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completenz -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 8:28:00 PM)

For us, sex is ALWAYS part of our play.
C & c



slavejali -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 8:39:27 PM)

What's sex?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 8:53:16 PM)

I can do with or without.  I prefer having the choice based on the energy, not because of stupid rules or laws that say it's ok to fondle and kiss but not penetrate.



SimplyMichael -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 9:00:22 PM)

They are one and the same to me.  Even if I am making the sweetest of love to someone it is only meant to be the contrast to the brutal beating to follow.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 9:08:40 PM)

Why have half a loaf when you can experience the whole?..Tempting



MsRose -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 9:22:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Why have half a loaf when you can experience the whole?..Tempting


What if I'm not all that hungry? I can always come back later and finish the rest when I feel like it.



myobedience -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 9:51:56 PM)

I am a sensually erotic cumslut cockwhore ... he is a sensually erotic sexual controller...... we match very well. He demands it and I melt into him.  When not playing, He is my strength, my rock, my joy,  and I will remain faithful, loyal, open, honest, sincere and obedient.  He will remain the same... and have all the control.
 
I have had scenes, as a bottom, when there was no sex, with tops.
It was for a specific purpose and scene.  I was totally complacent about it.
 
I will NEVER do a long distance relationship ever again where I cannot touch, be disciplined and know I  am wanted, cherished and adored for who I am.



SlutMuffin -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 10:01:00 PM)

BDSM is sexual by it's very nature, but I don't have sex when I scene.  There are too many people who claim to enjoy BDSM, but really just want to get laid.  If you make it known that you're not going to have intercourse, you eliminate a lot of the players.  (Plus, I'm just not willing to risk pregnancy and STD's with someone I'm scening with.)

However, if I were married to my Master, Daddy, or Dom; I'd probably have sex during a scene.  I would belong to him and that would become his decision, not mine.

Hugs,
muffin  ;)



OedipusRexIt -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/19/2007 11:25:23 PM)

I think a clear line exists, in answer to the OP's question, between people who scene, and those who don't.

Interesting.  As a not-scener, some of the thoughts are ... entertaining.  Just goes to show how many flavors there are.



Celeste43 -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 4:52:32 AM)

No s & m, bondage and sex here.



MellowSir -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 5:34:33 AM)

Sometimes no, oftentimes yes. The bdsm in and of itself is erotic and exciting, hence the excitement likely becomes sexual as well. Big turn-on for the submissiveto not only be at your mercy but at your pleasure as well....some separate the two, others, like me, mix the two. All a preference.



sillygirl09 -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 6:00:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

They are one and the same to me.  Even if I am making the sweetest of love to someone it is only meant to be the contrast to the brutal beating to follow.


Ummmmmmm Michael that gave me the yummy shudders!



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 8:02:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

They are one and the same to me.  Even if I am making the sweetest of love to someone it is only meant to be the contrast to the brutal beating to follow.

Gulp!



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 8:48:45 AM)

So when you are e-mailin with a new person when do you start discussing sex ??
on the 3rd day with something like I want fuck in your ass while a vib is in your pussy like it has happen to me so many times before ????
I like sex just as much as the next person but behavior and e-mails like that I find tacky and rude am I wrong here ??



szobras -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 10:56:08 AM)

 I choose to include sex as part of the relationship that I seek. I do not define myself as a sadist nor masochist. Sex is not a nessesary element on every occasion, it depends on the person, the relationship dynamic, and the activity. 
My views on sexual activity also are not limited to intercourse as a definition, and will say that I find WIITTD to have a very sexual, and erotic,energy to it. Honestly, it part of the attraction for me.



WhiplashSmile -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 11:33:13 AM)

For a long term or even short term relationship, there needs to be more than Sado/Maso play.  Friendship, sex and affection.  Also, I love exploring other non Sexual or pain involved BDSM activities as well.  Amazing when we were all kids, how we could role play or act out all kinds of things.  However, when we get older we stop doing this and perhaps only focus on acting out Pain/Sex act based roles. 



spankmepink11 -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 11:58:52 AM)

Sex is a very large part of play for me, which is why i don't play casually with strangers. (not to say there has not been an exception or two). I do find, that even when i play casually with  a Dominant, Top, Sadist, who i know and trust, while actual intercourse may not occur, i'm generally grateful for the opportunity to release sexual tension by being allowed to perform orally on said friend.  (note, this is strictly my personal preference and has nothing to do with "entitlement")
 
quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

They are one and the same to me.  Even if I am making the sweetest of love to someone it is only meant to be the contrast to the brutal beating to follow.


\   I love that both you and LA have the knack for speaking volumes in very few words.  I've found that over the years, my desire for "sweet love" diminishes...unless of course it follows a "brutal beating" 



Elorin -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 1:32:00 PM)

M & I are very sexual in our play, though he will spank or hurt me at home w/out following it up w/ sex.
Most of my play other than w/ M is at public parties and such so I don't incorporate sexual activity in it. As a top, I have had two lovers that were also bottoms to me on occasion. I have never had a submissive who I considered a lover, though I did use strapons with them.

Guess it boils down to how you define sex.

~E



whisperedsighs -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 2:40:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HarleyKitty69

I want both
I want play with sex and then I want it without it
it just depends on my mood.....
The pain can arouse me and all I want to do is cum or it has a cleaning effect on me; on my emotitions and soul.......
I don't know if that makes any sense to you all .....


Makes sense to me.  I play both ways also.  Sometimes I just need the endorphin release, sometimes I need the cathartic release of being brought to tears in a scene, other times it is purely sexual.  Much of this also depends on the person I am scening with.




whisperedsighs -> RE: Is Sex part of your play? (4/20/2007 2:42:27 PM)

See still stalking your posts.....[8D]



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