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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:06:34 PM   
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unfortunately i have been doing that for so long i am ki8nda getting used to it!  LOL


My worry is that I'm enjoying myself so much that I think it will be difficult to put up with another person 24/7.  This is something that bothers me.  Sometimes.



Katy, a good Master should give his slave a day "off" once a week.
Like a sat or sunday to go out shopping, get together with friends, hobbies, whatever they wish. To like, "recharge the batteries."
I can cook pretty good so I don't mind making supper on a sunday night either. I also do dishs.
I think something like that is why "communication" is important in a relationship.

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:11:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		See...i personally would thrive in a full time or 24/7 relationship....its all a process and i NEED to be patient, thats not an easy thing for me. Discipline has never been my strong suite. I imagine that will be changing.

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:12:16 PM   
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and i wonder if i am too comfortable alone...never having to give anyone elses moods any thought...i feel almost selfish, yet i delight in being the queen of my own castle....i long for the touch of someone and shudder at the thought of sharing my space when i am so accustomed to solitude...


GET OUTTA MY HEAD!!


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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:13:10 PM   
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Seeks...that was beautiful...thankyou so very much for posting it here.

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no thank you for reminding me i wrote it-i needed to read that today and had completely forgotten it......it reminded me that things happen when they are supposed to, and nothing we do can change that.....

my minds a scary place to get there from that huh?

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:18:17 PM   
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See...i personally would thrive in a full time or 24/7 relationship....its all a process and i NEED to be patient, thats not an easy thing for me. Discipline has never been my strong suite. I imagine that will be changing.


change is good-i think i will be much better in a 24/7 relationship because of the time i have spent alone.......i just wonder sometimes if i will be too blind to see it when it presents its self to me.....as the contentment i feel alone is true, and to add someone to my life, it will have to be better than alone.

that said, serving the one master i served for 6 months last summer was better than alone, and just now has my head cleared enough to once again begin the journey to find another, having learned more about me from him...and our relationship

being a grown up sucks some days doesnt it?

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:18:27 PM   
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Seeks...that was beautiful...thankyou so very much for posting it here.



no thank you for reminding me i wrote it-i needed to read that today and had completely forgotten it......it reminded me that things happen when they are supposed to, and nothing we do can change that.....

my minds a scary place to get there from that huh?

Thats the kind of scary i'm used to in my life...LOL...just ask my Master
Its was very beautifully written and i thankyou again.


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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:27:39 PM   
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My worry is that I'm enjoying myself so much that I think it will be difficult to put up with another person 24/7.  This is something that bothers me.  Sometimes.



Katy, a good Master should give his slave a day "off" once a week.
Like a sat or sunday to go out shopping, get together with friends, hobbies, whatever they wish. To like, "recharge the batteries."
I can cook pretty good so I don't mind making supper on a sunday night either. I also do dishs.
I think something like that is why "communication" is important in a relationship.


i believe that a slave does need to have "time off" for taking care of her/his own needs.  This is a very good way to handle being a 24/7 live-in slave.  my Master wants His slave to be at her best and that means that she needs to be rested and in good emotional health, as well as good physical health.  To stay healthy, both physically and emotionally, i need to have some regular time just to myself.  For me, that means making time for myself, that doesn't interfere with my duties to my Master. 
 
Since my Master works at night and sleeps in until about 9:30 AM, and i have always been a morning person, i get up by at least 6:30 or 7:00 nearly every day so that i have time to get His coffee and other things ready for Him, as well as get myself cleaned-up & dressed and then, still have time for myself to just enjoy being alone in the quiet of the morning.  There have been some times that i have had to make adjustments to this for a few months at a time, when His work schedule was temporarily changed. 
 
Being flexible is important when you live with another.
 
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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:54:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied


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unfortunately i have been doing that for so long i am ki8nda getting used to it!  LOL


My worry is that I'm enjoying myself so much that I think it will be difficult to put up with another person 24/7.  This is something that bothers me.  Sometimes.



yeh no kidding and combine that with the rigors expected of a sub or moreso a slave?  and i will stop at saying then add everything else...  it becomes and interesting set of circumstances  LOL


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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 3:58:25 PM   
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and i wonder if i am too comfortable alone...never having to give anyone elses moods any thought...i feel almost selfish, yet i delight in being the queen of my own castle....i long for the touch of someone and shudder at the thought of sharing my space when i am so accustomed to solitude...


GET OUTTA MY HEAD!!




The hard part i think is when one has to compromise the soul.    Many want to own and control anothers soul not only in bdsm but it is human nature i think.


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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 4:05:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne

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and i wonder if i am too comfortable alone...never having to give anyone elses moods any thought...i feel almost selfish, yet i delight in being the queen of my own castle....i long for the touch of someone and shudder at the thought of sharing my space when i am so accustomed to solitude...


GET OUTTA MY HEAD!!




The hard part i think is when one has to compromise the soul.    Many want to own and control anothers soul not only in bdsm but it is human nature i think.



the one i served was not 24/7 and it took every fiber of my being....and i adored it......i so understand when people on here discuss the dynamics of 24/7, and then i do not understand a bit of it.....i just know it would take someone who you were so much on the same wavelength with.

i think(hope), that when it is right, it flows so easily.....as it did in the first taste of it i had....

damn ill be glad to get back to work tomorrow and tie my brain up in something different....

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 4:11:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seeks...i can really get behind what you are saying....its just going from having Master with me every day except for when He was at work. To not seeing Him for about 9 days, and not having many opportunities for any nice leisurely discussions or to just talk for any length of time or even to chat online...its hard to go from what we had to the sporadic communication we have now...and just i'm being verbal about my loneliness is all......i hope your work week goes well by the way....

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 4:24:54 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		i feel your pain.....alone is much easier to take when you get used to it again....even comfortable......but to not have something you crave and are used to there.......i know it has to suck....

so smile......at least, today anyhow, even paris hilton can say "damn it sucks to be me!"

hope tomorrow is better for you

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RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient - 6/10/2007 6:10:25 PM   
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[i fear i have been rather whiny of late, because i haven't seen my Master in like 9 days or something....


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