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new, still deciding - 4/22/2007 9:13:21 PM

Leigha23

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Hi all, I am new and still seeing if I will stay. Trying to learn what it is I want and have been lucky for the simplefact that many have helped me find my way somewhat. Unfortunately I am trampled over with emails from people who say they like my profile when there was nothing in it (when I first joined I added basics just to get it going not sure if I were to stay and the basics didnt match up and not one person noticed). Due tothe fact that I have added my pictures the path of staying must be here but the pictures have resulted in an incredibly overflowed inbox and still no one reads my profile and catches on and ts a tad bit perplexing to rant the least.

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/23/2007 6:10:57 AM

Aubre

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Welcome to collarme. Don't get discouraged.

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/23/2007 7:47:18 AM

m0rgan

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hello, and welcome. you can add filtering to your email (don't do it yet, as i may email you) which will send the dross into your bulk mail folder, but it isn't infallible, you still need to keep an eye on that folder, i nearly missed 3 nice messages that went there for unforseen reasons. you do have to kiss a lot of frogs. i shall check you out now! good luck and best wishes.

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/23/2007 8:19:40 AM

bayboundse

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Good luck and welcome to collarme.

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/23/2007 9:04:33 AM

m0rgan

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well, leigha23, i can't find your profile, so you will have to contact me, if you wish to. good luck again

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/24/2007 1:59:28 PM

SxxxS

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Hi all... I've been here a little while and am not atll sure if I'm going to remain... the contacts that I've had so far have been very disappointing....

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/24/2007 4:56:50 PM

m0rgan

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if the way you have been attracting attention is not working, then you are not attracting attention!! do you post on the boards and join in? a well placed remark on some of the boards (particularly the ones that people you want to attract attend regularly) on almost any subject, or a sardonic aside, will act as a signpost to your profile for a long time when the gooduns see it. if they then go to your profile, and see it blank, with no pic, they will think you dull or deformed. if you reconstruct your profile, and put up a pic or two (not your knob) and make a few cryptic remarks on your journal rather than whining, you will be beating them off with a stick (and thats my object) in no time. have some gumption. seekers look for interesting and intrigue. view my profile for inspiration, but don't steal any of the women i talk to all the time, and use the boards for conversation, seekers also search the boards to see what you have posted, and your opinions. i have met some fantastic women here, not all free, but the chance to speak to them was a pleasure earned, not handed to me!!

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RE: new, still deciding - 4/25/2007 1:01:02 AM

acquiesce93

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Once I added my pictures, I had to go back and put some restrictions in my profile. I encourage you to do this, even if you're a sub. Things like no one liners, and being more specific in what you're searching for. It makes them think twice, and yes, troll-types still reply, but it's not nearly as flooded and ridiculous as it was when I wasn't so strict about my requirements.
As far as a bit of help, the filters section of collarme mail really does work a few wonders. One thing I blocked out was people with no profile and that helped quite a bit. This is a free and easy site, and it's also just the nature of the internet that people who can't read still respond to pretty pictures, so there's really no way around it completely. heh.

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