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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/6/2007 4:28:17 PM

zumala

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I haven't been given a 'submissive' name, but my husband calls me different things according to his mood. I'm sometimes 'pet', 'kitty', or 'kitten'. Those make sense since my RL nickname is Kat. Don't call me Kathy if you want to live, though. I don't fancy the name for some reason.

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/6/2007 5:00:30 PM

liljoy

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Master has said that He will rename me. It never occured to me to ask why.
i like the idea of it being therapeutic though
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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/6/2007 8:53:49 PM

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I attach a lot of significance to names. My given name's full version is only what I got called when I was in dire shit as a child, so I hate it when any one else uses it! And no, I'm not disclosing it here because some smart ass will start using it to Me LOL! I like one of the common shortened versions, not the other. Since moving into bdsm, I chose a phonetic version of My initial as My Domme name and I am still comfortable with that. Luckily I haven't changed it as I have just been "rediscovered" on these boards by someone I used to chat to about 3 years ago and had lost touch with!

I had a couple of potential Masters before I found Master, and each chose a name that reflected part of my personality ... starr because i was His bright light, pristine-rose referring to my English heritage ... and now Master has named me violet for my passionate love of all things purple! Each of those names suited me and made me feel good and special to that person. With Master's permission, I am choosing to use Violet more in the new community W/we have moved to and I really love being called by that name. And I still gaze at the envelope when I see it written *grin*. But I use my given name for official things, banks etc, and professionally too as my academic papers are in that name (probably need to stick with the previous married name for a while too for that reason). Not in the mood to do the complicated deed poll thing at the moment and all the fallout that name changing would bring.

I like to re-name My subs if they become regular partners ... still think I came up with the ultimate bdsm male name ... neil ... a name and a command all in one LOL! But neil number 1 was a bit of a pain so I am wary about using that one again! I do try to find a name that suits that person, and I am also fond of looking at foreign languages for inspiration too.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/12/2007 7:18:33 PM

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i was renamed "patrice" by my Domme last year. It is the name of someone who used to model for me (photography), and we were friendly with her.

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/12/2007 7:40:57 PM

LadyHeart

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I have just met a sub who comes with the perfect name, Neil. No need to change it - I can say it in public and others hear Neil where he and I both know it's "kneel" LOL
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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/12/2007 8:26:41 PM

completenz

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hi
We have special names for each other. We came up with them when we first started chatting as a joke but we found we both liked them a great deal. Our families know of our 'nicknames' for each other and think they are cute. None of them are aware what effect those names have on us when spoken or heard. We use both our legal names and special names for each other and He often tells me that He loves 'both of me'

as i do Him.
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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/13/2007 8:44:01 AM

LadyPact

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I've always kept the habit of renaming My subs. It is a verbal symbol of their connection to Me.

In the past, I did have one boy who specifically asked to be renamed, precisely because he no longer wanted to be known by the name a former Mistress had given him. He wanted the fresh start that a new name signifies.

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/13/2007 10:24:09 AM

Littlepita

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On our first day, while chatting online about having a D/s relationship and seeing where it would take us, he gave me the name Pita. Stands for Pain In The Ass and it has become my name as much as my given name.

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/13/2007 10:59:56 AM

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Always, I believe that with My collar, comes My name for them, released from My collar and the name as well.

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RE: renaming your slaves/submissives - 6/13/2007 11:03:38 AM

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Some receives new names with the new collar and some that we like remains the same..Bounty

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