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protocols - 5/7/2004 8:50:25 PM

Temji

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greetings...

I am looking for SPECIFIC protocols for in home use... I have a lot, but always looking for ideas...

don't really want to get into definitions...
so if you call them chores, duties, rituals, whatever... and you're willing to share them... I'd like to see them...

be well,

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RE: protocols - 5/8/2004 1:50:45 PM

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M. Temji-

One of mine that I am really quite fond of is to have her kneel and take off or zip up my chaps when I am coming or going about on the bike ( before I leave or when I return home.

Most of the others I use are positional sort of things- She may not get into the bed without asking (formally), she must always be to my left when possible, and when it's just us alone at home, she may not sit on the furniture unless told to.

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RE: protocols - 5/8/2004 9:35:22 PM

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I always like to keep these types of things to a minimum. When you start adding too many, you tend to forget some, and having your slave remind you of one when you forget is a bit embarrassing.

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RE: protocols - 5/9/2004 12:27:04 PM

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Serving coffee and food from a kneeling position,
Assuming a prone position and requesting permission before entering a room I am in
Undressing and dressing myself (allow time for this )
Having her give me a shower
sleeping chained at the foot of the bed (on the bed and on the floor)
perparing food and then eating it kneeling on the floor without the use of utensils while you are eating normally
being naked and in chains for extended periods (days even weeks)
Scheduling certain chores on certain days at specefic times (Bathrooms on Monday at 10:00 etc etc)
sexual service of various types at specific times

Thats a pretty good start if you are not allready doing these things
Scheduling certain chores on certain days at specefic times

By the way in a large house having them crawl around to get things is real time consuming and very hard on the knees, but having them cross the room that way when they enter is not to bad.

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RE: protocols - 5/9/2004 2:49:38 PM

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Estring.. amazing.. they have a thing called paper now.. you can write on it.. even have things that divide it .. called..GASP dividers.. and you can label them too..thats paper with a sticky back.. In previous times they used something called ink and quill that developed into a ballpoint pen.. today we tend to use a printer.. and a word processing program on the computer.. you take these papers on which you impart your *wisdom* organize, divide and then three hole punch them into something called a binder thats a book made from stiffen paper that acts as a holder. Then your protocols are at your fingertips never need to be forgotton.

Generally I have found that if you start with a few simple things .. work with them until they become habit and add as necessary things are rarely forgotton and I dont need to be reminded.. not unlike training a good household pet.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 5/9/2004 2:50:37 PM >

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RE: protocols - 5/9/2004 2:58:35 PM

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I like to keep a standing order of "subject to body inspection at any time" and then use it liberally.

For defined periods of time I've issued edicts that their head could not be higher than mine while in the room with me. This sort of mirrors the user who said crawling in the room rather than the entire house is preferrable. It can make for an interesting game of step and fetch it if you're laying on the floor at the opposite end of the room to the door.

I agree with the notion that rules have to be policed. I'm too lazy for that. Less is more!

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RE: protocols - 5/9/2004 3:36:30 PM

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Lol. Well taken. But it sounds like you are doing your taxes. I guess I just prefer keeping it simple. By the way, this thing you call a ballpoint pen. What is that?

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RE: protocols - 5/9/2004 9:30:58 PM

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well - first off they need a ball - so what they do is hunt down smart-ass dominant men and cut theirs off - hey, wait a minute!!!!!! I'm one of those - this cant be right - arrrrgghhhhh - 50 million lashes with a wet noodle to the slave who researched this information !!!!!!!!!

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RE: protocols - 5/18/2004 8:23:33 PM

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greetings...

and My thanks... hope there are more on the way

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RE: protocols - 5/19/2004 3:54:25 AM

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I received a rather interesting email today from somebody on here, and one of the quotes I felt might be pertinent to ask about.

"You will be add to list on collar me for sub to stay away from."

Now, I have not been here long, but I really would like somebody to enlighten me as to where this list may be found.

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RE: protocols - 5/19/2004 4:37:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy
"You will be add to list on collar me for sub to stay away from."
Now, I have not been here long, but I really would like somebody to enlighten me as to where this list may be found.

I can't imagine why. I haven't seen anything on the boards that would indicate you were a..???? Concern? Influence? Nasty Person? Ok.. maybe the mad internet stalker???

My question is how do you stay away from someone one line? Don't read their posts? Don't respond to their posts? Ignore a personal message if you get one?

Sometimes this is all just too silly.

Ms Crysta [e]

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RE: protocols - 5/19/2004 4:42:06 AM

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quote:

I can't imagine why. I haven't seen anything on the boards that would indicate you were a..???? Concern? Influence? Nasty Person? Ok.. maybe the mad internet stalker???

Well, and I have since cleared this up with the person involved, I upset a friend of his with a discussion (on IM) about the difference between a bottom and a submissive. Apparently this person thought I was cutting her down and calling her a bottom.

I apologized and said my comments were educational, and not perjorative, and it was all cleared up between she and I.

Then 7 hours later I get that email.

I just thought the approach used by the person who sent me that was so reminiscent of 1960s horror movies. The boogie man named List is going to get me... *panics and runs and jumps on the kitchen table and screams "eep"*

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RE: protocols - 5/19/2004 8:51:50 PM

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greetings...

~redirects the thread back to in home protocols...~

be well,

Temji

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