GhitaAmati
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Joined: 5/30/2007 Status: offline
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labels...I hate labels...mainly for this main reason. Not everyone has the same definitions for the same words...so if I give myself a label...people are expecting me to live up to some preconcieved notions they may have...or I might be exceeding those notions. Not all of me is gonna fit in someone elses "box". Either there are parts of me left hanging out, or there is too much room left over in the box once Im in there. I put submissive on the front page here....cause you have to put something...but at a BDSM event or convention, if someone asks me what I am, I answer "Im a girl". I havent found anyone who has mis understood that one yet....although I have had someone clarify that I was born that way.....I think they responded with the word "genetically?". Damn if that aint an insult....of course I was at a gay male leather bar....so....maybe its to be expected...shrugs
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I said I was a submissive, I never said I was a GOOD submissive. Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good. ~Woody Allen
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