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RE: Do you see/expect dominance and submission in casua... - 9/9/2007 2:47:51 AM

MasterFireMaam

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As I've grown through the years and entered my "tribe", I now don't always assume that a bottom is a sub or slave and a Top is a Dom or Master. For me, there are three sets of roles (and you've heard me say something similar to this before, probably):

Top/bottom:physical BDSM roles.
Dom/sub: Mental, authority transfer roles.
Master/slave: Spiritual, surrendering roles.

So, I wouldn't necessarily see that Ds relationship components MUST be part of a BDSM scene. It would depend on the people.

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RE: Do you see/expect dominance and submission in casua... - 9/10/2007 9:06:38 PM

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I enjoy the mental aspects of BDSM and connect with D/s more than SM. I usually do not play at play parties and go with the intention to socialize. I am more likely to do service oriented activities such as provide a foot rub or fetch drinks. When play occurs, it is run by the domme and it has D/s overtones for me. My interest to engage in SM play at the party is more as part of a dance towards D/s (or possibly towards exhibitionism) than for the sake of sensation. I happily go into a submissive role with the domme for those moments.

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RE: Do you see/expect dominance and submission in casua... - 9/10/2007 9:25:34 PM

RRafe

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I don't really make distinctions any more. We pretty much suspend our disbelief to engage in a fantasy lifestyle anyhow.

It's whatever you want it to be at any moment.

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