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some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:37:36 AM

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Need some help I want my dom and sub to carry on. We have had a misunerstanding and i would like to put things right. Can you help me with some promises to make towards him

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:38:51 AM

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I'm sorry?...what is it you are asking for?

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:39:43 AM

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Your question is far to vague and if you can ellabourate then please try - and anyone who makes any suggestions on what you can 'promise' him without knowing you, or the situation fully, is simply misguiding you and playing a dangerous game.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:39:52 AM

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without knowing more about the situation, I really don't know what to say.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:40:26 AM

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Need some help I want my dom and sub to carry on. We have had a misunerstanding and i would like to put things right. Can you help me with some promises to make towards him

I am not sure that I fully understand what you are asking for here but I will say this.

Do not make promises. Things happen in life that can cause a person to unintentionally break a promise. Instead, focus on goals that you wish to reach and set a realistic time period for attaining them

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:40:59 AM

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ok i need to tell my master how i am feeling. I keep talking to the wrong people on msn and master tells me not to i want ths to continue what kind of things can i say to him to make this continue.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:42:22 AM

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read it i agree what goals can i set myself.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:43:28 AM

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So your talking to people behind his back?

Is this an online relationship or RT?

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:45:25 AM

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How do you define 'the wrong people'?

First you need to decide whether they are the 'wrong' people, or whether your dominant is trying to keep you away from others in a negative way.

Why are these people the 'wrong people'?

Are you in a real time relationship with your Master with physical contact, or is this an online relationship as are the MSN 'people'?

If he doesn't want you to talk to certain people, you either submit to that or not.

It really is still too vague glorious one.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:45:27 AM

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real relationship and answer to your question is yes. I have started by deleting contacts of my msn that i do not want to speak to. I am going to keep all conversations recorded so he can read. He did say i can talk to my forum friends . Obviously I want this to continue.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:46:01 AM

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ok i need to tell my master how i am feeling. I keep talking to the wrong people on msn and master tells me not to i want ths to continue what kind of things can i say to him to make this continue.

So you want a way to let your master know you want to continue to chat on msn when he doesn't want you to? I think it should be a no brainer, your master says no...its no....if you want to change his mind about his decision i haven't a clue what to tell you. I do not know why he feels that way about you chatting so i dont know if its justifyed or not

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:46:23 AM

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Why would you purposely disobey him? If these people are important to you RT friends etc .. then talk to him.. but you agreed by submitting to obey his rules .. and if you cant or wont maybe this isnt the right relationship for you.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:46:43 AM

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um...hello....*knocks on forehead* do you think getting other people's "statements of love and want" will help you?

Why don't you JUST STOP DISOBEYING HIM OR LEAVE

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:49:20 AM

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ok i will do as i am told no means no. I have blocked and deleted men of my msn and i am ready to submit to this rule fully. Sorry for any upset in me asking

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:49:46 AM

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Promises are worthless, actions are priceless. Promise less and do more.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:49:49 AM

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Glorious - your posts are all over the place and to me this indicates you to be panicking. Take a breath, make yourself a drink and then sit down and if you really want some help off the forum, write out a more coherant post, read it through slowly and repost.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 11:55:53 AM

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Ok

I am a sub and my dom is new to the scene. He said to me to always ask him who I can talk to on msn. He told me to label it if you want to talk to me contact me on ____________ email. (sorry cant give it out) So I labelled it for a while then i took it off. I had a lot of people add me to msn and they begun to try and come between me and my master. One of them is off here. I basically said sorry i cannot talk to you please email or add my master which some of them did. But then some of them decided to try and take over.

So yesterday my master asked me who I was talking to and I told him. He said forget this slave business. So calmly I told him that I was very sorry and that i wanted to continue.

Anyhow today I asked him where I was sleeping and he said upto you as you do it anyway. I then said I want this D/s relationship to carry on and he is my fiance in RT

I want this to work so I am asking for guidelines.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:02:21 PM

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LOL

Okay, first off. How can someone you meet over the internet truely interfer in your relationship unless YOU allow them to. It's as simple as ignore and good bye. Correct?

Why do you need all the added attention? I'm sorry but that is what sounds like to me. Ignore them and EVENTUALLY they will go away.

As for your Master and what to say to him - well sweetie, your on your own there. You see, he probably doesn't want to hear any more and wants to see actions rather than promises. also, talking your way out of something is not a great way to handle a man of the dominate persuasion, (at least in my experience). It's better to bite the bullet and take your medicine. Sorry I know this was harsh. Due to another thread - my chipper mood kind of went south.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:06:07 PM

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No problem I am in the middle of sending him a email and he is sleeping at the momet.

I will do what you have suggested. I will start to do as I am told. and show him how much of a good slave I can be by doing exactly what i am told.

I am going to send a email and sign it so i have a copy of my errors.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:07:10 PM

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I am not really sure what you mean by 'labeling'.

Sweetness, alot of this comes down to who trusts who? If your dominant is new to BDSM he may simply be acting on what he thinks a dominant should be doing rather than what he wants to do. If he trusts you and your not easily influenced, then it doesn;t matter who you talk to if you and his relationship is solid and sound.

Do you participate in munches, clubs etc?

And what do you mean - take over? Are they telling you, that your dominant is wrong or doing things wrong? Are these real friends you have met?

To me, your post is in frenzy.

If your dominant wants to vet your corresponsance, that is his decison - and as his submissive you accept or you question and leave. Is it sending up red flags for you that he does this? Or is it something that you do not particularly want to do, but know it's the right thing to do because it's his decision. Have you both discussed what people are trying to undermine?

These are all so vague glorious - you cannot make promises that you cannot keep, that you both havent discussed fully, or that you do not understand.

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