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slaverosebeauty -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:02:12 PM)

The alcohol {and drug} thing says a LOT about a few people around here.

To the OP, a drink can help relax your partner, personally, I do NOT suggest it, as her judgement may be impared, in which case what you do is rape. As for drugs, not cool; still rape if she doesn't have the ability to stop you or to say no, even if she concents before she drinks, legally, its still rape.

Then again I am a good girl, I haven't had a drink in over a year, and I STILL have had sex, tyvm.

Once again, oral is a GREAT way to help her relax, its fun for both and since she is vanilla, it shows you are a devoted partner ; hell, if a guy went down on me and I got really relaxed, he could fuck my ass as long as he wanted. If you get her to have a drink, it sounds and looks like desperation to me, kind of an easy 'out' in a way. Look at oral as foreplay and a good time to get her into a different headspace.



SimplyMichael -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:05:00 PM)

Okay, after you give a her a glass or two of wine and get her all worked out, remember this.  Tell her to push OUT with her anal muscles like she is trying to have a bowel movement.  I will leave it up to you to figure out a nicer way of saying it.  However, that is how you loosen up the sphincter muscles so that she can take a larger object.  I learned that years ago from a woman who does anal fisting so if it works for her, should work for most of you guys.



simplyeli -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:06:32 PM)

forget the alcohol...and drugs...use what god gave you...your fingers. and lots of lube. you have to be willing to move slowly and patiently and use LOTS and LOTS of foreplay. loosen her up with orgasms and then let her body determine what and to what extent you can take something like this.

you have to be willing to make extra effort to bring her pleasure with it, or you may never get this opportunity again. you could actually teach her to like it.



Lordandmaster -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:12:59 PM)

Wanna be my drug, simplyeli?



simplyeli -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:14:08 PM)

for get the alcohol and the drugs...use what you already have...your brain and your body. LOTS and LOTS of foreplay and a good bit of lube and you might get what you want and be able to teach her a new way to find pleasure. but you MUST be willing to be patient and go slow...loosen her up with orgasms...and your fingers...and you may lead her to a new way to please herself and you. otherwise, if it is rushed, not only could she be damaged physcially, but you could ruin a perfectly wonderful way to experience pleasure.



Emperor1956 -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:15:45 PM)

Oh MY GOD.  Consenting intelligent adults actually use alcohol, cocaine and/or marijuana to ... to...LOWER THEIR INHIBITIONS?   That's shameful.  That's awful.   Oh how horrible.

I can't go on...I must go on.

A really great anal lube is "Boy Butter".   If you aren't so hung up on buying a product with that moniker, it really works.  It never gets gritty (OUCH) and doesn't dry out.  Original "churn style" (I'm NOT making this up, you know) is silicone based and organic oils.  The new version is latex safe and H2O soluable.  It is called (DRUMROLL, PLEASE) "I can't believe its NOT boy butter."

But I really wanted to say:

quote:

 Domiguy:  When she wakes up, you ask if she remebers falling down the steps and how she miraculously landed on a bottle of Coke that went straight into her pooper....I inform her how I gingerly removed the bottle and carried her upstairs and tucked her into bed just like a true gentleman....For Christ sake I'm a fucking hero!!!



HEY, that story worked on YOU the last time we went camping, buddy!

*GRIN*

E.



simplyeli -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:16:11 PM)

so sorry folks...didnt mean to repeat myself...didnt think the first one took

must be the alcohol...or the drugs...or too much anal sex, maybe?



Sinergy -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:21:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ChgoFacilitator

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

No, I don't.  Some are too tight, you know.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

My advice is to fuck her in the ass.


You fuck them all in the ass.

Is it true that a frog's ass is watertight?


Not after the ass-fucking.

Sinergy



marieToo -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 9:23:04 PM)

I think the OP left.  He's probably greasing up for the big moment as we speak.



Aileen68 -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/5/2007 3:21:39 AM)

Nah...he just hit the liquor store and rolled one.



marieToo -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/5/2007 4:11:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Nah...he just hit the liquor store and rolled one.



Ha!!



SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/5/2007 6:55:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I think all of these women were intoxifying themselves....by choice...Which was their own.
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aileen68
My choice was a bit of herbage to ease things, so to speak.



Umm....yeah.  I was more than willing.
The naked munchies afterwards were yummy.


i am so glad to see someone else refer to "herbage" snort.

i agree 100% that someone should not be intoxicated to the point of not being responsible,  but it seems most who are not herb friendly  believe it will make you out of your mind crazy and unable to reason.  i compare it to a glass of wine, and as a  person who hardly ever drinks, it is my relaxation vice of choice.   it  in no way affects my decision making abilities, i have never thought i could fly off the empire state building  while smoking, and it makes laughing and having an orgasm all the better(hopefully not at the same time).

as in most things i believe, if it is not your cup of tea-do not drink it-but do not judge others about something they choose to do and you may not have a clue about.



fairdom23 -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/5/2007 7:52:22 AM)

i think i will do without the drugs and alcohol for the first time. she has enough desire to try this so im not too worried about her relaxing, but i will be sure to include lots and lots of foreplay before we move to anal.
im going to be ordering some eros lube and a set of small medium large but plugs. i can not find a "set" of plugs, just each individual one. do they sell such a thing? where it would be slightly cheaper as im buying 3 instead of one?
or should i just go ahead and order all 3 on their own?
thanks



HornyToadsMI -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/5/2007 8:16:40 AM)

Start with small and medium...forget large.  Unless You are wishing her to "wear" it during the day to be ready for You.  And another thing that has not been addressed yet (oh there is so much.....) is she may not be able to do it everytime.  And keep the toys used for anal separate from all the other party favors.  Eventhough they are cleaned each time, You still want to make sure they are "special" (ie...not spreading germs to other areas).   Enjoy......[sm=bust.gif] 



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