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crying - 2/18/2006 11:36:26 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		A question for the Dom's. Do you enjoy making your Submissive or Slave cry? If so why do you enjoy this? Thank you :)
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RE: crying - 2/18/2006 11:51:03 PM   
MasterSpinner


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Status: offline 		In what context are you specifically looking for?

Crying from joy? (Sure)
Crying from physical pain? (Depends on the sub)
Crying from humiliation? (Depends on the sub, I've found that few subs actually benifit from humiliation play)
Crying from emotional trauma? (Never, what sicko wants a mentally unstable submissive? Cause that's all that is gonna get ya.)
Crying from frustration? (All the fracking time, who hasn't prohibited a sub from gratification to the point of crying at least a hundred times?)



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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 12:23:58 AM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		Crying from penetration? How sad; how true.

Crying from Dancing With The Stars? Now THAT's sadistic.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 1:44:52 AM   
MasterSpinner


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The Stars however I thought fell into either the Joy or Humiliation catagory... or perhaps the Emotional Trauma catagory.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 8:51:21 AM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		Hey thanks for the replies. I guess I'm more curious about the physical pain and humiliation crying. I was just wondering what it does for the Dominate person. How does it make you feel? thanks alot

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 10:19:59 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I cry every time I look at my kids. They have a face only a mother could love...yet she's gone and I raise them.

As for you Windy....I hope you only experience tears of joy!

Kevin

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 10:56:37 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Well i know Master loves to see me cry.. unless its in the midst of an emotional outburst and i'm throwing a hissy fit or tantrum.

He loves it when i cry from pain or when i just cry over emotional trauma with him because i am giving myself part of him i think. i'm letting go with him. i'm one of those that HATES to cry and literaly can not do it in public or groups of ppl. Crying is a struggle and i'm one of those that holds my breathe as i fight it.

He's told me that by crying it shows him how much i love him/care.

And the other things he said, i cant pin point his words. But i know it has to do with letting go, giving over, opening up. Its like sharing something very close to you i think? And in a way i think, its like giving him something. As i remember once he WANTED me to cry, he wanted my tears and he wanted me to give them to him. Erg, to break down, let go and trust in him?

Heck i dont know.. i'm over tired. But i know there is something about it.. LOL

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 11:17:39 AM   
RiotGirl


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Dacryphilia

there might be ONE reason they like it.. hehehehe

Gift of Tears?

this looks like it might be what you're looking for.

Eh.. and i had to edit it cos i think i got the name of the URL and the URL boxes switched up.. and now i'm adding bold and italics to the links.. wonder if it works.. hmmmm

< Message edited by RiotGirl -- 2/19/2006 11:21:54 AM >

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 11:27:36 AM   
SirKenin


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Status: offline 		I have made My girlfriend cry a couple of times by accident. I feel absolutely terrible and I cry Myself because My heart breaks. If this is a sign of weakness then so be it. It tears Me apart to see her upset, and moreso to realize that I am the cause. It is very rare, thankfully, but once is too much.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 12:17:02 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windy135

A question for the Dom's. Do you enjoy making your Submissive or Slave cry? If so why do you enjoy this? Thank you :)



I want him to cry---when he cries he begs
When he begs he cries
When he cries he is at the very essence of his being
When he cries nothing exists...

but My love for him
and his freedom


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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 12:31:58 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone,,, and thank you sooo much RiotGirl .. those posts helped a lot :) you rock!

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 1:06:12 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		If a kajira of mine cries from pleasure or happiness, I am happy and glad. If she cries from being punished, that is par for the course as she will cry from the knowledge that I have foud her displeasing. (I will take her in hand and look to rectify her errors). If she cries from pain, I will deal with this according to what caused the pain. (If play got to much e.g. excessive flogging, I need to look at her pain tollerence again and make ajustments. If the pain was due to the ten lashes of a Gorean slave whip as punishment, then I can accept that just as she has to). In other words, I will deal with her tears as I will deal with every other aspect of her life.... As I see fit.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 4:12:20 PM   
MistressOfGa


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I've found that few subs actually benifit from humiliation play


I must have one of the few who does enjoy and benefit from humiliation play. It provides him with his desire to be embarrassed. Seems embarrassment is a turn on for him. I dont think that I am the only Domina who has a submissive who enjoys and benefits from this kind of play.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 6:28:34 PM   
RiotGirl


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Thanks everyone,,, and thank you sooo much RiotGirl .. those posts helped a lot :) you rock!


Glad to be of help - )

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 6:34:14 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		riot girl...and you are! you only cry when you smack your Master's cock....and pay!


LOL...I hope all is well with you!

Kevin

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 7:21:33 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windy135

A question for the Dom's. Do you enjoy making your Submissive or Slave cry? If so why do you enjoy this? Thank you :)


He likes when i cry when i am being all sappy while expressing my love.

He hushes me when i cry over pain (clarifies that to say silent tears can generally flow without issue).

He doesn't care if i cry when punished.

As for the sentiment on humiliation, it can be fantastic for some and damaging for others. i reach into the innermost core of my submission in extreme humiliation and oddly enough, do not cry.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 7:24:53 PM   
IrishMist


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Crying from humiliation? (Depends on the sub, I've found that few subs actually benifit from humiliation play)


Maybe you have yet to meet one's who actually do. Personally, I love humilation play.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 9:08:31 PM   
yourMissTress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windy135

A question for the Dom's. Do you enjoy making your Submissive or Slave cry? If so why do you enjoy this? Thank you :)


I have one sub that I particularly enjoy making cry. He's a big, tall, strong, manly, macho type man and his wires are crossed in that wonderful way that makes him laugh when he's in real pain. I mean really laugh. And then when the pain is really bad he laughs so hard that he cries, the tears of joy that many of us have when our emotions/feelings are so strong that there is no stopping those tears and sobs.

Sessions with this boy are the most enjoyable because I make it sound like it's my personal goal to "wipe that damn smile off of his face". We both know full well that he can't stop, in fact my "fury" only makes it worse, and soon we are both laughing our asses off only he's crying and laughing at the same time, while I am beating the day lights out of him.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 10:04:04 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

And before LA gets here.. lol..


Dacryphilia

there might be ONE reason they like it.. hehehehe

Gift of Tears?

this looks like it might be what you're looking for.

Eh.. and i had to edit it cos i think i got the name of the URL and the URL boxes switched up.. and now i'm adding bold and italics to the links.. wonder if it works.. hmmmm

Heehee, I was in Atlanta all weekend.

Thanks :)

All bodily fluids hold an essence and tangible symbolic emotional quality to them. That's why piss play holds such fascination, and lactating, and swallowing cum, and even menstrual blood, and obviously- tears.

Playing with fluids is very intense.



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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 10:30:33 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


All bodily fluids hold an essence and tangible symbolic emotional quality to them. That's why piss play holds such fascination, and lactating, and swallowing cum, and even menstrual blood, and obviously- tears.

Playing with fluids is very intense.




i wonder why that is...it must touch or trigger something within our core - some sort of raw energy, be it vulnerable, powerful, whichever.

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