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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 4:13:17 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		In the past I have picked a resturant for lunch- if the resturant opens at 11am
I like to go then.
It's empty- no one there for lunch yet.
It's quiet -so you don't have to talk louder to be heard over a crowded room.
Take your time because no one is waiting to be seated.


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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 5:38:49 AM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		Was at a crowded bar, we managed to find a  quietish spot...
I was absolutely terrified of meeting.
But He was wonderful, beautiful and looked so calm...and didn't appear to be a nutter, or run from me screaming, which is always a good thing.
And I have to say.. just quietly.... till the day I die I will never forget the "wow!!!"  feeling that ran through me when I called Him Sir for the first time in person.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 7:54:36 AM   
Fun4All3OfUs2


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Status: offline 		We have been together for many years.  We are a married vanilla/by day and M/s discreetly.  we are looking for our first playmate in real time.  Any suggestions. 

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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 8:31:48 AM   
jauntyone


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Status: offline 		Greetings
 
Master and I met at the airport quite by chance; I was heading to boot camp, and he was heading overseas. Both of our planes were delayed and we struck up a conversation. Over the course of the next 9 months, we did nothing more than correspond through mail. That was almost 5 years ago.
 
I wish you well
 
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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 8:45:23 AM   
bifemaleNeeded


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ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2

We have been together for many years.  We are a married vanilla/by day and M/s discreetly.  we are looking for our first playmate in real time.  Any suggestions. 


My first suggestion is not to jump into the middle a on going conversation to troll for sex partners.  Very tacky....

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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 8:47:21 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		You meet...What is the big deal? I thinnk I must be in a pissy mood the last few days....Has anyone ever fucking dated before?  What if she has tits? I really don't understand.

You meet as quickly as possible...No expectations.  If things are cool between the two of you then proceed...If not..."Hey it was really nice having the opportunity to meet you and I'll call you later"...Which we all know will never happen....Or you be upfront and say "I'm sorry it just aint happening for me"....It's a two way street.

Good luck to you.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/5/2007 9:13:29 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

You meet...What is the big deal? I thinnk I must be in a pissy mood the last few days....Has anyone ever fucking dated before? 


Uh oh, I think domiguy needs a domihug......   

Now, what's this "dating" thing you speak of?    


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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 8:02:10 AM   
Fun4All3OfUs2


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[/quote]

My first suggestion is not to jump into the middle a on going conversation to troll for sex partners.  Very tacky....
[/quote] 1.  I thought all threads were ongoing conversations??? 2.  Not trolling!!!  3.  Maybe you did not read my statements and questions carefully?!

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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 8:17:40 AM   
james2Jay


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Status: offline 		Nothing too intimate. Drinks. Good luck.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 8:35:06 AM   
michelleryder


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Status: offline 		We had a lunchtime drink then spent the afternoon walking in the grounds of an abbey. You just know if the chemistrys there or not  and for us it was. Just have fun and enjoy each other oh and good luck.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 5:40:38 PM   
ProfJoe


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Status: offline 		Our first meet came after ten months online and on phone. I picked her and her suitcase up at her sister's. She hasn't been back yet. It's been 17 months. She accepted a permanent collar a couple of weeks ago, so I guess it worked. But I don't recommend it for a "meet n greet" strategy.

Just saying.
ProfJoe

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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 8:15:37 PM   
BayBgirl


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quote:

It is helpful sometimes, to not be sitting face to face gazing into one another's eyes, so walking can ease the tension somewhat.


i love that idea.  i never would have thought about a first meeting in a place where sitting across from each other was not necessarily required.  i agree with Cloudz that it would ease the tension for many...including myself....who are more timid and shy. 

Daddy and i first meet at a play party held by mutal friends, and although we had been chatting online and on the phone for several months, i spent the first hour of the party avoiding Him...hehe.  It all worked out though! 

Good luck with Your first meeting!!!

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RE: The Meeting - 7/17/2007 8:49:43 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I would prefer looking into his eyes, watching facial expressions,fully listening to what is being said..this to me enables a person to put the face to the voice and mesh them into one..it also affords the opportunity to get a better feel for all sorts of things..such as attraction, sincerity, animation, a deepening exchange of ideas and thoughts....Tempting

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RE: The Meeting - 7/18/2007 11:45:18 AM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		It is always a good idea for a guy not to offer to play at the first meeting. It makes her desire it even more. Have I ever not played the first time.? No, but I thought about it.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/18/2007 2:12:47 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		We met outside a Borders Bookstore at a mall. Spent the first half hour or so walking through Office Depot looking for a new cordless phone for my dad. By then the jitters had died down a lot so we drove over to the diner for brunch. By the time that ended we still didn't want to part so we picked up a picnic lunch and drove to the beach. We did simple things all day, ordinary things, and in public. We talked and kissed a lot and it went great. But I would have felt comfortable saying goodbye at any time, after phone shopping, after brunch, after the picnic etc.  The fact that there was no pressure was wonderful.

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RE: The Meeting - 7/28/2007 10:36:19 PM   
noirwest


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Status: offline 		Don't know what this means but I've always preferred the downtown library for my first meeting. Something about the open space and silence that sets a good working tone. And if someone loses their nerve and fails to show, hey, got lots to read while marking time.

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