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Aimtoplease101 -> RE: physical overpowerment (5/9/2007 10:11:27 PM)
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This is one of those areas in which it's sometimes difficult to make the fantasy and the reality line up. Without exception, I've always been physically more powerful than the Domme with who I've been involved. So in order to be physically man-handled on a level playing field, I'd have to let it happen, which can strip of scene of authenticity. One way to counteract this, of course, is various forms of bondage (try fighting back with both arms tied to your waist and your ankles hobbled together). When disadvantaged in that manner, you can geniunely struggle and try to resist, but it will ultimately be futile, allowing a smaller Domme to physically defeat you. Allowing yourself to be bound in such a manner is also psychologically potent. It's a true form of power exchange-- you are surrendering your physical advantage to your Domme, who will then use it against you. As an aside, there's a scene in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe in which the Lion allows himself to be bound, shaved bare, and ultimately killed by the White Witch. I know it's intended to have religious resonance, but I found it pretty BDSM evocative as well. Regards, ATP
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