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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 11:01:49 AM

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I encountered Leather subculture as a wide-eyed UM at the Haloween Parade in the Village. I had a visceral "take me with you" reaction to these leathermen. I was not a rebel kid. I didn't know what it was all about, only that those guys were gay, so my reaction was weird, and it was probably something I ought to research on my own rather than tell mom I was enthusiastic about. I shelved the interest till college and then had an assignment out of "Leatherfolk" for a queer film history class. When I read people talking about the role of trust in WIIWD that moved me profoundly, deeply, on levels of the heart as well as other erotic levels.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 11:29:41 AM

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What drew me in? Curiousity. I had gotten restless with most mainstream activities and ideas, and wanted to try alternative.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 11:45:41 AM

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A tremendous need/desire for bondage. I remember watching a Scooby Doo cartoon as a younger person and Valarie was tied up and I was so turned on that I had to experience it myself. Never looked back.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 12:31:35 PM

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In no order ...

In college a friend of mine was taking a class and gave me one of her books when she was done because she thought I would enjoy it. That was Macho Sluts. I was horrified and disgusted, but damn it all if I couldn't leave it alone.

Since at least the age of 5, I've enjoyed toying with people and pushing them and seeing what happens. I like manipulation and mindfuck. I'm not that good at being an equal in a relationship.

My husband was a great submissive, though I didn't understand at the time that's what he was.

I was looking for sex to be more ... present. More intimate, deeper, more earthshattering, closer to god. I liked the attention and focus that went into good D/s.

About 5 years ago, I wanted to approach sex "like a man" and just try things out -- I wanted fuck!. That led me to alt.com, and I was drawn into the intracacies of a more aware type of sexuality.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 5:20:41 PM

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Internal programming. I have no idea where it came from.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 5:22:50 PM

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The interweb! I found a yahoo chatroom when I was 13 and played in there until I was 16 when I started figuring more out in real life, and then had my first bdsm relationship at 18 and havent really ever tried vanilla but once or twice and it's just not right for me. It makes me angry and resentful. It's an odd thing, but it's me!

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 5:48:10 PM

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Ladies- your turn:

What drew you?

The sexual aspect at first. After a few years, other little things kept me coming back for more.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 5:49:47 PM

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To be honest a roomate in college took me to a munch . That was the beginning of my journey.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 5:59:27 PM

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I hit it for the hell of it, just for the yell I get
Mmm mmm mmm, for the smell of it (smell it?)

It makes me wanna shoop.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 6:01:18 PM

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Thank you, now I have that damn song stuck in my head!

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 6:18:19 PM

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hmm, honestly, it has always just been me. i didn't grow up in a D/s household, in fact always had ideas of female empowerment and "don't ever depend on a man for anything" drilled into my head pretty severely by my mother. however such a model never seemed right or natural to me...i would pay lip service to equality and feminism, but in reality i always believed in male dominance and female submission, and have always been a very submissive natured person. in my late teens, i began searching/exploring systems of belief which were similar to my own. for a while, i had an orthodox islamic boyfriend, and i was strongly considering giving in to his requests that i convert to his religion, simply because at the time it seemed like the only way i could live a lifestyle in which the relationship and life dynamic i believed in was considered natural and right. of course, the issue with going that route was the faith bit...i never had a solid belief in a higher power.

and then, quite by accident, i stumbled across an online M/s community, for black female slaves and slaves-to-be. my curiousity was piqued. i read. i met people. i learned. and i knew i had found a home.

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RE: The TRUTH? - 7/29/2007 7:36:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: cumulus

I'm not sure I understand the question. I wasn't drawn to D/s. I live it. It's me. It's my life. It's my vanilla. It's my kink. It just is.

Coincidentally, there's a microcosm of the world that shares my interests. It happens to have a label or two. One of them is "D/s".