Nogimmicks
Posts: 38
Joined: 6/15/2006 Status: offline
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A contract is only valuable, at least to my mind, to avoid or at least mitigate any future claims of abuse. It is a way of establishing that the relationship we share is recognized by both of us as being a bit different from the norm. I like having it in the file so that if she wants to reinvent the relationship later on, I won't have to face a "vanilla" police officer explaining some red marks on her butt. I have, sadly, had that experience in the past and was very glad to have had her notarized signature on file; it probably saved me a night in the hooskow. As for the rest, time duration and what have you, that is a question of knowing the person you are with, it isn't any different than any other relationship, it will end if people are not meeting each other's needs. Ideally, it would last forever and a day.
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