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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 10:56:29 PM

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i wonder why that is...it must touch or trigger something within our core - some sort of raw energy, be it vulnerable, powerful, whichever.

It's a physical substance coming from inside to the outside. We humans love symbols and attaching meaning to things and since those "inner substances" often come out during emotional/important periods in our life already, it's no wonder we build on that. It's a literal expression of emotion/achievement/moment in time.

And, depending on what else you believe, yes a piece of ourselves- DNA, energy, warmth, living, sharing. Why are subs SOOOO into vampire lore and fantasy? Also why we like giving locks of hair and saving baby's teeth. Physical symbols of the moment, physical symbols of giving ourselves over.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 11:10:39 PM

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i wonder why that is...it must touch or trigger something within our core - some sort of raw energy, be it vulnerable, powerful, whichever.

It's a physical substance coming from inside to the outside. We humans love symbols and attaching meaning to things and since those "inner substances" often come out during emotional/important periods in our life already, it's no wonder we build on that. It's a literal expression of emotion/achievement/moment in time.

And, depending on what else you believe, yes a piece of ourselves- DNA, energy, warmth, living, sharing. Why are subs SOOOO into vampire lore and fantasy? Also why we like giving locks of hair and saving baby's teeth. Physical symbols of the moment, physical symbols of giving ourselves over.

Interesting points, which i agree with (although i have never really gotten into the vampire lore). Funny this topic came up as i was just journaling on some things, having to do with transfering contents of his body into mine via a connection. Symbolic too of being fed by my Master, as he also feeds my spirit. i do love the DNA bit...knowing he is in me, as though his cells are merging with mine....i know, to some it sounds hokey, but i feel closer to him during those moments. Sheesh it looks like i just answered my own question! Thanks for the prompt.

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RE: crying - 2/19/2006 11:25:11 PM

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i know, to some it sounds hokey, but i feel closer to him during those moments. Sheesh it looks like i just answered my own question! Thanks for the prompt.

Mmmm, if I had a fetish, it would be for having men cum inside my pussy- for many physical and emotional intimate reasons. I have a breeder/forced conception kink, I use an orgasm as a symbol of control, I enjoy being objectified as a hole to cum in, the aforementioned joining of DNA (which can result in a complete new "be"-ing complete in human form if that doesn't get too metaphysical on ya), and other things. It's amazing what we can impress onto a single act.

Also probably because it's so taboo for me and really doesn't happen.

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 12:12:41 AM

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It's amazing what we can impress onto a single act.

Most definitely. Sometimes what seems to be the simplest act can be most profound.

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 1:10:41 AM

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A question for the Dom's. Do you enjoy making your Submissive or Slave cry? If so why do you enjoy this? Thank you :)

I never have intentionally made anyone cry, but have done so through my actions. When I see a woman crying, it always evokes one of two responses. Either disgust, or a overwhelming desire to comfort. Disgust comes in when someone is crying out of self-pity, or being a drama queen. I'm sure nearly everyone knows what I'm talking about. I really really really hate self-pity whiners be it man or woman.

Tears, from loss, intense emotion, etc... always make me want to comfort, it's some innate thing, that is what it does to me. So, I do like it when a woman cries for certain reasons, because it seems so completely vulnerable. The perceived vulnerablity makes her very attractive and consequently make her more sexually desirable. I don't know maybe I'm just screwed up

. But for me it is only attractive if it's not forced, like me making her cry just to make her cry wouldn't do it for me.

As far as men crying goes, It makes me feel really uncomfortable. Probably something to do with my warped since of gender roles. More than not I just want to kick them and tell them to shut up. Except in the most dramatic cases, like loss of children. But a man crying over a dog that just died, would make feel me very uncomfortable, whereas if a woman did it, well, it'd be cute, and I'd want to, you know. LOL

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 1:26:47 AM

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And before LA gets here.. lol..

Dacryphilia

there might be ONE reason they like it.. hehehehe

I've never heard of that before, and it sounds like me...
i was thinking about it awhile back, that every Time Kitten cries, either from pain, or just sadness, i got horny. Never knew it could possibly be a fetish, i told her about it, and she got even sadder cause she was sad at the time.

I haven't really made her cry that much, her pain limit is expanding, but not to the point that she will let me hurt her to the point of tears, but i like the idea, and look forward to it.

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 1:58:08 AM

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Mmmm, if I had a fetish, it would be for having men cum inside my pussy- for many physical and emotional intimate reasons. I have a breeder/forced conception kink, I use an orgasm as a symbol of control, I enjoy being objectified as a hole to cum in, the aforementioned joining of DNA (which can result in a complete new "be"-ing complete in human form if that doesn't get too metaphysical on ya), and other things. It's amazing what we can impress onto a single act.

Also probably because it's so taboo for me and really doesn't happen.

I shouldn't have argued with you initially, LOL, you have by far the most sexually charged posts of anyone on the board. The open bluntness of our posts are striking to say the least. (Recontemplates, poly lifestyle). Wanders off to relieve hmmmm, tension. hehe(remember line "She enjoys being objectified as a hole to cum in") there we go. Almost done.

Clean up on aisle one

All better now

That's a compliment from my perspective.

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 7:21:27 AM

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ilike to see my slave cry itsomething that i found bring out something in me, i toldmy slave that if he misbehave again i will leave him he cried yes i was happy he cried but then i realize that is was wrong and so mean of me to say i would leave him when i know i would not ifelt so bad afterward i willnot do that again itis one thing to punish but to tease and hurt for no reason i come to know is bad to do

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RE: crying - 2/20/2006 8:11:04 AM

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LOL fastlane.. i didnt cry = ) Can i say two words? Yogi bear? Nor did i cry later <smirks> LOL Actually when i smacked his penis, i laughed and laughed and laughed and laughed and then laughed some more. As i quickly scooted out of arms distance. <grins> and i continued laughing as i buried myself ALL the way back in the farthest reaches of the closet making sure other things were before me = ) And i laughed as he stood at the doorway knowing there was no way he was going to be able to pull me out of there = ) Of course as i was also apologizing and what not between bursts of giggles. That image of the sheer utter shock that crosses his face 10 seconds afterwards could have me giggling right now if i wasnt so tired = ) LOL Okay, so being tired doesnt stop the giggles. Just that 10 second delay and then him slightly jumping and his eye brows going sky high and this look of complete astonishment on his face... <grins> Cos i mean heck, i dont even touch it unless given complete permission.. much less smack it. <giggles> BOY, i got some here big balls (balls on yoru forehead) (and said in my best redneck accent.. cept the on your forehead thing) LOL

Yeah i'm doing alright. Not so bad thanks. Thansk for asking, hope all is well with you

Oh an no problem LA it was kind of fun being able to jump in and learning how to attach the links like that = ) Hope you enjoyed your trip

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