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Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 7:57:47 AM   
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           Quote from Readers Digest magazine;

Meditation as Medication

           “Meditators may seem serious, but taking time to clear your mind can boost your spirits—and your immunity.
           That’s the word from scientists at University of Wisconsin. Psychologist Richard J. Davidson and colleagues gave 41 people a flu vaccine. A little more than half of the subjects learned to meditate and followed a regular schedule of “Om time” for an hour a day, six days a week. Another group just got the vaccine. After eight weeks, meditators had higher levels of flu-fighting antibodies than those who didn’t meditate. They were also better able to deal with stress and had increased activity in the area of the brain linked to good moods. The results weren’t temporary: the feel-good effects lasted for up to four months after the meditation training sessions ended.
           Meditation produces measurable biological changes in the brain and body, said Davidson. It’s safe and can be of great benefit. It may be a useful complement to treatments already underway.”

Meditation

           Place a hard back chair in front of a window with an unobstructed view of outside. Make sure all pets and children are elsewhere, so you will not be disturbed.
           Sit in the chair with your feet flat on the ground. Put your left hand on your abdomen below your navel, and your right hand on top of it. Keep your back straight.
           Focus your attention on your breathing. Breathe in through your nose, drawing the air deep into your lungs by pushing out your abdomen, rather than expanding your chest. When you are breathing in correctly, it should feel like the air is going all the way down to your womb/ lower abdomen. Breathe out through your mouth.
           After you are doing this correctly, maintain your attention on your breathing, but shift some of your attention to looking at what is going on outside the window. Try to be aware of everything outside; the clouds, the sky, the trees, birds, whatever is there.
           When you are able to do this, maintain your attention on your breathing and what you see, and shift some of your attention to what you hear. Noises from outside, inside, whatever they may be. Resist the impulse to decide what the noises are; just be aware that they are.
           When you are able to do this, maintain your attention on what you are aware of as before, and shift some of your attention to what you smell. Don’t try to decide what the smells are; just be aware that they are.
           When you are able to do this, maintain your attention on your breathing, what you see, what you hear, and what you smell, shift some of your attention on what you feel. Be aware of how the chair feels that you are sitting in, the floor under your feet, your posture in the chair, and anything else your body feels. If stray thoughts go through your head, don’t become angry or frustrated; just return to the exercise.
           What you are trying to do, is to spread your attention to as many things in your environment as possible. Eventually, the part of your mind that insists on talking to itself silently will be overwhelmed with this effort, and shut down.
           Try to do this exercise for 15 minutes the first time. Don’t become discouraged if you cannot; learning meditation takes time and effort.
           Once you are able to maintain Inner Silence for a full 15 minutes, increase your meditation by 5 minutes, to 20 minutes. Once you are able to maintain Inner Silence for 20 minutes, increase it to 25 minutes.
           Once you are able to maintain Inner Silence for 1 hour, you should start noticing improvements in yourself. You will find yourself more peaceful, more relaxed, no matter how stressful the day has become.
           Once you are able to maintain Inner Silence for 1 hour, we will talk again about where you go from there.
           It isn’t absolutely necessary to do this exercise at home; you can also do it outside, while sitting in the car and looking through your windshield, or if weather permits in a park, by a river, or any other place with natural beauty that you will not be disturbed. You can even do this on a bench at the mall, as long as you do not allow yourself to become distracted from what you are trying to accomplish.


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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 8:31:28 AM   
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Too Wordy:

Jon Kabat-Zinn, Full Catastrophe Living:

Excercise 1



1. Assume a comfortable posture lying on your back or sitting. If your are sitting, keep the spine straight, and let your shoulders drop.
2. Close your eyes if it feels comfortable.
3. Bring your attention to your belly, feeling it rise or expand gently on the inbreath and fall or reced on the outbreath.
4. Keep the focus on your breathing, Being with each inbreath for its full duration and with each outbreath for its full duration, as if you were riding the waves of your own breathing
5. Every time you notice that you mind has wandered off the breath, notice what is was that took you away, and then gently bring your attention back to your belly and the feeling of the breath coming in and out.


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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 8:47:34 AM   
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I have been meditating a lot while I float on a raft in my pool... it is very nice to just concentrate on different noises and let my mind go... and it is theraputic

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 11:50:20 AM   
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I need to get back into meditation.
It is such a peaceful,  calming experience.
This is one of my favorite books, I received it when I was in the hospital last year
I consider it one of the best and most thoughtful gifts I've ever received

http://www.amazon.com/Meditation-Bible-Definitive-Meditations-Purpose/dp/1402728433


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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 12:07:08 PM   
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I had a great teacher (don't i sound so knowledgable lol) tell me that when you can meditate while doing dishes you have really learned the art of meditation.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/16/2007 3:34:23 PM   
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I taught meditation at the martial arts studio I used to teach at for 20 or so years.  I suppose
the methods presented will work, although they are a bunch of different paths to the same place,
as far as I am concerned.  Arguing about what method works best is like arguing about whether a
Ford, a Honda, or a Dodge, will get one to Disneyland.  The answer is twofold; they all will
and why the hell are we arguing about it?  Disneyland awaits.

There is a point where what one experiences in meditation bleeds off into real life.  Which is not
to say one should stop meditating, but the state of stillness from meditation is a wonderful thing
to experience during one's waking life.

The comments about doing the dishes relates, in my mind, to what Thich Nhat Han (sp?) wrote
about.  The only title of his that I can remember is "The Miracle of Mindfulness."  When one is
involved in doing something, anything, one should be completely mindful and present of what
one is doing.  Thinking about the kids, the cats, the fight with one's boss, being beaten lovingly,
whatever, while one is doing the dishes is not mindful of the activity of washing the dishes. 

The stillness and peace is found in the doing of the dishes.

To me, what is most important about meditation is the ability to still the mind so that all focus
is on what one is doing.  The weird thing about this is that the end result is a mind that is NOT
focussed on what one is doing, while being completely focussed on it. 

It is a peaceful, calm stillness that I miss terribly when it is not in my life.  Happily, those times are
rather infrequent at this point.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 5:15:51 AM   
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As Sinergy mentioned, Thich Nhat Hanh and some others have some lovely mindfulness meditations that are simply about focusing on one thing at a time and being conscious of all of your senses, your surroundings etc.  One of the beginner exercises is to eat a raisin/sultana mindfully, take your time to observe it, how it is placed on the table/plate, it's shape, its colour, then pick it up - what does it feel like, how heavy is it, is it squishy or hard, place it in your mouth - again take note of texture, taste, shape etc... you get the drift ... you can do this with any activity eg. mindful walking, mindful sitting in the sauna (I practise that one all the time ), reading the paper......

Here are some links for people that are interested in reading some more (some are from a Buddhist perspective)

http://www.budsas.org/ebud/mfneng/mind0.htm
http://www.forhealing.org/meditation.html
http://www.naturalfamilyonline.com/2-ns/57-meditating-mamas.htm
http://www.learningmeditation.com/room.htm
http://www.meditationsociety.com/

The author mentioned by FargleBargle is also great - Jon Kabat-Zinn. 

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 9:21:49 AM   
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   Sinergy brings up a good point, although I consider it more applicable to experienced practitioners then beginners at Meditation.
  The Toltec Seers of pre-Columbian Mexico taught their apprentices that Inner Silence could be saved. Moment by moment, second by second, until a threshold was reached. Once that threshold was reached, Inner Silence happened by itself. I can testify to the fact that this is true, and apparently others can, too.
  There are several advantages to saving Inner Silence to this point and beyond, but it's best to experience these for yourself.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 9:41:35 AM   
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I'll have to think about all this for a while.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 9:45:05 AM   
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I have been told this is hard for me because i have ADD...i don't have AD....OOOOO hey look!! a squirrel!!!
LMAO...sorry just kidding


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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 9:54:32 AM   
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Meditation and even be done just by taking out a piece of music you find calming.
Sit and just listen to it  and you will have calmed the mind and your being.

I also have taught Meditation for over 20 years (teach the same class with conservatives as stress reduction).
I have learned that Meditation can be done in 2 minutes to 20.

For those just starting out - take it slow.  Keep your time short before going for the long time periods.
I call it - learning to crawl before you run.
Our western minds just have not been trained to slow down for even a minute.
Do not get discouraged, just practice, practice, practice.


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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 12:16:42 PM   
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I guess I misspoke.

There really is no goal one is trying to end up with by meditating.  There is a Buddhist concept called the "Monkey Mind."  This is the mind that jumps around from thought to thought without ever focussing on the simple act of being.

One of the frequent thoughts the Monkey Mind will bring up when one is starting out are things like "Im doing this wrong" or "Im trying to get to point B" or whatever.

As bliss1 pointed out, simply practice and be wherever you are at that moment.  One will get to wherever one needs to get to, and wherever one is happens to be where one should be.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 3:38:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

I have been told this is hard for me because i have ADD...i don't have AD....OOOOO hey look!! a squirrel!!!
LMAO...sorry just kidding



Meditation has actually been showen to help those with ADD and ADHD in learning to concentrate better. Don't ever let someone tell you that you "can't do something," because if you really want to heal you can change it. The point they should have said is that you will have difficulty, but you also can learn many diffrent coping devices. (Sorry off my soap box. some psychologists just bother me.)

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 10:21:44 PM   
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i listen to the "nature channel"
sounds of nature are mixed in with various pieces of classical music.

it works quite well






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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 11:05:45 PM   
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Grr. Meditation is such a wretchedly misunderstood topic. Most people seem to think it's all about being peaceful and calm! Ah wells.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/17/2007 11:42:40 PM   
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I am at my best when able to schedule quality "alone" time and relax mentally.
Being around other people constantly is something I find very stressful.
 
A good book, a cup of tea and time to process ideas and emotions are
such luxuries in our hectic lifestyles.
 
Good topic, Ghost, and welcome to the Forums! 

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/18/2007 3:10:39 AM   
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i like to meditate lying down.. it helps me relax more...

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/18/2007 3:14:29 AM   
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3. Bring your attention to your belly, feeling it rise or expand gently on the inbreath and fall or reced on the outbreath.
4. Keep the focus on your breathing, Being with each inbreath for its full duration and with each outbreath for its full duration, as if you were riding the waves of your own breathing
5. Every time you notice that you mind has wandered off the breath, notice what is was that took you away, and then gently bring your attention back to your belly and the feeling of the breath coming in and out.



Perhaps one of the finest books I've ever owned / read  - The Warriors Edge, by Colonel John B. Alexander and Major Richard Groller Goes into great detail regards concentration and detachment, where a host of intricate breathing techniques are used to quiet the mind and push the acceptance level of pain.




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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/18/2007 7:30:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy


I guess I misspoke.

There really is no goal one is trying to end up with by meditating.  There is a Buddhist concept called the "Monkey Mind."  This is the mind that jumps around from thought to thought without ever focussing on the simple act of being.

One of the frequent thoughts the Monkey Mind will bring up when one is starting out are things like "Im doing this wrong" or "Im trying to get to point B" or whatever.

As bliss1 pointed out, simply practice and be wherever you are at that moment.  One will get to wherever one needs to get to, and wherever one is happens to be where one should be.

Sinergy


  With all due respect to Sinergy, there are actual goals beyond Meditation. Most, however, are sufficiently esoteric to freak most people out and generate a lot of denial and internal dialogue, which is going in the opposite direction of what Meditation is supposed to accomplish. One goal that is sufficiently harmless enough to be mentioned, is that Inner Silence makes awareness sharper. You start to notice things in the enviornment, and also inside you, that you hadn't noticed before. Internal dialogue (talking to yourself silently in your mind) not only uses up vital energy that could be used for other things, it also limits perception. Your awareness is focused on the constant flow of me,me,me thoughts going through your head, and you don't notice things in your enviornment unless they are so obvious as to override your thinking. Inner Silence encourages awareness to expand. It encourages us to be more aware of the Mystery around us; the world we assume we know, but really know very little about. We end up being like a horse fitted with blinders; seeing only what is right in front of us, and not able to appreciate the world around us.
  Inner Silence is also a prerequisite to begin to learn how to do other things. As I mentioned earlier, however, those "other things" can be a bit much for most.
  The few among you who might be Seekers, can learn more about those "other things"  from the following link; http://www.cleargreen.com
  Thank you for your attention, and have a nice day.

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RE: Meditation 101 - 6/18/2007 7:35:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

I am at my best when able to schedule quality "alone" time and relax mentally.
Being around other people constantly is something I find very stressful.
 
A good book, a cup of tea and time to process ideas and emotions are
such luxuries in our hectic lifestyles.
 
Good topic, Ghost, and welcome to the Forums! 


  Thank you! Thank you! It's nice to be here!

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