First Candle Wax Play

First Candle Wax Play (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

grlneedstolearn -> First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 6:13:22 PM)
Good evening, i had the most wonderful experience with candle wax yesterday, even though it was a soft limit for me i went ahead and tried it. i am soo glad i did. My Dom was gentle and used it mainly on my rear, after a good whipping, and now we have plans for him to "paint" my bottom on Monday. i can not wait. So i was wondering how your first candle wax play went and did you enjoy it? Why or why not? Thank you for your opinions

spanklette -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 6:43:07 PM)
I don't remember the first time specifically, but I'm sure I enjoyed it. I did learn that it's messier than it looks and clean up is a bitch. Saran Wrap helps, but it takes away a certain something. Anyway...congrats! And, I'm glad you enjoyed it!

grlneedstolearn -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 6:45:25 PM)
i didn't think i would like it, considering my very low pain tolerance, of which he is also helping me build up. i was surprised that today when i called him i was literally begging him for more on Monday, of which he agreed [:D]

realisticwish -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 6:53:14 PM)
Remembers back years ago about the first times with wax play .. then there was knife play. I know a different sub-ject but the knife really cleans a person up. Then ice play for the cold vs hot wax! Best of luck and enjoy it!

grlneedstolearn -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 6:58:06 PM)
Thank you, i know i'll enjoy it with his helping me. Yea he's also talked about ice play as well, maybe a little later

MsOpal -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 7:17:42 PM)
Wax play - a nice massage rub down with baby iols first makes getting it off skin soooo much easier, and oh my goodnessm the knive necessary to get it all off nice and smooth ... we love the tall candles in the glass holders (think religous), the containers make it easy to get a lot of wax melted. But then we have actually moved to just useing a crock pot in addition to candles. The wax bits and scraps go into the pot, candles too small to be of safe use any longer. Crock pot, melted wax, soup ladle! yummm. ~weg~ MsOpal

BlackWomanSubNJ -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:05:01 PM)
I was very scared the first time I was introduced to candle wax play. But I was pleasantly surprised to find that it didn't hurt. And since it pleased him, I was happy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:07:37 PM)
My first waxing was ok, but a lot of stop and go as we melted the wax and I was cold at the end. I think I've really gotten into it deeper and expanded on a lot of things and its one of my favorite things to do as a top, very intensly spiritual for me and tends to take a few hours just for the scene itself. http://www.collarchat.com/m_154985/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#155014 Wax Play Wax Play This is my general wax play design, easily modifiable if you want to include multiple people. Supplies: wax, long tip lighter, sheet or tarp, baby oil, knife, baby powder, blindfold, (if using a crock pot, ladle, spatula, paintbrush, any other spreading toys that look interesting) Get the wax: Either two blocks of paraffin and two glassed church candles melted together in a crock pot, or just the church candles for easier transporting. I haven't noticed much temperature derivation using these types of candles, but white wax is harder to see where it falls and green tends to just look black on a person. Start prep at least 2 hours before the scene by lighting the candles or starting the wax to melt. If the candles are cold, it will take longer and the wax won't melt as evenly Prep the area: Flat surface is necessary, a bondage or massage table usually works fine and is padded. Outside is nice because you don't have to worry about getting wax on anything. If you are on the floor, put a flannel sheet or comforter down first to keep things from being too cold. Cover with an old sheet or tarp, and if you're off the floor, cover the area nearby as well. Wax will get everywhere! Lay out all supplies beforehand, you don't want to have to leave burning candles or naked person alone too long. Also, make sure your area is well-heated. Even though the wax will get them warm and give them a nice shell, when it comes off they will feel the cooler air. Prep the people: Don't wear your good fetish gear! Again, wax will get everywhere. For the waxer, wear throw away clothes and/or an apron. For the waxee, get them naked and blindfolded. I like to have their focus totally on the wax sensations and you don't have to worry about wax splattering into eyes. Lay them down on the surface, starting stomach down usually works best. Start the scene: Start to connect with the bottom by massaging their skin, letting them relax into position and get used to your touch. Massage the baby oil onto their skin. Not only does this feel yummy, but prevents wax from painfully sticking to hair and makes it much easier to peel or scrape off. Once you're fully into the scene, you can get into the wax. Waxing: I start generally about 18 inches above the persons skin. Get a good full layer all over their body. Be careful about dripping on the sides as the skin is more sensitive. Once you've established an initial layer, you can have more fun with sensations, bringing the wax lower or higher to build heat (the higher the wax, the more the splatter). You can paint the wax on, let it drip slowly or just wash it over them with a ladle. The feet are also lots of fun. On the stomach, be careful of the belly button. Sometimes it's good just to put a plug of wax in there or cover it with a cotton ball. Removing wax: Wax is likely to still be slightly soft and pliable. If you're peeling the wax, getting as much in one motion is a very awesome feeling for the sub. Slowly start at the edges and pull up, gathering the wax as you go. If you scrape, just press down gently and pull towards the wax and down. There's always a few drips and splatters to scrape off. If you've used oil, it should come off fairly easily. Don't try to get off every piece of wax- a good shower will do the best job at that. After the wax: Once you've removed the wax, I sprinkle babypowder all over the skin. The skin is very sensitive at this point and the cool softness of the powder feels like rose petals just falling down. You can rub the powder in and smooth over the skin. This will help dry off some of the oil as well. If you want to reuse your sheet, put it in the freezer to freeze the wax, take it outside and get as much as you can off by shaking or pulling it. Then toss in the washer and drier to remove the rest.

MaamJay -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:11:21 PM)
I love wax play, both as a Domme and a sub. My favourite is to use an old paintbrush and paint designs or words ... MJ's SLUT painted across a pink, freshly-spanked ass has appeared quite often! Having several different coloured candles on the go allows One to be quite artistic. And the wax cools a bit on the brush so is less of a shock for the inexperienced pain sub, and is more controllable than blobs. However, I remember the first time I used it ... My boy was bound and blindfolded following a delightful Valentine's day dinner ... and the gasp he gave when I struck the match to light the candle was absolute music to My ears LOL! As to the removal, well, living without near neighbours makes that easy ... outside and stand on an old mat and have it flogged off! Even more exciting if a light plane happens to fly overhead at the time grin. If it has to be inside due to inclement weather, can use a drop sheet to stand the sub on and that makes it a bit easier to clean up. As a sub i just adore having my shaved pussy painted artistically with wax and then lightly flogged off ... not cumming is the hard part! Maam Jay aka violet[A]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:13:07 PM)
Oh ha just had to add, we did a wax scene with my partner as the bottom back in Feb- we're STILL finding wax splatters on his collar and inside the pockets of the toybag. It's fun.

Casie -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:15:41 PM)
Oh wax play is just amazing!! I can't rember my first experince. However I'm sure it was by myself lol.

grlneedstolearn -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:23:47 PM)
Thank you LA and MaamJay for providing some general ideas, i never thought how far you could actually go with the waxing. As with you boy MaamJay, i was bent over the bed, hooded, thigh/wrist cuffs, and my spreader bar. Apparently, according to him, i moved a little once i felt the first drizzle, but than i relaxed. i could have sworn that i was staying still [:D]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:27:58 PM)
Yeah when I do wax play, it's pretty much the WHOLE scene- a crock pot full of melted wax, a few application tools, and then just me, the wax, and the bottom for a few hours. I used red wax since it was Feb last time and he looked like a very very bad CSI victim at the end of the application :) Really I could go on WAY too long on wax play so I'll hush up.

evilpet184 -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 8:49:36 PM)
i have been with my Mistress for quite some time as a live in slave. i get to enjoy many forms of torture, but candle wax is my favorate. She really enjoys tieing a string around the tip of it, so that it is standing strait up. then She would poor the wax on the tip and allow it to drip around the sides and down to the balls, etc. it is nice to know that body oil makes it easier to remove the wax afterwards. although the Mistress does enjoy seeing me in pain from peeling the wax from my pubic hairs, sometime evilpet

grlneedstolearn -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 9:26:49 PM)
My Dom used the red one, he has that color along with blue, purple, and black: all of my favorite colors, of which he didn't know until yesterday.

kyraofMists -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/27/2007 10:31:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Really I could go on WAY too long on wax play so I'll hush up. No need to on my acccount; it is a pleasure to read about something that the writer is passionate about. I didn't really have any interest in wax play until I read a post of yours many months ago about it. Now, I would love to try it someday. Knight's kyra

MariaB -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/28/2007 2:46:03 AM)
I enjoy wax play and like Lucky Albatross says, you can make it in to an entire session if you use your imagination. You can make coloured wax by melting crayola crayons into melted paraffin wax. Crayola is a natural substance that melts at a low temperature. Some coloured candles have poisonous additives and even plastic in them and glitter candles contain elements of metal so will burn. Try using soya candles. Although they are not as hot as paraffin wax, the substance massages beautifully into the skin and can be used as an excellent and safe lubricant. Try painting the wax on with sable paint brushes. You can form tattoo like pictures in wax or write a message on the subs arse! People who I paint say it feels like they are being branded. The other thing I do is ‘smudging’. You need a large melting pot and paraffin wax beads. Blindfold and oil the sub and leave him/her naked and comfortable to quietly ponder in their own thoughts because to do smudging, the wax is going to need your attention for a good 5 minutes. After all the wax is melted turn off the flame and then stir the wax continuously whilst it cools. As soon as the wax starts to solidify, test the heat on the inside of your arm. If its too hot for you then its too hot for him/her. Sit the pot somewhere stable but close to the sub and then remove the wax in its entirety with both hands. It will feel fairly hot but not enough to burn. Quickly place the wax onto the sub (breasts are great for this) and mould into the shape of the skin. I find this is the one wax play that makes the sub space very quickly. After the wax has set you can lift off the wax in one and you will now have a wax mould! You will not be able to pour this amount of wax onto the body because if it is still thin enough to pour, then it will burn. Pouring is fine for small amounts of wax but this amount of wax build up requires the wax to be cooler.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/28/2007 3:45:42 AM)
I Love reading from people how shocked they are that wax play does not hurt like they were expecting it to. Also about the use of a knife incorperated into it. For me Wax play started off innocently as a teenage from making something called Huricane candles. Basically a glass bottle that serves as a candle holder. Me and the Girl Next door were spending a lot of time making these things, we eventually ended up dripping more Wax on ourselves then we spent time making the candles. Knives came in really handy for wax removal. Hey, this stuff all feels really great. Arms, legs, back, stomach... all the non sexual places. At least this was the start for me. Found out the caressing the skin with a knife was an awesome sensation as well. I'm a little indifferent in doing wax play by itself. Great to incorperate into body massages along with body oil, ice cubes, spray bottles of hot and cold water, knife and other objects with texture.. including brushes, combs.. a little light fire play with bic lighters as well. One thing enjoy is the feeling of hot wax being poured on the back of my neck running down my back. Damn it, I'm really wanting to play this morning at the thought of all this..

eyesopened -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/28/2007 3:50:27 AM)
my first wax experience got me hooked forever. Messy? sure but a good lotion (i don't care for oil, the oil is messier than the wax) helps remove wax from skin as does ice. Since i like knives (but not cutting) i think i would really enjoy having the wax removed via knife and now i'm going to go into my head for a while mmmmmm...

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: First Candle Wax Play (4/28/2007 6:17:07 AM)
For protecting surfaces, I usually use shower curtain liners ($2 a pop at Walmart) or plastic tablecloths from the dollar store. They're cheap enough that you can just roll them up and throw them out when you're finished. For wax, I have a paraffin bath, which keeps the wax cooler than a crock pot does (crock pots can be a little too hot if you're not careful). I also raid the dollar store for jar candles - you can often get the tall "religious" candles as well which work great - you just want to light them ahead of time and let them develop enough melted wax for good pours. They tend to get fairly hot, so if you want it a little cooler, blow the flame out and let them sit about 10 minutes to cool.

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125