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marieToo -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 5:23:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Get her slightly drunk, start fooling around with her, then fuck her in the ass.
That's how I did it the first time.
Worked for me.

edited to add...lube was spit and it worked just fine.


A gram did the trick for me, my first time.  The ex would bring home shit every weekend after that.   Our last couple years together were alot of fun.  



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 5:37:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Get her slightly drunk, start fooling around with her, then fuck her in the ass.
That's how I did it the first time.
Worked for me.

edited to add...lube was spit and it worked just fine.


A gram did the trick for me, my first time.  The ex would bring home shit every weekend after that.   Our last couple years together were alot of fun.  


Up the nose or up the ass?



marieToo -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 5:41:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Get her slightly drunk, start fooling around with her, then fuck her in the ass.
That's how I did it the first time.
Worked for me.

edited to add...lube was spit and it worked just fine.


A gram did the trick for me, my first time.  The ex would bring home shit every weekend after that.   Our last couple years together were alot of fun.  


Up the nose or up the ass?


LMFAOoooOOOOooooOOOooo



Aileen68 -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 5:46:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Get her slightly drunk, start fooling around with her, then fuck her in the ass.
That's how I did it the first time.
Worked for me.

edited to add...lube was spit and it worked just fine.


A gram did the trick for me, my first time.  The ex would bring home shit every weekend after that.   Our last couple years together were alot of fun.  


Up the nose or up the ass?


LMFAOoooOOOOooooOOOooo


lmfao too.
My choice was a bit of herbage to ease things, so to speak.



domiguy -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 6:10:33 PM)

I don't use herbage or lube to get the job done....just a little intestinal fortitude and some ear plugs......By implementing this proven technique...."In Anal, no one can hear you scream."



velvetears -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 6:24:24 PM)

Being under the influence of drugs or alcohol takes away the ability to consent and personally i find the idea of endorsing it - something illegal (drugs) not the greatest idea in the world.   If a man get's a woman intoxicated and has sex with her she can turn around and call it rape - the law says she's not in a state to consent - that's grounds for rape. 

i know many play with drugs recreationally. It never amounts to more then a good time for them - altough i don't understand that type of good time because i have never used, i  do understand that there are cetain people with the right chemical soup in ther brain, the right genetic makeup that even using a substance once can lead to a substance abuse problem - and let me tell you it's not a small little problem to be quickly fiixed and can lead to years of heartache, dependency, and eventual death if the person gets so embroiled they cannot stop.  

Experience this play with your girl in a state of mind where you will both remember it, enjoy it and be fully aware of it. 



domiguy -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:01:23 PM)

I think all of these women were intoxifying themselves....by choice...Which was their own.
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aileen68
My choice was a bit of herbage to ease things, so to speak.

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marietoo
A gram did the trick for me, my first time.

I just can picture you two chowing down on a burrito while subsequently taking one in the ass....Or was it a gyro?

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velvetears
Being under the influence of drugs or alcohol takes away the ability to consent and personally i find the idea of endorsing it - something illegal (drugs) not the greatest idea in the world.   If a man get's a woman intoxicated and has sex with her she can turn around and call it rape - the law says she's not in a state to consent - that's grounds for rape.


Your paranoia....Is just that....Yes, it is prudent to be cautious...But people having been hooking up over a drink or twenty since the time of Christ.....Every doctor knows that....Wine, beer, booze and drugs have been the lubricant most preferred by 4 out of 5 subs.  



Aileen68 -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:08:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I think all of these women were intoxifying themselves....by choice...Which was their own.
quote:

aileen68
My choice was a bit of herbage to ease things, so to speak.



Umm....yeah.  I was more than willing.
The naked munchies afterwards were yummy.



velvetears -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:19:51 PM)

Not paranoid... i just don't think a dom coming for advice about making his girl more comfortable about anal and being told how alcohol and drug experiences made it a better experience for some is prudent advice.  Yes people have gotten together for drinks since before the time of christ, but what in essence does that mean? There have been rapes and murders since then as well - doesn't make them right becuase they have been going on for so long.  

If people want to indulge in their little delights it's their business, i just happen to think it's not a great idea to endorse it for others.  Especially for a first experience in something that could potentially turn out to be negative for that person.  If it turns out not to be her thing - how will she remember it?  (Under the ifluence) with perhaps a warped perception which may or may not lead to all kinds of negative feelings, guilt etc (Not under any influence) with perhaps the knowledge she gave it a fair chance and can walk away knowing it is truly something she does or does not like. 




LadyHeart -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:21:47 PM)

Lots of good advice there, but no one has mentioned possible physical problems. If she's young and hasn't had children, it's not so likely that she'll have enlarged veins in that area, but any woman who has had children may have big veins or actual haemaroids - we call them "frills." You need to have a look. If she looks like a cat's rear end, great! go right ahead with everything suggested. But if there are enlarged veins then you are going to have to be very careful. Sometimes they are too uncomfortable for fucking - ever. All you can do is use a soft butt plug very slowly. In and out just won't feel good to her. And those veins can tear easily, and that's scary. The butt plugs that work best for those with big veins are the soft ones that feel like human skin. Hard ones are sheer agony. But you can make it fun by using the ones with a built in vibrator - they give movement without the in and out stuff, and you'll be able to feel it through her when you're in her vagina.

This isn't what you see in the porn flicks, but it's the reality of real women.
:))
LH



Lordandmaster -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:23:32 PM)

I agree with velvetears.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:31:53 PM)

I am not sure, but are there not some lubes out there that help numb the area a wee bit?..to make entry less painful?..and Yes I know it may numb him a small bit as well, but for first time maybe he can forego a bit of pleasure for her newness in this realm...Tempting



DullRazer -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:35:42 PM)

Ya. Try "ANAL-ESE" or something like that. Can't remember the exact spelling of it



slaverosebeauty -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 7:59:10 PM)

Anal-ese numbs the area, its NOT a good thing, you can still do damage, he wants her to relax and enjoy herself, not bleed and be pissed at him.

Oral works to relax your partner, always works on me. I have been with partners who were very well endowed, and it got me so relaxed, one guy was close to fisting me, and I didn't know until he showed me how close he was.



marieToo -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:13:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: velvetears

Not paranoid... i just don't think a dom coming for advice about making his girl more comfortable about anal and being told how alcohol and drug experiences made it a better experience for some is prudent advice.  Yes people have gotten together for drinks since before the time of christ, but what in essence does that mean? There have been rapes and murders since then as well - doesn't make them right becuase they have been going on for so long.  

If people want to indulge in their little delights it's their business, i just happen to think it's not a great idea to endorse it for others.  Especially for a first experience in something that could potentially turn out to be negative for that person.  If it turns out not to be her thing - how will she remember it?  (Under the ifluence) with perhaps a warped perception which may or may not lead to all kinds of negative feelings, guilt etc (Not under any influence) with perhaps the knowledge she gave it a fair chance and can walk away knowing it is truly something she does or does not like. 




No one endorsed it, or suggested he use drugs. We merely recounted our own experiences.  Sometimes threads end up going that way.   Im sure the OP is a big boy and can make decisions of safety for himself.  Thats why you have to be an adult to join CM.  If someone is that easily influenced, or incapable of applying their own common sense,  they shouldnt be putting their dick anywhere, frankly.



domiguy -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:49:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetears

Not paranoid... i just don't think a dom coming for advice about making his girl more comfortable about anal and being told how alcohol and drug experiences made it a better experience for some is prudent advice.  Yes people have gotten together for drinks since before the time of christ, but what in essence does that mean? There have been rapes and murders since then as well - doesn't make them right becuase they have been going on for so long.  

If people want to indulge in their little delights it's their business, i just happen to think it's not a great idea to endorse it for others.  Especially for a first experience in something that could potentially turn out to be negative for that person.  If it turns out not to be her thing - how will she remember it?  (Under the ifluence) with perhaps a warped perception which may or may not lead to all kinds of negative feelings, guilt etc (Not under any influence) with perhaps the knowledge she gave it a fair chance and can walk away knowing it is truly something she does or does not like. 


Yes I suppose this could happen....However, if the sub is simply hammered and you proceed with hammering her ass for an hour or two....You best be prepared to deal with the ramifications.

When she wakes up, you ask if she remebers falling down the steps and how she miraculously landed on a bottle of Coke that went straight into her pooper....I inform her how I gingerly removed the bottle and carried her upstairs and tucked her into bed just like a true gentleman....For Christ sake I'm a fucking hero!!!

I guess it all depends velvet....What do you do with your lemons? Make lemonade? or ram them up a drunk subs ass?

quote:

LordandMaster
I agree with velvetears.


Nice touch.





velvetears -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:51:41 PM)

For what purpose then?.... if not to say - this worked for me, maybe it would for you as well.... generally people post for a purpose and one doesn't have to spell it out for the op for them to undertand your point. It doesn't have to be said - hey drugs or alcohol might loosen her up, but that's the message that came across. 

The op asked for advice, it's not a far leap to make thinking relating your own drug experience was advice. 

i agree common sense is a wonderful thing and i think people who don't have it shouldn't be posting anywhere either.



domiguy -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:53:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: velvetears

For what purpose then?.... if not to say - this worked for me, maybe it would for you as well.... generally people post for a purpose and one doesn't have to spell it out for the op for them to undertand your point. It doesn't have to be said - hey drugs or alcohol might loosen her up, but that's the message that came across. 

The op asked for advice, it's not a far leap to make thinking relating your own drug experience was advice. 

i agree common sense is a wonderful thing and i think people who don't have it shouldn't be posting anywhere either.


Then go in peace my child.....You will be missed.



SimplyMichael -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:54:38 PM)

Hell, if it wasn't for wine and alcohol I wouldn't GET laid!  As for the laws, drugs are legal, you just have to be rich and get a doctor to proscribe them, drugs are only illegal if you are stupid enough to be born poor or black.



velvetears -> RE: my vanilla girl is expressing interest in anal!!! (6/4/2007 8:56:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I guess it all depends velvet....What do you do with your lemons? Make lemonade? or ram them up a drunk subs ass?



i don't deal with drunks period.  i don't need to get drunk or high to experience life on any level, and people who do aren't invited to share it with me. 



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