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imthatacheyouhav -> So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:13:14 PM)
So i just quit whining, suck it up and accept the situation the way it is...or i dont...and find someone with availability that matches my own more closely. Yep that pretty much sums it up.......i just successfully argued with my self....LOL

KatyLied -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:25:25 PM)
Or.....learn to be happy in the moment, make a life that you can be happy with, that doesn't depend on another person for fullfillment. .

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:28:55 PM)
i wish i had a punching bag outside so i could take out my frustrations on something without hurting myself or someone else.

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:35:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia i wish i had a punching bag outside so i could take out my frustrations on something without hurting myself or someone else. Ahhh...what a WONDERFUL idea....

KatyLied -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:36:44 PM)
Punch a pillow; or rolled up sleeping bag.

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:39:23 PM)
Is it more fun if the pillow says, OUCH!!...hey that hurts!..... when you punch it?

KenDckey -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:44:16 PM)
I have a lot of painting that needs to be done and until you calm down you can splatter it on my floor. I am saving that till the painting is done. Oh and I have boards that need hammered. I am remodeling

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:45:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KenDckey I have a lot of painting that needs to be done and until you calm down you can splatter it on my floor. I am saving that till the painting is done. Oh and I have boards that need hammered. I am remodeling LMAO...yeah...i NEED to get hammered....LOL

KenDckey -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:47:27 PM)
lol we come on out.

Level -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 1:52:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav So i just quit whining, suck it up and accept the situation the way it is...or i dont...and find someone with availability that matches my own more closely. Yep that pretty much sums it up.......i just successfully argued with my self....LOL Did you win the argument? [;)]

losttreasure -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:00:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Did you win the argument? [;)] Oh, that would be bad... to have an argument with yourself and lose. [;)]

Level -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:03:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: losttreasure quote: ORIGINAL: Level Did you win the argument? [;)] Oh, that would be bad... to have an argument with yourself and lose. [;)] Yes it would heh heh. [8\|] Hope you and Kentucky are doing well, btw. imthat, what are you being a total asshole about?

KatyLied -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:11:52 PM)
quote: Is it more fun if the pillow says, OUCH!!...hey that hurts!..... when you punch it? It's more fun if you give the pillow a cussing out. Then refuse it to have an orgasm. [8D]

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:12:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: losttreasure quote: ORIGINAL: Level Did you win the argument? [;)] Oh, that would be bad... to have an argument with yourself and lose. [;)] Yes it would heh heh. [8\|] Hope you and Kentucky are doing well, btw. imthat, what are you being a total asshole about? i fear i have been rather whiny of late, because i haven't seen my Master in like 9 days or something....i am FULLY capable of being an asshole...LOL ask anybody that knows me....however i'm also a repentant asshole LOL

losttreasure -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:27:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level ... Hope you and Kentucky are doing well, btw. Very, very well, thank you. [:D]

Real0ne -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Or.....learn to be happy in the moment, make a life that you can be happy with, that doesn't depend on another person for fullfillment. . yup ageed! unfortunately i have been doing that for so long i am ki8nda getting used to it! LOL So now my looking has waned considerably and i have gotten extreme;ly picky by comparison, which i suppose also has its good and bad points.

KatyLied -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:43:24 PM)
quote: unfortunately i have been doing that for so long i am ki8nda getting used to it! LOL My worry is that I'm enjoying myself so much that I think it will be difficult to put up with another person 24/7. This is something that bothers me. Sometimes.

Level -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 2:57:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: unfortunately i have been doing that for so long i am ki8nda getting used to it! LOL My worry is that I'm enjoying myself so much that I think it will be difficult to put up with another person 24/7. This is something that bothers me. Sometimes. Same here, Katy. I do like my alone time, always have.

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 3:02:42 PM)
i remembered writing this on a blog i do on yahoo sometimes......i thought i would share it.... lazy sundays sundays....i believe they are a day of rest and i am so lucky to have a job that does not require work on weekends....it amazes me how plans change though...the days i have plans for such things as chores and housework turn into lazy napping reading thinking days instead....if my body is refreshed, my mind demands the same and i have learned to allow the moods to rule what i do...as long as they dont yell quit your job and hitchhike all over the country i figure no harm is done... and i wonder if i am too comfortable alone...never having to give anyone elses moods any thought...i feel almost selfish, yet i delight in being the queen of my own castle....i long for the touch of someone and shudder at the thought of sharing my space when i am so accustomed to solitude...having been married for all my adult life until a few years ago, i wonder am i normal or crazy...i often thought folks choosing to be single were strange, yet i find my self thinking i could never give up one moment of solitude that i desire..... i try not to think about it most days but today it is bugging me for some reason, so i turn to this silly blog which is never read by anyone but me and type, hoping for the answers, yet knowing what they are already in some ways.... i used to think my dream man was one that would come to me and complete me, take care of me, want to be with me always, we would do everything together... now he is someone who comes when i need him, leaves when i dont want him around, does his own thing as i do mine, yet it is still a completion of me...both of us separate entities, content alone, yet the coming together is a most wonderful thing too....whether for dinner or talking or sex or projects around the house, it is enjoyable in a way we both desire immensely, yet still crave our own space, a cave to crawl into and be alone with our thoughts and minds and memories and desires and questions..... lawd i think im gonna be single for a long long time because i do not think such a soul exists..........amazing how typing cures me for a while...and i am glad to be going back to work tomorrow to occupy my wandering lazy mind... lazy sundays.....such sweet curses given to us huh?

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: So i'm being a total asshole and impatient (6/10/2007 3:06:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne i remembered writing this on a blog i do on yahoo sometimes......i thought i would share it.... lazy sundays sundays....i believe they are a day of rest and i am so lucky to have a job that does not require work on weekends....it amazes me how plans change though...the days i have plans for such things as chores and housework turn into lazy napping reading thinking days instead....if my body is refreshed, my mind demands the same and i have learned to allow the moods to rule what i do...as long as they dont yell quit your job and hitchhike all over the country i figure no harm is done... and i wonder if i am too comfortable alone...never having to give anyone elses moods any thought...i feel almost selfish, yet i delight in being the queen of my own castle....i long for the touch of someone and shudder at the thought of sharing my space when i am so accustomed to solitude...having been married for all my adult life until a few years ago, i wonder am i normal or crazy...i often thought folks choosing to be single were strange, yet i find my self thinking i could never give up one moment of solitude that i desire..... i try not to think about it most days but today it is bugging me for some reason, so i turn to this silly blog which is never read by anyone but me and type, hoping for the answers, yet knowing what they are already in some ways.... i used to think my dream man was one that would come to me and complete me, take care of me, want to be with me always, we would do everything together... now he is someone who comes when i need him, leaves when i dont want him around, does his own thing as i do mine, yet it is still a completion of me...both of us separate entities, content alone, yet the coming together is a most wonderful thing too....whether for dinner or talking or sex or projects around the house, it is enjoyable in a way we both desire immensely, yet still crave our own space, a cave to crawl into and be alone with our thoughts and minds and memories and desires and questions..... lawd i think im gonna be single for a long long time because i do not think such a soul exists..........amazing how typing cures me for a while...and i am glad to be going back to work tomorrow to occupy my wandering lazy mind... lazy sundays.....such sweet curses given to us huh? Seeks...that was beautiful...thankyou so very much for posting it here.

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