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physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 10:52:04 AM   
james007


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Status: offline 		Does anyone enjoy the physical overpowerment of a stronger mistress???? I find it particularly appealing to be with a stronger mistress who enjoys domination with her size and strength alone. I look forward to anyone's experiences and thought in this venue. Thanks.
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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 11:02:00 AM   
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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 11:10:30 AM   
Pezzle


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Status: offline 		Indeed, I like the physical overpowerment of my Master, who was in the military and has since still maintained his strength. As though his authoritative mental bondage were not enough, when I struggle against him for the life of me I cannot break his grip short of headbutting him in the face (which of course I'd never do, but merely saying that's what it'd take). He knows all sorts of takedowns and whatnot that make things veryyyy interesting for bad little subbies like myself.

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 12:02:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: james007

Does anyone enjoy the physical overpowerment of a stronger mistress???? I find it particularly appealing to be with a stronger mistress who enjoys domination with her size and strength alone. I look forward to anyone's experiences and thought in this venue. Thanks.


For a female, I'm pretty big; 175lbs, 5'10''. Having been born male, I would guess that despite all the hormone treatment, I'd also still be pretty strong by comparison to most women. But next to most men, I'm smaller, lighter and nowhere near as strong.

Given that, I wonder how many women there are who can overpower a guy of your size, should he resist?

Although I realise from talking to guys about this subject, that it isnt necessary for the lady to actually overpower them - what does it apparently is if the lady believes she overpowered them, and acts accordingly - a belief which the guys in question are very careful to promote!

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 12:18:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't mind being physically overpowered and have done a little bit of that but I find that it puts me on edge and makes it more difficult to go into a submissive headspace.  I tend to stay in a Toppy frame of mind and become combative which is fine if the other person is into it.  Its not something I can really 'submit' to in a mental/psychological sense.




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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 1:07:05 PM   
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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 2:15:14 PM   
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Does anyone enjoy the physical overpowerment of a stronger mistress????
First of all I will NEVER submit to a mistress.
I find it particularly appealing to be with a stronger mistress who enjoys domination with her size and strength alone.
I do have a friend who is a mistress of great integrity and is VERY dominating in her strength alone.  I do not feel overpowered by her strength or authority or her dominance in the everyday world, she treats me as a friend, a woman and would NEVER request I submit to her in ANY way, she also knows who I belong to.
 
I admit tho, sissy boys and male subs drivvle over her as if they are less than the ground she walks on....  She is also the biggest attention whore I have ever met.... but she is a very good person.
I look forward to anyone's experiences and thought in this venue. Thanks.


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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 2:21:31 PM   
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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 2:25:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is it specifically the brute size and strength or the ability to 'overpower' you?  Cus I was in a Sayoc Kali (Filipino martial art) class with a woman who was maybe all of 4'10" on her tip toes and we ALL respected/feared her! lol 

Sneaky, vicious, scrappy little....nm!

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 2:58:42 PM   
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Given that, I wonder how many women there are who can overpower a guy of your size, should he resist?


Lady E. I think perhaps another question would be would he resist? I'm 5'2...my UM is 6'2. His being my UM is completely different facet. He could easily overpower me but in fact he's a bit afraid of me regardless of that fact.

In relation to a D/s dynamic I've always had subs that were easily twice my size and could well have tossed me cross the room. The power isn't necessarily from physical strength but an emotional and mental one. Regarding "should he resist"... yes, I have taken down every one of those subs physically regardless of size differential.

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 2:59:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like to be over powered, hence one of the many reasons I enjoy primal play. But I'm a big girl,  5'9 and 200 lbs so it takes a bit to flip me around. That being said I was wrestling once with alandra who weights considerbly less than I do and she had me pinned in a minute, it's not about the brute strength but knowing how to use your body and pressure points.

I've personally never submitted to a female who could do primal play with me, I would tho if the person and situation was right.

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 7:16:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: james007

Does anyone enjoy the physical overpowerment of a stronger mistress???? I find it particularly appealing to be with a stronger mistress who enjoys domination with her size and strength alone. I look forward to anyone's experiences and thought in this venue. Thanks.


I'd kick her ass.

(Of course, I mean that in the most submissive of ways).

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 7:21:36 PM   
hardbodysub


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Status: offline 		I enjoy being physically overpowered by a woman, whether she is bigger and stronger or not. Technique and tactics can be just as important as size and strength. That said, being "manhandled" by someone like Goddess Severa would be a real trip!

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 7:28:07 PM   
Tuomas


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Status: offline 		Being dominant, no, I don't like being physically overpowered by a Domme. I do enjoy watching a Domme overpower someone else, though. It's neat. And I'm very much into overpowering myself.

A while ago, two girls tried to tie me up, but even so, I still managed to tie both of them up. Although I rather do suspect they weren't giving their full effort in trying to tie me up, but more the other way around....

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/9/2007 10:11:27 PM   
Aimtoplease101


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Status: offline 		This is one of those areas in which it's sometimes difficult to make the fantasy and the reality line up.

Without exception, I've always been physically more powerful than the Domme with who I've been involved. So in order to be physically man-handled on a level playing field, I'd have to let it happen, which can strip of scene of authenticity.

One way to counteract this, of course, is various forms of bondage (try fighting back with both arms tied to your waist and your ankles hobbled together). When disadvantaged in that manner, you can geniunely struggle and try to resist, but it will ultimately be futile, allowing a smaller Domme to physically defeat you.

Allowing yourself to be bound in such a manner is also psychologically potent. It's a true form of power exchange-- you are surrendering your physical advantage to your Domme, who will then use it against you.

As an aside, there's a scene in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe in which the Lion allows himself to be bound, shaved bare, and ultimately killed by the White Witch. I know it's intended to have religious resonance, but I found it pretty BDSM evocative as well.

Regards, ATP

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/10/2007 6:01:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
Regarding "should he resist"... yes, I have taken down every one of those subs physically regardless of size differential.


A brief story from dave's animal planet...

We are currently taking care of four young kittens that were stalking the lush and verdant bounty of a restaurant dumpster near my wife's office (anybody want a kitten?). i've been spending some time every day handling and talking to them to try to socialize them. So Monday night, i forgot that one of them does NOT like being scooped up by the belly, and halfway between the cage and the table she freaked out.

So here's a kitten that weighs all of two and a quarter pounds, who can curl up on my hand with not much more than a tail hanging off... i've eaten sandwiches bigger than her... and she managed to draw blood in four places and get away from me. i could have just tightened my grip until she stopped squirming, but that big flashing sign in my brain lit up and said DON'T BREAK THE KITTEN, so i let her go rather than risk hurting her. Of course, once we got her cornered, we scruffed her and took her back.

For me to engage in primal resistance play with my wife, or any woman of "normal" size, there would always, always be that same warning.

And sometimes the submissive mind thinks, just once, what would it be like to be the kitten instead?


Meow,

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/10/2007 8:22:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: denika

. That being said I was wrestling once with alandra who weights considerbly less than I do and she had me pinned in a minute, it's not about the brute strength but knowing how to use your body and pressure points.



Yes.. and I remember the shocked expression in your face...... she is a tough little whore isn't she?

PS... having a blast in the south.... The event down here was fantastic.... We will see you when we get back.

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/10/2007 9:08:42 AM   
denika


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

...... she is a tough little whore isn't she?

PS... having a blast in the south.... The event down here was fantastic.... We will see you when we get back.


Not only tough but talented with power tools!! Rob wants to hire her! :) Apperantly I am fired when it comes to putting up drywall, wash all the mudding off once, lol picky picky..

I am so glad you are all having a great time!  I can't wait to hear about it.


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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/12/2007 1:24:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

And I'm pretty sure Shyinini isn't talking about me...but I can't make any promises.


No I was NOT speaking about you.
I have no reason to speak about you cause I dont know you.

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RE: physical overpowerment - 5/12/2007 1:42:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP..IMO all women have a few tricks up their sleeves, and many a man underestimate that, hence ,physical overpowerment is always a definite possibility.
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