not get emotionally involved or feel obligated to anyone you have never met in person. No matter how many messages or wanting of a relationship like we search for.



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RE: In a lifestyle full of adults why must they act chi... - 9/24/2007 12:50:08 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		quit whining....its so childish

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RE: In a lifestyle full of adults why must they act chi... - 9/24/2007 12:50:35 PM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i don't wanna grow up *stomps her foot and pouts*

or maybe i don't want to be old and crotchity and so rigid i can't enjoy life because i am too busy looking for things to hate?


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RE: In a lifestyle full of adults why must they act chi... - 9/24/2007 12:54:41 PM   
mrdpettigrew


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Status: offline 		it was not meant as a whie  it was meant as a fact  thst it is a thing  otehrs  here  do and  taht it is unfair nothing more

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