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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 9:27:52 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		i remeber looking for a part for a song i was working on. change tones. change melody. chang guitars lol. nothing would work. i must have beat my head against the wall for a couple of years. then one day at a factory i was installing a new network i heard this machine a press. i got my part.  Funny how life brings your things. we grow from everything we do and touch even good and bad. like reading a book the next chapter is going to rock :)

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 11:19:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've just come back after an absence..... I'm so very sorry to hear about this... I wish you both well and a new beginning.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 12:48:35 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		Oh my. There is nothing to say that will make any of it easier for either of you, so I will not attempt to toss platitudes at you. I wish you (both) well and hope your parting is as easy as possible.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 1:57:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Man, my heart broke for you both while reading this...You seem like such a wonderful person, as does Robert. Y/you are both in my thoughts...i hope everything works out for the better for Y/you both.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 4:18:23 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		Just know that neither he nor I wanted this to happen and we are trying very hard to make the best of it.  Being able to share my story here and to know that others are thinking of us is very helpful.  While I don't pretend that I have a bunch of life long friends on random internet forums...I do feel the empathy and well wishes.

I was emailed earlier yesterday by someone local.  His words:  "...you go through subs like water".  That hurt since he is clueless as to the circumstances.  No one here has presumed or been a jackass....I thank you all so much. 

I am sure that when Robert makes it to a computer he will read this thread and will be just as thankful.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 7:31:01 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		My heart is out to you both...sometimes, even having that special for a short time is better than never having...there sometimes is just a season .....Tempting

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 7:32:44 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Oh Donna, what a damn rotten thing to say! Definitely one to ignore and don't give him the credence to allow that comment to hurt You! It is clear from Your thread that neither You nor robert wanted this, it takes more courage to admit that circumstances won't allow it to continue and to take the steps You have than to allow things to drag on to the point that the love is the victim of the situation.

I know I am thinking of you both, and obviously many others are too.
Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/23/2007 9:22:16 PM   
twistedkytten


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Status: offline 		Best wishes to Yyou both

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 1:14:33 AM   
MissOchistic


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Status: offline 		Congratulations on a happy and fruitful relationship.
I hope for many more for both of you.


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 2:03:43 AM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		I`m very sorry to hear this, best wishes to both of you Ma`am.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 2:14:26 AM   
LadyHeart


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Status: offline 		It is heartening to see such a dignified and gracious parting of the ways. It does you both proud and augurs well for your futures. Blessings to you both
:))
LH

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 7:50:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

I am comforted by you all.  Thank you.  This has been harder than I ever thought possible.  Letting go is something I've always done easily; but looking back I realize I let go with animosity in my heart most often.  I can't do this with Robert.  There is no anger, hatred, mistrust or wrong doing.  It just is.  Losing someone with your defenses down sucks because my heart, as well as his is wide open to all of the pain. 

Thank you all again.


I wish there was a way for it to be easier for both of you...and yet, as you yourself noted, ending with animosity...while it may seem easier...never really is because of the corrosive effect on the heart of that animosity.  Though this way is infinitely and indescribably sadder, ironically enough it will be...in the end and after some time...the better way.

My best wishes to you both.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 8:07:37 AM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		Thank you for sharing your life in such an open way. It really is most difficult to part without animosity. i wish you both a speedy and loving healing time.

Master's dorei

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 8:09:52 AM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		Donna...i am so very sorry, i liken this to being a widow almost...meaning...the relationship ended, but your heart wasnt ready to not be married(commite relationship) anymore...i hope you know what i mean. I have alot of respect and admiration for you both and have always enjoyed reading what you both contributed to these forums....i hope this doesnt offend you or robert but i will keep you in my prayers(thats just what i do and i mean no offense)

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 1:45:03 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		No offense at all...from anyone who's wishing us well and keeping us in thoughts or prayers...I'm thankful to all of you.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/24/2007 4:37:23 PM   
missbehaeven


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Status: offline 		Greetings earthycouple,
I'm so sorry you're both hurting, and agree with others who admire your quiet words and grace.
I hope memories and the unshakeable faith in your friendship with Robert provide a measure of comfort.
Please stay safe..miss

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 8/5/2007 11:10:33 AM   
asubmissiveheart


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Status: offline 		Yep, about 2 weeks I would say.
I thought I remembered this post.

< Message edited by asubmissiveheart -- 8/5/2007 11:12:19 AM >

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