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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:10:46 PM   
shyinini


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

Why would you purposely disobey him?  If these people are important to you RT friends etc .. then talk to him.. but you agreed by submitting to obey his rules .. and if you cant or wont maybe this isnt the right relationship for you.


isnt this the gloriousangel that is NOT allowed to talk directly to her dom but only in IM????????

if so, i said once before, defiant disobedient behaviour would cause me to be released.... I think you aught to first...IMHO...think about WHO YOU WANT TO OBEY...him or yourself.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:14:26 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		it is just me or are we becoming fodder for her fantasy...everything we suggest "she does" .....I think she's a wanker troll

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:20:19 PM   
Rose4Mistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gloriousangel

No problem I am in the middle of sending him a email and he is sleeping at the momet.

I will do what you have suggested.  I will start to do as I am told.  and show him how much of a good slave I can be by doing exactly what i am told.

I am going to send a email and sign it so i have a copy of my errors.


This is just my opinion, but if you were aware of the "errors" that you were making beforehand...why did you make them?  It seems like you are more sorry for being caught disobeying than for slipping up.
You might want to work on the trust issue a bit.  Without trust, a relationship can't work.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:21:33 PM   
gloriousangel


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Status: offline 		I understand fully

I am not going to be disobedient with him as this is getting us nowhere and I am not learning by my errors.



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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:22:59 PM   
gloriousangel


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Status: offline 		No I can talk to him directly

That is only the case when he has his music on.

And yes trust is a big thing


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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:27:06 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I don't get the whole "try and take over" thing?

Guys try to IM you- don't respond.  It's that easy.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:27:42 PM   
gloriousangel


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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:29:50 PM   
Rose4Mistress


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Status: offline 		then prove that to him.   words do nothing, unless there is action behind them, and believe me, you will make more of an impact by devoting yourself to serving him unselfishly, and simply refraining from breaking any of his rules intentionally, than by telling him you are going to stop.
Best of luck to you

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:30:15 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		WTF?  Promise what you will perform.  Write a check with your mouth that your ass is capable of cashing.  Do what you can afford to do.

It is more important that you promise yourself that where there is obvious reason to trust, you will do so, you will not flip out and go all emotional and neurotic just because you can.

That kinda shit ain't that pretty at all.

all kinda other shit, but do those first.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 12:32:07 PM   
gloriousangel


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much.

I will be talking with him in the morning as I am going to be offline soon.

I agree with what you all have said.  Words and promises are nothing he needs to see the actions from me in person.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 2:24:30 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Promises mean nothing hon your actions do. seems you know your doing something wrong that he doesnt like yet you want him to stick around anyway seems to me if you want him then you got to stop doing what he doesnt want you to do... its actions not words that make people want to be with you.


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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:10:40 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		Sounds like this has less to do with contacts on MSN than general disobedience. In one of your posts you asked him where you were to sleep and he said, "Do what you want to do you're going to do that anyway." I think that's what you said...anyway, that just reeks of frustration.
 
I think you really need to decide what you want before making any promises. He sounds frustrated with a lack of commitment to your word. I'm making an assumption there because you asked for suggestions for promises to make to him.
 
Decide what it is that you want. Decide what you can and cannot do and then move on from there. Being wishy-washy is frustrating and has a tendency to make people give up on you.
 
If I've learned one thing about this lifestyle and having success, it's being consistent.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:18:18 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		You know it is really freaking easy! Obey His rules and Gudielines that you agreed too

As for promises:   A promise is like having a baby easy to make - harder to deliver

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:30:28 PM   
JeniferJuniper


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Status: offline 		Bit confused here - but am I right thinking this is an on-line relationship or what?

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:33:38 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		I dont think the Op understands the Listening to US doesnt make her a good slave listening to her Master does!!!!


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don't slow down
if you’re scared dont show it
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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:36:49 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gloriousangel

No I can talk to him directly

That is only the case when he has his music on.

And yes trust is a big thing



I believe that isn't what you said in a previous thread. Is this a new change?

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:37:57 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		The OP stated later that the relationship is real time with her fiance`.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:40:36 PM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		if you are engaged to him why do you need to email him to talk? just sit at his feet and ask permission to freely speak . Do as he wishes..remember a slave has the only rights her Owner wishes to give her. You are lucky he allows msn. I need to ask permission to log on.

< Message edited by Areflectionofyou -- 5/22/2007 3:43:28 PM >

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 3:54:30 PM   
MissPriss88


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Promises are worthless, actions are priceless.  Promise less and do more.



I totally agree...
good luck to you glorious.

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RE: some promises for my master - 5/22/2007 4:21:58 PM   
NYMaster101


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Status: offline 		You'd be surprised how far you can get with honest communication.

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