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No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:01:13 PM   
earthycouple


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Robert and I, by no fault of either will be saying good bye this week.  For those of you who saw the wonderful fit we are together, you were not wrong.  Together, Robert and I are wonderful.  I love him and he loves me.  Life, as we all know, often gets in the way and it has done that once again here. 

If we are fortunate, both Robert and I will do what we know is right vs what is easy, and keep in touch no matter where life takes us.  He has a welcome invitation into my home day or night for the rest of his life.

He is by far the most beautiful slave I've ever had the honor of enjoying and he will not soon be forgotten. 

Today, I move on, I have to, that's who I am.  I do not work well being sorrowful and crying, I do not work well thinking of how sad I am.  I do better when I think of what was amazing and I move on to what may eventually show to me, something amazing.

I thank those of you who have wished us well together and I thank you in advance for wishing us well apart.  I hope you will still see us bantering here on the random stupidity forums and know that while we are sad, we are ok and that loving someone, while you can, is never wrong.

I love you Robert, always (not so much with a sense of humor today)
Donna~

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:06:40 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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Status: offline 		You are both in my thoughts. Sorry to hear.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:15:02 PM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		my heart aches for both of you.

kitten, who knows how hard it can be to say goodbye when you still love.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:17:58 PM   
charlotte12


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:47:31 PM   
LadyPact


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I am ever so heartily sorry to hear it.  My thoughts are with both you and Robert.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:53:20 PM   
DrkJourney


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 1:56:00 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		I hope that things work out for the best for everyone. My best wishes are with you.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:07:28 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		i think both of you will be better people for having met and spent time together.......thats how i remember my first Dom.......it had to end when it did, and i too never looked back with anything but smiles......

good luck to both of ya-i know you will both be fine...

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:11:05 PM   
earthycouple


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:15:39 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Me and my household send both of you energy for a positive outcome from the relationship and it's dissolution. We learn from everyone who comes into our lives.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:31:28 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		ohhh honey, I know that pain, My hugs and it is what it is----if it is meant to be then you will stay close----relish in the joy and forget the pain---
 
" The soul would have no rainbow had the eye no tear..."

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 7/22/2007 2:44:53 PM >

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:32:13 PM   
obis


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From: Austin, TX, USA
Status: offline 		I've been there before and know the bittersweet feeling of loving someone yet knowing the practical reality prevents things from continuing as they might in a perfect world. I'm thankful to call those women i've had that (momentarily frustrating) experience with some of my best friends in life, and even when we don't get a chance to talk for a while, when we get back together it's as if we were never apart. There's just something so wonderful about relationships you know you can always count on -- someone whose love for you so truly means that they want whatever is best for you. I think you and Robert definitely go in the "win" column no matter how you cut it.

Excue me, i'm going to make some calls :)

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:33:56 PM   
softness


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 2:34:58 PM   
heartofakajira


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Status: offline 		Sending hugs and warmest wishes to you both.  May you both find peace and happiness in the future, wherever your paths lead you.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 3:21:12 PM   
octavia


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I have nothing but respect for you both and enjoy the posts that I read.  Thanks for sharing your experience so openly with us, it enables me to learn and better understand myself and those around me. 
Bless you both.

oct

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 3:37:35 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Well said and a nice tribute to your relationship.

That's very much how Faith and I had to part.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 3:43:55 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Best of wishes as your paths take you apart.

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 3:46:20 PM   
spiral23


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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 4:02:24 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		From the bottom of my heart, I wish you both all the best on the direction both your paths have now taken you. It is sad and unfair when life throws a nasty curve in our lives, yet I know that you both have the strength and courage to face this and move forward. May the Goddess always watch over you and Robert. ~Bear~

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RE: No answers, no advice, no need for sorrow - 7/22/2007 5:24:41 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		*S* now I'm crying again...thanks everyone *S*

I really do appreciate all of your thoughts.

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