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brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:40:57 AM   
mons


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my brother passed away. i found out things i would had rahter not know! i would for 20 years invite him to so many dinner and buy him presents. he would never come to pick anything up, i have a large family and they would dsitance themselves from us and we had no ideal why,. well my brother was taltelling them things that were so crazy and wild they were scare to come and visit us. then this pass week i found out that one nepwh told me he love me better then anyone, then i found out he was in love with me. i feel sick to my tummy. then he was the one who molested me and again when i was 20 . i was crying so hard when he passed on. now i just ill and sick i can not sleep. it is so sick who and the hell love their sister in that way. now i just sit and wonder what to do he made me a benficler oh hell i spell it wrong, when someone leaves you money i do not think anyone will have an answer for me well i hope someone will answer this i am so slose and sick feeling . how crazy does anyone know of this happen to another woman ? i would be thankful for answers .( spell check is not working )

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:46:28 AM   
came4U


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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:51:44 AM   
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< Message edited by switchsecrets -- 7/27/2007 3:52:59 AM >

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:53:32 AM   
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Sorry for your loss mons, but honestly I can't say I know this has happened to anyone I know...

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:55:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Brightest Blessings Mons;
 
You do not own this. You had absolutely no control over how your brother felt, how he reacted, and what he did. Nor do you own what the rest of your family does or says. If he left you money than take it and do something really good with it, either something for yourself, or for the community.
 
Write a letter to your brother, let out all the feelings, emotions you have and then when it is finished and you have gotten out everything, then burn it.
 
Blessed Be
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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 4:05:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mons...(big hugs).....i'm so sorry you are hurting. I have never been left money so i'm not sure of the legalities of receiving it. You may want to contact an attorney to see what you should do. I have never had a sibling in love with me, but i think if its possible perhaps you could see a counselor to talk this issue out. You should not try and go through this alone. Again, i'm sorry you are hurting hun.


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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 4:18:30 AM   
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please seek professional counseling.  You most likely  will not find what you need in this situation on these boards.  I know you want and need to reach out to talk about what you are feeling, and that is a good and positive sign> but "giving" it to someone who knows how to counsel your feelings and reactions is crucial and essential for you right now ..  I urge you to find a therapist.
 
warm wishes for peace of mind and heart.
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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 9:38:03 AM   
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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 9:49:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: heartofakajira

It's funny that the weirdest things keep happening to mons....in every thread she starts, it is nothing but far-fetched drama...give me a break!


Feel free to use your block button and click into silence what dismays you to read. That should be all the break you need.

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 9:52:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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ORIGINAL: heartofakajira

It's funny that the weirdest things keep happening to mons....in every thread she starts, it is nothing but far-fetched drama...give me a break!


Feel free to use your block button and click into silence what dismays you to read. That should be all the break you need.

Celeste




Oohhhh but Celeste...it's so amusing to read those types of threads, lol...When i am bored, i come to the boards and amuse myself with people like mons, hehehe *winks*

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:03:27 AM   
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Brightest Blessings Mons;
 
You do not own this. You had absolutely no control over how your brother felt, how he reacted, and what he did. Nor do you own what the rest of your family does or says. If he left you money than take it and do something really good with it, either something for yourself, or for the community.
 
Write a letter to your brother, let out all the feelings, emotions you have and then when it is finished and you have gotten out everything, then burn it.
 
Blessed Be
Gem


I am in total agreement with Gem here.

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:11:23 AM   
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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:15:00 AM   
heartofakajira


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I do send out my most heartfelt prayers and wishes if indeed her brother did pass away....i hope to God she is not making up such stories, as that would be very very wrong and cruel.  But i cannot help but feel all the threads she's authored is nothing but an attempt for her to get attention..

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:17:42 AM   
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thats alittle insensetive, heart.


Mons is not the most sensitive person.  When people try to offer her support and understanding, she resorts to name calling. 


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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:19:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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thats alittle insensetive, heart.


Mons is not the most sensitive person.  When people try to offer her support and understanding, she resorts to name calling. 



Thank you, Katy!  I am not the only one who sees mons for who she really is...i am tired of people sticking up for her like she is some wounded puppy.  She needs to grow up and stop playing the victim all the time..period.

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:27:05 AM   
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thats alittle insensetive, heart.


Mons is not the most sensitive person.  When people try to offer her support and understanding, she resorts to name calling. 



You are still stinging over the fact that Mons called you and sub4lunch "animals.".....I agree wholeheartedly with Mons.....You and sub4lunch are nothing but swine.

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 10:32:13 AM   
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mons
 
please seek professional counseling.  You most likely  will not find what you need in this situation on these boards.  I know you want and need to reach out to talk about what you are feeling, and that is a good and positive sign> but "giving" it to someone who knows how to counsel your feelings and reactions is crucial and essential for you right now ..  I urge you to find a therapist.
 
warm wishes for peace of mind and heart.
Cyndi
 


i agree with Cyndi. These forums are not designed to offer professional medical,mental or financial advice. Mons,  you do seem to have quite extreme occurences and since your brother has left you money, perhaps using it to get qualified mental and financial help would be more beneficial to you than the opinions and advice from a BDSM forum~

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 11:22:19 AM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		Sorry for your loss mons, i do hope you find peace in this situation.

i agree with Gem, you don't have any responsibility in your brothers misplaced feelings towards you.  Please speak to a professional about whats on your mind - it will help you put it in perspective and move on with your life. 

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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 12:27:53 PM   
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RE: brother was in love with me - 7/27/2007 3:23:59 PM   
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"Let me tell you a little story 'bout a man named Jed....."


LOL popeye!!

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