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Aylee -> RE: BOUNTY'S coffee shop (3/26/2009 7:37:00 AM)
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I suppose what I am saying is that I think the idea of "kissing and telling," to be pretty horrible. Discussing explicitly about what the two of you (or more as the case may be) do in private is very disrespectful of your partner(s) and yourself. It also shows a lack of courtesy to those around you who might hear.
Saying that you enjoy sex in many different places is one thing. Telling us all about the sex you have had in different places, with different partners, is something different. But even with the first, there is a time and place.
The word, "intimate" means something. To take that something and throw it out for public consumption, lessens it.
When I was in sixth-grade, I had crush on a guy, Ryan M (we had been in elementary school togeather as well). We had some school dances, and I was at one point thinking about asking him to dance with me at the next one. Until one day in the girls locker-room, after PE class, I heard some girls talking about them. They were talking about passing him around as a boyfriend. He was going to be getting a two-week stint or something with each gal, in a certain order. This disgusted me. As a sixth-grader, I was appaled. How could anyone let themselves be a party to such was beyond all rational. This was not a sweater to be shared, it was a person. And Ryan was okay with it. It increased his "status."
So, yes, I do not like locker-room talk, from males or females. I find it disgusting and de-humanizing for the talker and the talkee.
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