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Rafters -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/24/2007 5:48:35 PM)

I dunno about bringing it past hotel reception. But your basic box, lined with sound absorbing material should do it.

As long as you're just lying there, it's a pretty simple design.
Wooden box, quick release catches, one big hole for your neck, smaller holes for water and airflow, flaps for face and ear access, a posture collar to add neck support, external hand restraints...

Don't skimp on the sound proofing as in an enclosed reflective space, deafening the screamer with their own echoes is a risk factor.

If you want to stand upright, supporting the weight becomes a very serious issue.
If you take the simple route and suspend the box from the ceiling, make sure to suspend the body as well, in case screaming is a prelude to knees buckling.
If you take the mobile route, see about incorporating a medical HALO style neck brace, so the weights supported on the chest and shoulders, never the neck.

..And don't forget the internal speakers playing non stop loops of Paris Hilton's wisdom so they won't be faking the screaming.

Nice dom's finish last.
[:D]




saltie -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/28/2007 11:46:49 AM)

Thanks but we have enough ideas and hopefully some will work. Should find out in a few days. Came to see if any more ideas to keep in mind and just wanted to thank everybody again.




Sinergy -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/28/2007 12:07:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: saltie

More good ideas. Because we go during the day and not spend the night I cant use the have nightmares excuse but otherwise that is a good idea. Will let him know the lastest suggestions. Because of the space needed and being a nice room we want to stick to this one. Thanks and I will also try the idea of holding hands spread wide and breathing deeply. He does have the tv up loud but it dont cover some screams. When he is close to me he does cover my mouth. Thanks everybody.


Tell them you work nights.  Sleep days.

Sinergy




saltie -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/28/2007 8:15:32 PM)

Dont think that would work. I think some have an idea what is going on. See the same staff each time we go and they dont see any problems as we enter and leave. Must be guests that knocks. If we was there for hours that idea might work but thanks anyways. I know trying to be helpful and appericate it.




spanklette -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/28/2007 8:28:51 PM)

I manage a hotel, and yes, they probably know what you're there for. They probably aren't aware of the kink portion, but just let them know to call your room if they have any problems with noise. You can use the nightmares excuse or tell them that you like to have the TV turned way up because of your hearing. Bottom line...try to put some sort of safe guard in place so that the staff doesn't call the police before calling you to let you know that someone was disturbed by noise.
 
Most guests disturbed by noise will call down to the front desk rather than actually approach the noisemakers. If the front desk knows that your room has a penchant for being noisy they'll give you a call rather than send someone up.
 
I imagine that you don't want the police called on you, so hopefully, some of the noise reducing advice will help along with the tips on what to tell the hotel staff.
 
BTW, as a member of hotel staff, I would like to let you know that we don't really care what you're doing. We really don't. Just don't bother the other guests. [;)]




saltie -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 3:18:31 PM)

We do try and be careful. I used to be able to keep screaming down. Just the past few months has been harder. We are not the kind that wants to bother other people with noise or them seeing something that could offend them.  You got that right about not wanting the police called. Good idea Spanklette and thanks.




Domspaintoy -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 3:24:06 PM)

If your screaming is that bad either you want to try and curb it a bit (its possible lol) or just go with it, never sounds as bad or as loud as you think it does, unless your going at it full welly and in that case clearly He aint doing it right!

Also there is a difference between sheer terror to erotic *go on give me more* screams, ppl can tell, although you always always get those nosy neighbours who really just wanna know what your doing.

*smirk* relax enjoy it if the police come knocking invite them in [;)] hehe




MissHarlet -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 3:41:08 PM)

Bite down on a frozen plum or apricot.... tastes good .. ice play and muffles sounds .. and can be spit out easily if panic sets in




crouchingtigress -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 3:43:37 PM)

you can control this.

there are folks that can make their heart stop or speed up, there are folks that have had open heart surgery with out anesthesia, there are folks that can break bricks with their head, there are monks who move so slowly that it takes 2 days to cross a room, there folks who control their mind so powerfully they give themselves ulcers and sometimes cancer....a blind man and a man with no leg climbed everast for goodness sakes.

controlling a scream? absolutely possible! and i will even venture to say, as a person that has spent years cultivating my reactions, that it is most enjoyable to begin the process of this level of restraint and self control and this level of obedience.

if you partner is willing to help he could tell you when a scream making blow will occur, he could whisper a code in your ear, and you will become trained to scream on the inside, loudly, but to never utter not a sound.....

but argue for you limitations...and they are yours




goodandplenty -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 3:47:34 PM)

Go to a dive shop select a snokel, a flexible one, designed to be water tight around the mouth very comfortable, rubber taste soon becomes  a fetish, great for breath control can be used in many fun ways.





goodgirl85 -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 4:29:55 PM)

Try some background noise, such as a tv or radio on. Also along with that you could always press your face or just your mouth into a pillow or blanket. I hate gags Its a hard limit and as I am quite vocal I do have to find ways to muffle noise. I have found a quilt or two thick pillows work the best.





CelticPrince -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (5/30/2007 7:42:37 PM)

saltie,

Why not let it rip, just do not use hotels!

CP




saltie -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (6/1/2007 6:44:25 PM)

Thanks everybody. I will give him the latest ideas. I should of said what the health issue is which is a gag reflex. I cant stand anything in the back of mouth or keeping mouth open for to long. That is why I spit the gag out then put it back in.  I do try but once it has been long enough  I start to cry  so whatever is being done  has to stop for a few seconds then I  can go back to it.  Just tried the sock idea with just a small amount in but gagged right away so had to take it out. We have no choice for to use a hotel. The tv is up load and am able to hold some screaming in. Sometimes I cant though I keep trying.




saltie -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/2/2007 6:47:08 PM)

I finally got something to work. A rolled up washcloth which is  put in my mouth sideways. Since month is not opened wide and  its not touching the sides or back of mouth I dont gag. Just wanted to let people know in case anybody has the same problem which is the gag reflex.




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/2/2007 7:09:58 PM)

latex hood with pump up gag yep that always works :P




Ysabol -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/2/2007 8:06:30 PM)

Glad to hear that you found something that works for you!
I have thw same problem you do with the gag reflex thing, and what I usually use is a small rubber pony bit. Keeps my mouth open, and I can hold it in my teeth, so that my tongue doesn't touch it. It works well. I've also used the "ace bandage" idea, of wrapping material around my mouth, but I tend to become uncomfortable with that. I bought my rubber pony bit at a tack shop.




roland23 -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/2/2007 8:20:27 PM)

Panties, especially cotton ones can be effective. I can relate about hotels. I'm forced to use them most of the time. 




damia -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/3/2007 2:17:54 AM)

About the gag reflex...I used to have a really bad gag reflex, but now I've worked on it enough that it's not nearly as bad, and I can deep-throat even. How'd I do it? Breathe through your nose only. Don't try to breathe around whatever's in your mouth, and just completely relax your throat. Also, keep your throat as straight as you can (by tilting your head back to line it all up). And the most important part..practice! Get yourself to the point of almost gagging, then move away. Again, and again. Over time, the point of almost gagging will take longer. Might never go away...it hasn't for me...but it surely has improved!




givemyall -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/3/2007 3:57:36 AM)

Have you considered a Muffler Gag?

http://www.kinkycatz.co.uk/index.php?act=viewProd&productId=634

Bit of a strange colour but it might do the job




sleazybutterfly -> RE: How to muffle my screams. (8/3/2007 4:32:26 AM)

I use either a pillow (I bury my face in it), or Master puts his hand over my mouth.  The ring gag also seems to help a bit with the sound, but lets a bit of it come thru.  I can't stand a sock or something like that, but the above two methods along with him telling me to be quiet or the pain will get worse seems to do the trick.[;)]




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