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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/25/2007 4:54:26 PM

DrkJourney

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Actually, I think it's a fool moon, global warming...whatever...but the past week has been hell.....lol

Fortunately, as of today.....things are much much better....whew...lol

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/25/2007 7:21:30 PM

Tannie

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Yep, having major issues over here too. Everyone in this house has been tiptoeing around each other. Even the animals seem to be avoiding direct contact with anyone.....

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/26/2007 12:16:41 AM

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I can definitely attest to having major mood swings when my schedule is altered and the stress is running high. Those are the times to step away from the "giant hamster wheel" and get yourself focused, centered and balanced again. We are only as good to others as our own inner emotional energy reserves allow. Taking time to nourish and care for ourselves is essential to keeping our relationships healthy.

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/26/2007 3:50:40 AM

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They say change is good but damn why can't it be easy?
My job is normally stressful but holy crap this last set of shifts has been brutal.. I'm feeling like the bloody Grim Reaper. I think we have had more car accidents. drownings,hangings, stabbings, child abuse to the point of death, shootings and general human stupidity in a three week period than we have had all year so far.

Add in my dearest friends are moving away, another close friend is battling aggressive cancer.

On the positive side Rob bought me a motorcycle that has helped me vent stress in a much more positive way than screaming nightmares and bulemic regressions.

I'm about to start my nine days off ( every three weeks we get 9 off to get us away from the chaos of work) so in that time period I'm going to try and shake off some of the nightmares and wish I could beg my Top for the beating of a lifetime... I'll just have to break some speed limits instead :) Good thing I know all the local Constables and where they set up the radar traps on the highway
Rob seriously deserves danger pay for being around me at times, not to mention an award for being so understanding of my quirks

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/26/2007 7:42:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: seekingtraining
So...for the past two weeks, there have been constant reminders...even more than one at any given time...about him, about training, about the lifestyle. It ends up it's difficult for me to keep things in perspective and not get really emotionally attached, and really excited in every way about someone with this sort of stuff (trying to be obedient 24/7) going on all the time....and his sub...who has had an issue with my presence from minute one...reminds me that it was only two weeks (like I'm not going to have feelings for someone who had me so intently concentrating on him 24/7 for just two weeks....). I highly recommend steering clear of relationships where the slave-in-training is expected to be so 24/7 when the Part-Time "Master", the Sir-in-Question, doesn't seem to understand what he's doing.....although his sub seems to have a real grasp on things.....

Sounds like you let your dreams of what could be cloud your judgement of what IS. I'm not sure what all those things were supposed to do in terms of training you, but I'm sorry it was such a rough ending and next time I'm sure you'll take more time and be better in judgement.

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/26/2007 5:45:32 PM

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nightmares, insomnia, outright rejection from the hubby due to *his* stuff.....

money issues on all sides, and backbreaking tiredness.

kitten, who is ready for good changes by her birthday......

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RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? - 7/26/2007 7:22:30 PM

LSUDomme

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yikes. so it just isn't me. Me and my sig just cut it off because he said in his exact words "you are trying to dominate me". Which is ironic because I've tried to be as vanilla as possible.

I would have prefered he'd call me a bitch.

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