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How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approved th... - 9/13/2007 6:19:26 PM

lonlyrossInNeed

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I just wanted to put this up
i am so ticked off how the hell is it that collarme can tell me that a photo that has needle play is not community related and they don't allow it on your profile
i can understand if there where gentiles in the photo or anything like that but first they Denni photos of Bondage then they Denny pictures of needle play this is a BDSM lifestyle Community Personal sight isn't it ?

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/13/2007 6:22:14 PM

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Everyone's just going to tell you to demand a refund and stop whining.

By the way it's "DENY."

I've never managed to get a photo approved and each one that's been rejected has had no nudity, nothing "extreme," nothing that I could have guessed would be rejected based on the written guidelines. No biggie.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/13/2007 6:24:38 PM

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I had a problem with a pic of mine. It was of me and my vette well it jsut happend to show my license plate(not the real one) but they pulled it because 1 it wasn't jsut me or me and hubby and 2 they thought I could be identified by my license plate

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/13/2007 6:26:08 PM

lonlyrossInNeed

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all they told me is its not comunity standarts or somthing like that i lough so bad then i yelled couse i was so pissed

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/13/2007 6:32:05 PM

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i have had photos denied at one point and then the same one approved at another point...i don't know why...

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:15:54 AM

Absolutemaster

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I had a close-up of a hand holding a hypodermic needle refused.

And also one of my face but with my eyes blacked out.

But I have seen a profile photo on here of a woman with her baby...

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:35:09 AM

Owner59

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CM has a subjective approach to pix.

It could also be, that not every volunteer has the same set of criteria.

I have had photos rejected,only to be accepted some time later..

It certainlt isn`t the nudity or level of BD/SM activity shown.

Don`t try to figure it out.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:38:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: duckfoot

Everyone's just going to tell you to demand a refund and stop whining.

By the way it's "DENY."

I've never managed to get a photo approved and each one that's been rejected has had no nudity, nothing "extreme," nothing that I could have guessed would be rejected based on the written guidelines. No biggie.

Another correctista,jumping at the sight of a miss-spelling,and w/ "QUOTED CAPS",no less.

<laughs,waits to see comments about the OP`s 2nd post>

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:39:34 AM

camille65

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I had a pic of my dog rejected, so I tried again a couple of months later. Lo and behold I now have a pic of Mickey the Wonderdog on my profile.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:40:24 AM

instynctive

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I've had many photos not approved.. no explanation given, showing no more nudity than someone can see on TV.. and I don't mean NYPD Blue...

Oh well. Their site, they can be as lenient or as nazi as they wanna be.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 7:47:46 AM

Owner59

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On Mondays,no dogs

Tuesdays? no cats...

Wednesday is Prince spaghetti day,... no food shown please...

Thursday.. no one with a smile gets in..

Friday?.....no pix of fat chicks...

Saturday.... every picture is approved, sight un-seen.

Sunday,..volunteers get the day off.

Hope that clears things up...

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 8:55:35 AM

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It is pretty simple actually. The mods approving the profile photo's are volunteers. With volunteers, many don't exactly have much time. Some don't care much.
Some read the TOS and some glaze over it while others don't even do that.

In my years here I have seen photo's of children claiming to be adults. Full on sex...just about anything you can think of. There have always been people complaining that they can't get a seemingly normal photo in. It merely rests with the fact there is more than one person OK'ing photo's. They had a more liberal person while unfortunately you don't have the same.

Nothing you can do but read the TOS guidelines and volunteer your own time. Then at least you will know there is one quality profile reviewer out there.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:29:45 AM

duckfoot

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I was just trying to be helpful to other readers. It took me a while to figure out who Denni and Denny were.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:34:41 AM

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I've volunteered to approve photos, but seems CM doesn't trust my judgment

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:37:38 AM

earthycouple

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have you guys actually looked at the mods profiles? the only one who's even been around lately is 11. I don't think the others are even here any more or are hardly here if they are.

I also volunteered...then they said I had to talk on the phone with them...I didn't like that idea so I said no thanks....but I did decide, well, ok....and they never got back to me. I'm here a lot. I essentially know the TOS, I certainally can read, I've never been moderated but they must have decided they didn't like me either.

edited to add: out of 17 mods, it appears only 4 are around and about (I just perved em all)

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:47:23 AM

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I had a picture of me welding rejected just recently.

The people approving the pics seem kind of uptight but whatever.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:48:28 AM

KatyLied

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Moderators do not approve photos. It is two different categories of volunteer help.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/14/2007 9:50:31 AM

Owner59

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As an aside,

We the CM users could/should always alert the Mods, or the CM staff,when they see under aged people or minors,or anything that`s obviously a no-no.

As well as profiles that might be kids posing as adults.I saw a profile on TSR once,which went something like: "The age thingy says I`m eighteen,but I just became a teenager(hint),and want an older man,blah ,blah".....She was from the UK.
I reported it to Tanos,right away.The profile was quickly pulled.

I think the staff appreciates the help and won`t think you`re a busy-body.Policing the site is kind`a everyone`s job.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/16/2007 9:12:27 PM

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Part of the low, low price we pay for being here is that it isn't exactly a megacorp with uniform standards applied 24/7. Anything with blood, nudity, animals, etc is a pic that will be hit or miss, just because they require some judgment.

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RE: How many have not had BDSM lifestyle photos approve... - 9/16/2007 9:27:04 PM

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I have a photo of my lipstick prints. It was rejected, because it was a body part. It's the graphic I used on my website when I built it. They're my lips, dangit.

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