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hisannabelle -> RE: Fight Club? (4/27/2007 10:24:42 PM)

greetings ladyellen,

i love the movie and a lot of the dialogue...i think it presents some really interesting viewpoints/issues, and it's just an amazingly entertaining movie. that said, i'd suck at being in a fight club...it's a good thing i don't write checks with my mouth because my ass sure as hell can't cover them most of the time ;) i don't think i'd really want to, either. it's rare for me to feel that kind of aggression.

that said, i do not necessarily agree that our world is feminized...although i definitely agree with what one? some? of the other posters mentioned about one of the issues in the movie being feeling stuck in the corporate machine, or in doing things that make no sense to you, feeling like you have no purpose, etc. maybe it's just that i don't feel a fight club would provide that sense of breaking out of the mold, for me, that it does for the movie.

annabelle.




Vendaval -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 12:02:51 AM)

The first rule of Fight Club is, "Do Not Talk About Fight Club"!  [sm=boxer.gif]

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic
   I wouldn't join such a club.  Physical combat isn't something I do for fun.  Besides, they had rules and in a real fight, there aren't any.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 12:23:06 AM)

Will read thread and reply later. For now, just a reply to the OP questions.

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Who would like to be a member of Fight Club, as depicted in the film?


As depicted, no. I'd like to pull blows to the head and choke-outs; they're unneccessary risks, and I don't think that rule will detract from the spontaniety or genuineness of expression, relative to the other rules (like tapping out).

Do that, and you can count me in. [sm=boxer.gif]

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Who would, (seriously now) find such a club enjoyable?


I would. The Fight Club itself, but not the rest of it.

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Would find it affirming of their masculinity to go beat up someone else who also wanted to fight to affirm themselves?


I've never associated fighting with my masculinity. I'd just like the practice, plus it feels great to go to that place. Guess it may be a guy thing, mostly, though. Call it physical meditation.

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Who feels that such a Club is needed to provide a manly outlet in a feminised world (according to the film!)?


Lots of regular blokes might feel that, though I don't. But I didn't get the vibe that this is the only thing Fight Club is about.

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Second to that, have any of the guys feeling that way found something else that fulfils the purpose, and if so, what?


What purpose? [:D]




seeksfemslave -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 12:40:33 AM)

Haven't seen the film and I dont like the sound of it, but I do sometimes feel I might like to "kick ass".
The only problem is if I did the sod might kick back, harder.
I definately wouldn't like that !




LadyEllen -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 4:15:18 AM)

Some interesting replies, thank you - though it seems a lot more gals are up for a scrap than guys LOL!

Seeks - you really must see it! Its wonderful and will appeal to your worldview I promise! (also see Trainspotting if you havent yet - that wont appeal to your worldview, but its an excellent film).

The film is not just about the fight club of course, which is a metaphor along with Project Mayhem in the context of the film for "doing real shit for real" as some posters are fond of saying on various threads here from time to time and for breaking away from our pre pack society in which even we come as flat packs, and so for living life. But then we all know its a great film, so no further review or critique is necessary I feel.

My questions really amount to whether guys in particular, feel that they need an outlet for themselves in a suit and tie, repressed and sanitized world where they feel under rigid societal control? And whether this outlet is rage and anger at their situations which might benefit from the catharsis depicted, of mutually agreed aggression? And as shown later in the film, whether this catharsis might be derived from strong bonding on a tribal basis with a violent aim against others, with a charismatic leader as the unifying factor?

I was watching it last night as per the OP, and it struck me how damned far removed I am and ever was from all that, and from the male bonding thing too - which is rather convenient for me as things turn out! So I was interested to find out whether guys actually would find such a set up an attractive proposition. Whilst I can agree with a lot of the dialogue in the film about the state of society, and the overall moral of the story, I just dont see anything much agreeable about participation in the action.

E




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:10:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pollux

It's really not about men struggling for an identity in a feminized world and fighting and all of that (at least I don't think so....)


Agree. It doesn't really have anything to do with a masculine identity, the way I read it.

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To me, it's about people who've become numb to life.


That's definitely a major part of it. I'd say there's an aspect of breaking out of the societal mold, discovering yourself and discarding the illusions of society.

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To answer your questions though, would I join a fight club, find it enjoyable, etc.  Nah, probably not.  I hate pain...   [:D]


There's pain, and there's pain. How you respond to pain, and how you feel about it, is very context dependent. I usually start cussing and jumping about if I stub my toe, but when training, I inevitably end up with bruises all over my body, usually without ever registering any significant amount of pain.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:11:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I've never seen that movie. Pussys, they should have used firearms.


You should see it. It doesn't have anything to do with fighting, really, IMO.

Using firearms? How would that be useful for "friendly tumbles"? Tasers, maybe.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:18:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

It wasn't the boxing that I found compelling in that film, but the elements of social sabotage.  Monkey wrenching has been an interest for a long time.


The social sabotage was interesting, and in my teens I would've been all over that if there were such a thing in my area. Even back then I didn't "get" base vandalism, but this stuff was rather tastefully done, most of it. I can certainly get why people do this kind of thing (monkey wrenching, as you call it) in schools; that's like all the stuff that makes you feel trapped magnified a hundred times over, because there's no point to it, unlike in adult life.

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I wouldn't join such a club.  Physical combat isn't something I do for fun.  Besides, they had rules and in a real fight, there aren't any.


This wasn't about physical combat in the sense of real fighting. It was about a good, old fashioned tumble, just slightly upgraded. It's for fun, a kind of physical meditation, not a form of combat. Nobody in their right mind would get into a real fight if they didn't have to, at least if they know the first thing about one.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:24:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Marla Singer: My God. I haven't been fucked like that since grade school.


Or, in the alternate version, "I want to have your abortion".

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It ireally is such a tremendous movie filled with incredible dialogue ......


Definitely on my top 10 movies of all time list. And the dialogoue is part of that.

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Tyler Durden: It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.


That's really one of the things I liked about bushido. The idea that, by setting aside all other concerns in a conflict, including your own life, you are liberated; truly free. No baggage, including yourself. A person can do a lot in that state that s/he couldn't do in other circumstances.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:36:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

it's rare for me to feel that kind of aggression.


Violence doesn't need to imply aggression, although most people do need to get worked up in order to attack another person, at least unless that person is willing.

This is one thing that many people forget when considering self-defense. Training with aggression leaves you at a disadvantage if forced to defend yourself, as you will need more time to summon up that agression than you have at your disposal in such a situation.

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of the other posters mentioned about one of the issues in the movie being feeling stuck in the corporate machine,


It's not just about the corporate machine, although that has become a fairly visible part of it. It's really about society itself being the largest machine of all.

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or in doing things that make no sense to you, feeling like you have no purpose, etc.


These are the fundamental questions in the movie, in many ways. We are pacified, and live in a big, broken machine for our entire lives.

What's the point? What are our real values and true selves? How does this mesh with society?

To what extent is anything in modern society (or, to a lesser extent, social interactions in modern society) real, useful or in any way anything other than "necessary illusions" that keep us pacified and ignoring everything that matters, or should matter, to us?

On some level, it's like he creates a proxy for himself, that leads him to break with his illusions and uncover his inner self, before finally breaking the final illusion- the proxy itself- and then the movie ends as he's just realized that there's a middle ground between living the lie and nihilistic chaos.

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maybe it's just that i don't feel a fight club would provide that sense of breaking out of the mold, for me, that it does for the movie.


For me, it would just be fun. It doesn't break out of the mold, although for some, it can provide a sense of being alive that they don't have while stuck in the mold.




Aswad -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 5:57:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Some interesting replies, thank you - though it seems a lot more gals are up for a scrap than guys LOL!


You think men have a feminine mold to break out of? Sheesh, women have been living in that mold for ages, no wonder some of them are more driven to break out of that mold than the men are. I'm really curious where the mold comes from, because I don't think it originated with women themselves, even if many of them reinforce it.

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My questions really amount to whether guys in particular, feel that they need an outlet for themselves in a suit and tie, repressed and sanitized world where they feel under rigid societal control?


I think we can sum the issue up in "outlet for themselves".

Society takes away individual sovereignty, control and the direct effort-result coupling, while giving comfortable illusions in return. Between norms, mores and laws, there isn't a whole lot of room left for oneself. And I don't think this is specific to men, in any way.

It's kind of, but not quite, related to what Paul Graham said in "What You Can't Say". You make a kind of space (the "fight club") where you can express parts of yourself that you can't express in the company of anyone but people of like mind; munches are another example of this. For some things, like those Graham mentions, one can make a mental space for it, although many fail to take the time to do so, but in some cases, you need a physical space, and sometimes even a physical outlet.

And in some cases, you may want to just "unleash" some primal aspect of yourself that can't be safely brought off that leash, but heck, we're all consenting adults and can make the risk-benefit arithmetic for ourselves, right?

Fighting, to take the example from the movie, doesn't really need to pose a large risk in order to be satisfying in that regard. And it brings pain to the table, something that most people in regular society carefully isolate themselves from and frame as something "bad" that shouldn't be part of their lives.

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And whether this outlet is rage and anger at their situations which might benefit from the catharsis depicted, of mutually agreed aggression?


Meditation. Catharsis. Outlet. Pick 0-3 of the above. [:D]

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And as shown later in the film, whether this catharsis might be derived from strong bonding on a tribal basis with a violent aim against others, with a charismatic leader as the unifying factor?


Actually, that's kind of where it starts going the wrong way, which is what causes him to confront himself and realize what is going on. It turned into just another machine, with the people reverting to oppressed sheep again. New flavour, different wrapping, but still the same shit.

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Whilst I can agree with a lot of the dialogue in the film about the state of society, and the overall moral of the story, I just dont see anything much agreeable about participation in the action.


Art is only meaningful in the context of the person experiencing the art. Everyone brings their own interpretation to the table, which is what gives it value, and part of what defines quality art, for some definition of art.

As for the action, it isn't about the surface; it's a somewhat absurd-ish example to give a canvas upon which to put the message, parts of which will be blanks that need to be filled in.

Think of it as a koan.




NorthernGent -> RE: Fight Club? (4/28/2007 7:25:35 AM)

I boxed for 5 years from 10 to 15ish for a youth club in Durham. We used to fight around the country. I always saw it as a test of my spirit. The competition was really with myself rather than the other lad. I loved boxing and still love watching it, there's nothing better to find out if you're made of stern stuff than when you're getting clumped around the head off some lad trying to take your head off.

It's like all sports, a group of lads or lasses form a team and pit themselves against the other team to see what he/she is made of. After the event, you shake hands and go for a beer with the other team. In a nutshell, people bonding through a shared experience of having the bollocks to get in a ring and take a few punches.

Is it a reaction to social control and attitude adjustment? Quite possibly. If you have to box to get the adrenaline flowing and develop your spirit, then what does it say about the lack of alternative outlets for self-possession?




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