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The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 11:56:50 AM   
SirEbonyPhoenix


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Status: offline 		It's been a while since my last post, but despite that, I've given much thought to this topic: When it comes to the submissive/slave uniform, what does a Dom/Master have in mind for them to wear? To me, it has to be more than just a collar, a leash, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs because the idea is to make a submissive/slave presentable and beautiful, particuarly when they are attending a public event. My vision is to dress a submissive in not only the items I described, but also to have her wear some hosiery (not pantyhose) and maybe some nipple jewelry to keep their attention. I'm not sure of what everyone else's opinion is, but as they say, different strokes for different folks.

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 12:11:14 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		Since you are describing public types of events i'll comment on those first,

my Master/Daddy dresses me or has me dress accordingly for the function (whether he picks everything from top to bottom or allows me to do so with his final say depends on the event). Sometimes i wear something cute with high heeled shoes or boots that he has chosen for me, sometimes frilly ankle socks, sometimes not....sometimes panties are needed but mostly i wear none....

Sometimes the collar i wear is a casual one, sometimes fancier depending.
If there is a theme sometimes he will allow me to dress for the theme. Sometimes he has me dress for comfort or for whatever the play place is (meaning sometimes i may think of something that is too fancy or special for the space we will be in and he will veto it so that my clothes don't get messed up)

These are all for BDSM events or swingers clubs.... There is a difference of course with non lifestyle events (of either lifestyle).... Keeping in mind with what my Daddy likes to see there are 2 key words for me-SLUT and COMFORT (the latter not always applying to my foot wear lol).

What i wear at home is generally somethings slutty (short skirt/tight tops/pretty bras/no panties) with high heels for when he comes home and then at night when i am more comfy i tend to wear a bra and long wife beater tank top and no panties or short jammy shorts.

Collar is on all the time except for sleep


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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 12:16:34 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		oh criminey... we now have to wear uniforms???

~walks away muttering about never getting the freakin memos~

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 12:21:08 PM   
Evanesce


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Status: offline 		In public, I prefer my property to be a bit on the "GQ" side of stylish.  I like looking at well-dressed men.  But then, there are those public occasions when a leather vest, t-shirt, jeans and boots are more appropriate, and that works well, too.
 
At home, however, any male who lives in or serves us in the Kaptin's home will most likely be required to wear a mesh tank top and boxer briefs most of the time.  I had one "submissive" tell me once that this was "not appropriate attire for a slave," and that I just couldn't handle "seeing a man who wanted to be more revealing."  It has nothing to do with that.  I can see naked any time I want.  Naked isn't all that attractive and exciting.  I find a little bit of clothing to be FAR sexier than nudity, and that's how I expect my boy to be dressed.  Cuffs and collar are optional, at my whim.

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 12:37:04 PM   
GeekyGirl


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Status: offline 		Well I don't attend public events, so that one is out for me.

At home, I am very casual and I discuss with any prospective dominant that I don't really do the "running around looking girly" thing. I simply don't have time. I'm a jeans and tshirt kind of girl.

I prefer my BDSM to blend very much with my every day life. I live on a farm. High heels are simply not safe or appropriate unless you are in the house, and I'm only in the house a couple of hours a day (other than sleep time.) I also share this property with family and I think they'd look at me pretty funny if they came over at 2 in the afternoon to see me cleaning house dressed like a hooker.

My "day job" requires it's own uniform and wearing jewelry such as collars is not allowed....however, I will wear one at home and at other times if he so requires.

No bra is not logical at my breast size (they'd be hanging down around my belt). Skirts don't work either unless we're going out to dinner. I work outside all the time and it's hard to ride horses, pitch hay and muck stalls in a skirt.

I just prefer to be practical. I don't mind "cleaning up" for him to go out or for a night of in-house kinky fun...but I am not playing a fantasy game and I expect my dominant to be realistic to my life style. I'm very busy running in and out of the house to deal with critters and I simply don't have time to tip toe around in heels and mini skirts.


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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 12:43:04 PM   
arayofsunshine55


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Status: offline 		We dont do public events either.  When in Las Vegas it's short, often latex and high heels.  When at home its dresses.  Always the collar/bracelet and the numerous piercings.  He does tease/frighten/threaten to have me at public event with leash and heels and little else.

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 1:03:43 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		You let them wear clothes?  Slacker!

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 1:06:13 PM   
charismagirrl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

 Naked isn't all that attractive and exciting.  I find a little bit of clothing to be FAR sexier than nudity, and that's how I expect my boy to be dressed. 


i couldn't agree with you more and it seems as thought my Daddy agrees, THANK GOD! Not that he doesn't find it attractive for me to be naked BUT he loves the slut look.

One great example of an almost naked but not quite thing is what i wore out on Friday night. It was a mesh dress with pretty decent sized holes over the whole thing. It has a "bra" insert across the boob area (and i wore a lace white demicup bra under it) and no panties. It is totally revealing of just about everything but also adds to the look because "you" can glimpse my pussy without it being totally visible and in your face (so to speak)....Kind of peek a booish but i am essentially naked.

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 2:35:57 PM   
trainedobedients


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Status: offline 		Master bought me a very nice collar which I wear 24/7 it has never been off since he put it on.

He prefers dresses and skirts over trousers. High heels over flats. Garter belts and stockings over Self adhesive stockings. Button down blouses over t-shirts.

Sometimes I can choose myself and at others he tells me what to wear. Sometimes I dress and he makes me change since he does not approve of it.

I always try to dress the way he likes.

We both know that there are appropriate places to wear such short skirts that my panties show or not.

We live 24/7 D/s but maintain a normal front in the outside world. Both our professions require that as well as our family situation.

Being told how to dress is, to me, needed. I love to do what I am told and pleasing Master is my first and number one priority.

Hope this answers your and others curiosity.

trainedobedients
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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 3:04:03 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

oh criminey... we now have to wear uniforms???

~walks away muttering about never getting the freakin memos~

lmao - i was thinking the same thing ...now where did i stash the uniform Daddy gave me when i was collared.

seriously, i don't have a dress code since i don't attend play and/or fetish parties ...my partying is done at the rock concerts i review so a pair of jeans/skirt/shorts and top will do just fine for me.  if i'm attending church and/or family event - it's dress or dress casual ...if i'm going out on the town to a swanky club, it's dress to impress.


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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 3:27:55 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Valyraen trusts me to look presentable and be approiately dressed at all times. He is more turned on by a practical pair of sneakers, well-fitting (not painted on) jeans and a comfortable shirt than he is some sexy get-up. He also doesn't like putting on a leash on me because he prefers me being free to move around and fetch him drinks without him having to go with me. Generally, when I do wear a leash, it's a chain mail collar and leash that I was given for my birthday and the leash part mostly goes on my own wrist. So far the only items of clothing that turn him on are a pair of a boots that look really old-fashioned with jet buttons up the side and a fishnet body suit that he wouldn't have me wear out.

Whenever I do get really dressed up in high heels, sexy corset, short skirt - that sort of thing - it's because I love getting dressed up.

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 3:54:30 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Valyraen trusts me to look presentable and be approiately dressed at all times. He is more turned on by a practical pair of sneakers, well-fitting (not painted on) jeans and a comfortable shirt than he is some sexy get-up. He also doesn't like putting on a leash on me because he prefers me being free to move around and fetch him drinks without him having to go with me. Generally, when I do wear a leash, it's a chain mail collar and leash that I was given for my birthday and the leash part mostly goes on my own wrist. So far the only items of clothing that turn him on are a pair of a boots that look really old-fashioned with jet buttons up the side and a fishnet body suit that he wouldn't have me wear out.

Whenever I do get really dressed up in high heels, sexy corset, short skirt - that sort of thing - it's because I love getting dressed up.


What I used to do was put a collar on her, and then loop a chain dog leash through it and hook it to the handle part so it hung down 1.5 feet from her neck to her naughty bits.

Then she could go get me drinks knowing I could grab the handle at any time and lead her to the spanking table.

Seemed to work.

Sinergy

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:15:15 PM   
Rafters


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl
quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic
oh criminey... we now have to wear uniforms???
~walks away muttering about never getting the freakin memos~

lmao - i was thinking the same thing ...now where did i stash the uniform Daddy gave me when i was collared.
seriously, i don't have a dress code since i don't attend play and/or fetish parties ...my partying is done at the rock concerts i review so a pair of jeans/skirt/shorts and top will do just fine for me.  if i'm attending church and/or family event - it's dress or dress casual ...if i'm going out on the town to a swanky club, it's dress to impress.


Where's the boundary of a uniform?
Does this count?
http://www.sylvie-monthule.com/fr/dept_29.html
Does a blush?
How about the wet patch creeping down the inside thigh of a pair of blue jeans

If a sub's uniform is their Dom's whim, then the uniform concept must a be flexible concept

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:29:23 PM   
leatherette


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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelic

oh criminey... we now have to wear uniforms???

~walks away muttering about never getting the freakin memos~


giggles.... "Does it come in any color but khaki?"
I'd really like one of those cute old fashioned sailor suits. You know, with a lil white hat and a big blue bow? 
Would a big, bad soldier man lend a poor girl a uniform ...only the jacket kind Sir ...no pants needed, nudie will do...   Puhleezzee?
I'll salute. I promise! Pretty please....?

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:44:01 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		i guess i wasn't quite clear in my reply - i don't have a uniform designated to me by Daddy ...i'm an adult and know how to dress myself accordingly

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:52:24 PM   
leatherette


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Status: offline 		 oh, sambamanslilgirl: people are just teasing!
 
Don't fret,  we trust you are an adult and can dress yourself.
But, why would you want to?   

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:53:50 PM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rafters

[Where's the boundary of a uniform?
Does this count?
http://www.sylvie-monthule.com/fr/dept_29.html



Stunning!

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:55:02 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		because i like to - is that an simple enough answer for you?

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 4:56:30 PM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: leatherette

But, why would you want to?   


i so agree

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RE: The submissive/slave uniform - 6/17/2007 5:00:15 PM   
BrutalMasterOne


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Well I hope you will forgive a bit of braggadocio, but with three slaves, all of whom are very different, and not liking to be "predictable" the "uniform" is what I require and/or order. However, there are certain things that always happen.
  • The collar. ALWAYS worn no matter what else
  • Panties, NEVER, no matter what is worn.
  • The clothing, revealing as is possible considering the venue.
  • Foot covering?
    • depends upon the slave, one can't wear heels due to a foot problem, one other can wear them but only for a short time, and the final one loves them and hates them both.

The "uniform" therefore is whatever is ordered and never is it otherwise. LOL, unless they suggest something better.

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