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esotericjon -> possible switch in making (4/23/2005 1:11:01 PM)
Hello All have heard from several of my frinds that I have been displaying dominant qualities, and was suggested i learn about it. So, where to start? help? lol dazed and confused Jon

siamsa24 -> RE: possible switch in making (4/23/2005 1:12:44 PM)
Read, read, read and ask, ask, ask (at least that's where I always start [:)])

Interesdom -> RE: possible switch in making (4/24/2005 10:50:01 AM)
Sit and think about yourself and what your needs are in life. Many bottoms and slaves - and even some subs - have dominant qualities. That doesn't make you a dominant in BDSM terms. You need to consider what it is you want; who you are.

FuriousAngel -> RE: possible switch in making (4/24/2005 11:06:09 AM)
I'd question deep inside as to how you truly feel about what people suggest you may be. Every third 'Dom' I speak to claims that I display Domme characteristics and that I am misguided in my submission. I'm not suggesting your desire to research further is wrong. Just offering that you may want to truly consider if it's how you feel, or if it's others expressing what they feel you are that is making you question yourself. Good luck!

ProtagonistLily -> RE: possible switch in making (4/24/2005 1:34:43 PM)
quote: Hello All have heard from several of my frinds that I have been displaying dominant qualities, and was suggested i learn about it. So, where to start? help? lol dazed and confused Jon You know, I'd be suspect of that kind of free advice. Allowing yourself to be lead around by what other people think can be a real head fuck if you let it. Lily

SirKenin -> RE: possible switch in making (4/24/2005 10:33:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Interesdom Sit and think about yourself and what your needs are in life. Many bottoms and slaves - and even some subs - have dominant qualities. That doesn't make you a dominant in BDSM terms. You need to consider what it is you want; who you are. I am really liking what was said here and would like to second it. I have nothing to add to it either.

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